Credos - my FR journal

[Credos]

Just got a text msg: (not everything was typed right but I'll just write what she meant, her english isen't flawless)

Oh no, I'm really really very very very sorry!!! I wanted to see you, and I didn't know that I'll be working this late!! Don't be angry, I'm SORRY! I didn't want to work on your nerves... I'll come to you next week if you want =<



I won't reply today to show I'm rather pissed, but in good will I'll respond positive tomorow, next week one more last try..

I understand that she has to work irregular times, but a small message that she'll be a lot later isen't to much to ask in my opinion.

Ok, so I went to bed at about 0:30 am, she started msging me at 1:30 am, but I was already asleep. She started with: Hey...You're okay..? :S
then: Answer pleeeeaaaaase!
Then she called me at about 3 am telling me how sorry she is, that her cell didn't have any battery left etc etc etc... I told her it's ok, I understand, I just didn't understand why she could msg me she had to work longer, again she went over that battery thing (I was kinda still asleep)... She kept babbeling and asking questions for 20 minutes, not that I minded but it was late . We set up a new date for next week saturday, where she doesn't have to work (though I do have to study, exams in 2 weeks from now :nervous: )

After the conversation on the phone, I send her a message, considering I understand she has irregular hours of work, and these things happen. So I send her:
Me: It's really strange, I don't know why, but i really like you...

*she probebly started typing when she got this, Cause I send another message which she replied later:*
Me: It's probebly cause I'm attracted to you
she: Me too! It's not strange, it's normal... (sorry I've drank a lot) I'm happy to have met you! I want it to be saturday =)
She: Why didn't you kiss me yesterday... I'm attracted to you too, you're a lot of fun and you smile all the time... That's cool

*That's cool?... french women I guess , anyway I responded with:*
Me: I don't kiss a quality girl on the first date, only girls i want for 1 day... I was going to kiss you tonight though...

*making her feel good and bad at the same time *
She: Wow, a gentlemen!! But I don't like "Its just probably because I'm attracted to you"... It's just for that why you like me? I'm kidding xD, Have a good night and i send you a kiss if thats ok for a quality girl like me xD... see you saturday

*here I'm thinking, don't put yourself on a pedastal girl, you haven't won anything yet...*
Me: Dork =P, good night!

 

[Credos]

Ok so you probebly read (or you haven't whatever) that I was planning to meet up with my ex again... Considering my childish behavior has been going on long enough, I thought it was about time to setup something, have a good talk and try to forget about old times and be friends again. So I msg her that wanted to meet up. She msged back she thinks thats a great idea and that she'll msg me monday(thats today) before 1 pm to setup a date for tuesday.

The time arrives, no msg, no problem, its not like I was waiting for this, just expecting any sign of life... 2 pm, still nothing, strange, but whatever... 3 pm: I call "In" and setup a date for tomorow, msg my ex: Hey wendy (this isen't her real name, I just call her that, acting like I already forgot her name), maybe its better we cancel about tomorow, I mean you probebly forgot (considering you didn't message me before 1 pm like you said) and its just gonna be wierd, maybe its for the best this way...

5 mins later she msges me back telling me she didn't forget but thats it ok if I want it that way... (trying to make me feel bad again, but I doesn't affect me anymore) Now this is where my mind freezes... REWIND, If you didn't forget, then you're not sending on purpose, that means you're trying to mess with me, now this is the point where a person would answer NO i'm not, so that means she's lying and did forget... See here the very reason I dumped this girl, all comming back again... Lies and messing with peoples head... AFC? You should get frustrated by these kind of people, only solution, dump them before you fall for them, lesson learned, anyway...

I'm getting pissed again and start typing this cr*p that's going on in my head in a msg, and suddenly it comes to me. Eather way, if she's doing it on purpose she doesn't respect me, if she's lying, she doesn't respect me.. This is the kind of person that will never learn, the only thing you're doing by telling them this cr*p, is showing what kind of retard you are for carring about it... I never send the message, the only thing I did, is delete all the left over emails I had from her, and finally saw that I've trully changed into a better DJ than I could ever Imagin

 

[Microphone Fiend]

niceness, I was about to post but you did it on your own. I knew a girl just like that. The one I was with got a kick out of me proving myself or constantly making the extra effort for her. When I started having new successes with women, at first I wanted to go back to her and try my hand again, then I wanted to rub it in her face but when decision time came I did the mature thing and just moved on. They are usually your ex for a reason...

Also though, if a girl doesn't get back to you; don't call asking her why she didn't call or in your case, call to cancel... Just make new plans and forget about her. When/If she calls later on, wanting to go out, tell her she took too long or you didn't have time to wait around for her.

Congrats on the successes on the previous page btw

 

[Credos]

niceness, I was about to post but you did it on your own. I knew a girl just like that. The one I was with got a kick out of me proving myself or constantly making the extra effort for her. When I started having new successes with women, at first I wanted to go back to her and try my hand again, then I wanted to rub it in her face but when decision time came I did the mature thing and just moved on. They are usually your ex for a reason...

Agreed

Also though, if a girl doesn't get back to you; don't call asking her why she didn't call or in your case, call to cancel... Just make new plans and forget about her. When/If she calls later on, wanting to go out, tell her she took too long or you didn't have time to wait around for her.

Yea thinking the same thing, normally I make sure I get a backup plan, sometimes I get offgaurd though, that's when you get flaked on... Anyway, I do think a final call to see how the situation is going to be is best, which I didn't do with the french chick... (Being offgaurd I guess, it was stupid but I learned my lesson, anyway I couldn't make a backup plan cause there wasen't much other stuff to do considering my exams are coming up...)

