Dating Gurus' Ugly Girlfriends and Wives exposed

[characternote]

Funny you confirm what i said before i even read your post.

Yeah, so a man has a x huge numer of notches but literally nothing to show for in life. Memories fade, and taking the "rarity " out of sex and relationships comes with a prize; sex with a women becomes less and less exiting and "special " .

Even if you manage to feck a 100 or a 1000 women, after a dryspell you'll be at the same place as any other incel is; at zero.

There's a reason why some men with abundance of LMS choose to have a wife, a family and be happy with it.

It's not something I think about much, but I kinda see what you mean and have probably had somewhat similar thoughts before.

I remember when I was very young and had only slept with like 3 girls and was just starting to learn about 'game' and stuff and there'd be PUA's online and stuff who were bragging about banging 500 girls and I'll admit I honestly felt painfully jealous. It was like my blood pressure would raise and i'd get a cortisol spike lol!

I jumped into game head first and read and watched everything that exists out there. Premium programs, books evrything. In hindsight it was all basically a load of nonsense (since you simply can't negotiate attraction and make a girl like you) BUT it at least got me appraoching tonnes of girls. It gave me the push. And over the years i'm now close too a triple digit lay count.

But, it doesn't really mean much.

The funny thing is that that jealous feeling completely disappeared after about 10 lays! When I'd banged like 2 girls I remember thinking 'Hopefully i'll also be able to bang 500 girls and then I'll be on his level and won't feel crap when I read his posts' but as I say, that happened at about 10 lays. After just 10 lays, I could listen too a guy claim to have banged 1500 girls (john anthony?lol) and i'd feel zero jealous/anger whatever. I just didn't care. (or in his particular case, also didn't believe him lol). It would be like someone telling me they went out for really nice meals lots this year.

Also a good point about feeling 'incel' again after a dryspell.

Shortly before 2 Christmas's ago, before i started banging a very hot young girl who's pics I shared here, i'd been on a dry spell for like 3 months and I felt like anincel despite having banged about 70 girls at the time, with the national lifetime average being lke 6! It almost becomes like a weird addiction where you're chasing that first ever high or something haha

And like chowdah said, some guys grow bored of it very quickly. My super slayer good looking friend i've mentioned a lot has had a girlfriend for like 10 years. He only very rarely cheats when like the girl is a literally 10/10 model. But i've lost count of the number of times he's turned down sex from a really hot girl. Like an 8. Probably about 3 times per weekend for the last decade lol. He's just not bothered. I think a lot of people just aren't impressed with some PUA dude who bangs lots of girls. They all have hobbies and kids and all kinds of other stuff they seem to care more about. I don't even tell most of my friends about some of my escapes nowadays. I honestly think that they think i'm a bit sad and people who try to get laid loads basically care too much about it haha

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Funny you confirm what i said before i even read your post.

Yeah, so a man has a x huge numer of notches but literally nothing to show for in life. Memories fade, and taking the "rarity " out of sex and relationships comes with a prize; sex with a women becomes less and less exiting and "special " .

Even if you manage to feck a 100 or a 1000 women, after a dryspell you'll be at the same place as any other incel is; at zero.

There's a reason why some men with abundance of LMS choose to have a wife, a family and be happy with it.

I'd rather die with the memories of the many women I've fukked but that's me. Every instance of sex for me was "special" because it involved me. People have different desires but mine was always variety.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Even if you manage to feck a 100 or a 1000 women, after a dryspell you'll be at the same place as any other incel is; at zero.

Maybe, but as you stated..

Having 1500 women will teach you how to go from talking to fecking. So seducing wise you are a master

It's better to start from zero and have the skills to break it, than not. It's like being stuck in the woods in the middle of winter, the one who knows how to start the fire is better off.

What about late bloomers? Increasing notch counts is for the young 15-25... What about a 35 year old with a notch count of 4?

 

[Gamisch]

I agree . A man who had more than 50 women will have a "certain amount of swag". Hypothetically the next category could be 500+. It takes a certain amount of effort to pull that off. You would expect that this man knows certain things/skills that allows him to pull whenever. Whether the latter is the actual truth is something I doubt.

On the other end of the spectrum there's a man with 4 notches. Not all notches are made equally. Perhaps he was married /LTR-ed ,four times a 4 year relationship ? It its the "most negative 4" (4 short flings over a 20 years timeline) such a man has other ,deeper issues.

Still , even if you are 35 you can always get more notches. Women older than 30 will be easier to bed than younger women.

I understand (like described above) that a man with a low notch count will be somewhat jealous when he hears these high numbers. But a man that did had his fair share of women wont be impressed. Similar to a poor man dreaming of eating at a 5 star restaurant, while at the same moment a millionaire might prefer McDonald's dollar deals .

I don't know if such memories remain that powerful. I have a more vivid picture of my LTR's than my ONS's / short and fast flings. But as usual; thats my personal opinion.

 

[SW15]

Women older than 30 will be easier to bed than younger women.

Men often needs to drop their standards in some way to have sex and have relationships with women 30+.

Todd V is a very good case of this. He's an over 35 guy who used attraction-seduction tactics to get an extended relationship with a very average looking woman close to his own age.

 

[Manure Spherian]

As you can tell by the responses to the thread: men hate players. Instinctively a player is a liability for a community. In my player heydays I've been assaulted multiple times by bf's, fathers ,brothers, orbiters and even (or especially) female friends.

Actually I’ve noticed in my life players are not only men who wants to and in many cases screw other men’s women, sisters, and daughters, but are men who are deceitful and annoying to and mistreat other men. I haven’t met a player who wasn’t a bastard to other men.

I’m also surprised male family members allow players near their female members. But that could because the average western man has been so wimped down that he thinks it’s “old fashioned” to police his women.

I can spot a player quickly. In the future, when my daughter is of dating age, it will take great restraint from throwing one off my stoop if he happens to come by.

I appreciate you recognizing the liability

 

[kavi]

A Player to a Pimp is a joke. Players have no effect on women who is under the spell of a true Pimp aka Alpha Male.

 

[IKO69]

I know John Anthony Lifestyle is a controversial figure but I do think he has a good point. Why should those of us who wish to date and sleep with beautiful women take advice from "gurus" that can't get one themselves. People cope too much when they say "well average girls have better personalities". In my experience, that is BS. Whether you disagree with me or not, I just thought that this reveal was very telling.

Thanks for posting the video - I didn't see it the first time around for whatever reason.

My takeaway was I didn't think the wives were really that bad - weren't stunners but I think a stretch to call them ugly. It's not always about looks - maybe they are really sweet? In some circles it sounds hella gay but for a serious gf/wife you want just as beautiful on the inside (if not more so) as she is on the outside. If those guys are physically attracted to their wives and still have a great relationships I think that is far better than getting some baddie who stresses you out and causes a lot of problems.

The talking head's chick was a baddie no doubt about it. In my opinion he wouldn't qualify as a "chad" type guy which puts to rest that business that you see on here about the ****in looks. A lot of people would consider him plain average.

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Went through some of the comments, lololol yeah no comment on her possibly being hired. Don't know the guy so I don't want to be critical about him ---- all I know is with a lot of this stuff you can appreciate the content and find value in it within putting these people on the pedestal. A lot of times they are very imperfect and do the opposite of what they are telling you. Ever hear that expression Don't meet your heroes?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I would rather NOT have an LTR with a 9 or 10. They are hard to deal with and usually only bring good looks to the table. The 9s and 10s are good for banging but not LTRs

LTR with very pretty girls is stressful. They know they are hot & expect to be treated like princess. High maintenance. But. we all know it.