Congrats on the successes on the previous page btw

Thanks mate, much appreciated , doing the best I can

 

[Credos]

Ok tonight, went eating with "In" she's playing games with me, but I know just how to handle it, don't give her any attention and only show my best side... We get some pizza and go to the park with this great view. We talk a little, she gives me this stupid flower, and I'm just doing the "she wants me, she doesn't want me". I force it to end at "she wants me" and I kiss her... It was fun so, anyway we return to the bar cause I needed to make some prints... She said she's in love with me, but I don't believe too much about it... Anyway at the bar everybody is busting her about her being with me... Again...

They're asking if we're togheter now, after a while she says yes (whatever, I didn't give my opinion, cause then its no)... We're going to my place, lay on the bed, try to sleep a little. I'm thinking, don't make a move, she won't want to, but after 10 mins I can't hold myself... We end up nude, and my c*ck on her *****... We would have f*cked, but I couldn't get in her, she was to tight... I've never, EVER had this before! She probebly wasen't wet enough, or didn't want it enough... We tried for like 5 mins, then we BOTH got tired of it and just gave up... I was looking at her, she's a smoking HB9 seriously, she should be a model! But the more I talk to her, the more I think she's retarded, so in intellegence scale she's a 4 and that would be a high rating... Don't get me wrong she is smart (qua studies), but when you talk to her, she comes off really dumb!

Anyway, Officially she's written down as I scored her, but considering I didn't really get in her, that's only half a score ... Too bad, but I'm not willing to put too much in her anymore, I'm thinking: In-out and dump... To much messing with my head and to big of a hypocrite. The french chick got my attention now, she's 85% my type (qua looks, and intrests) at the moment and improving

 

[Credos]

Tonight will probebly be the last party of this schoolyear... Exams are comming up and I still got a sh*tload of work to do... Anyway, if I stop reporting for a while, its because I'm busy studying/completing exams :yes: Though I am meeting up with the french chick again this weekend

 

[Credos]

When I got home, "In" msged me she left her watch at my place, and asked me how long I was staying home (I just said 2 minutes, I was staying like an hour or something )

She hasted herself to my place, we talked a bit, I wasen't aiming for anything... Anyway, you know what happens if you're laying next to the hottest chick in town, and you know she wants you . I got all touchy, we ended up naked and giving it another try... 30 Mins later we were finally done , it was good sex, but she's a real bad kisser :C

Ow ye I finally realised why she comes over this dumb, its her accent togheter with the giggling about stupid things (things people normally wouldn't really laugh about...)

 

[Credos]

You know the strange part about yesterday, I constantly had the feeling of a deja vu... At first I thought it was funny, but then I just kinda freaked me out... It wasen't like I could tell what was going to happen, but everytime something did, it felt like it already happened before

Ow well, anyway, I'm not gonna do much tonight except study, eat and watch a movie i think...

Dilemma's on who to invite , I would invite "In"... But then again, in a way I don't want to , I especially don't want to risk me falling in love with her, cause she most certainly got the looks of one of the hottest chicks I've ever seen. So I probebly go to my best mate and watch "Casino" there, this will probebly one of the last times I see him in a while and its his birthday soon.

I'm gonna buy him this woolen sweater (You know, those that sting in your neck, very irritating indeed ), cause those are the most hatefull gifts you can ever get . We alwayse buy each other the most stupid, or annoying gifts every and then make fun of the sucker who got that gift

 

[Credos]

tomorow I got a date with the french chick again... Don't know what to do yet though (movie, pool, drinks, icecream...), I already know she wants me to kiss her. She was wanking that 8 pm was kinda late cause afterwards she has to sit 3 hours on the train (excuses), so I msged her back that she should stay at my place and I'll sleep on my bench... She send me back a message with some sarcasm that she doesn't believe I would sleep on the bench and that she could have my bed. I msg her back: "Don't you believe me =)? why?"
she: "sleep where you want, just be quiet then! Wanna bet you won't sleep on your bench?"
Me: Ok lets bet on that, how about the loser pays the winner an icecream?
she: I'm on a diet, but since you'll lose, I accept xD Hihi

Win win situation, and she's kinda showing she'll pull me into that bed anyway . And the funny part is, I can give her to quote: "I alwayse let myself lose against a girl, its rude not to ". I'm loving this situation already

 

[Credos]

LR: The french chick

tomorow I got a date with the french chick again... Don't know what to do yet though (movie, pool, drinks, icecream...), I already know she wants me to kiss her. She was wanking that 8 pm was kinda late cause afterwards she has to sit 3 hours on the train (excuses), so I msged her back that she should stay at my place and I'll sleep on my bench... She send me back a message with some sarcasm that she doesn't believe I would sleep on the bench and that she could have my bed. I msg her back: "Don't you believe me =)? why?"
she: "sleep where you want, just be quiet then! Wanna bet you won't sleep on your bench?"
Me: Ok lets bet on that, how about the loser pays the winner an icecream?
she: I'm on a diet, but since you'll lose, I accept xD Hihi

Win win situation, and she's kinda showing she'll pull me into that bed anyway . And the funny part is, I can give her to quote: "I alwayse let myself lose against a girl, its rude not to ". I'm loving this situation already

Ok yesterday, we went for pool, which she had never done before so I had to try to explain which was really difficult, but we had fun though. Afterwards we went to the cinema and watched "Iron man". I took us those duo seats, the ones you can sit against each other. Thats when I first kissed her. I tried to keep a conversation going as long as I could...

All in all it was fun, thuogh it was rather stupid I payed everything cause normally I never do that, next time she'll pay her share, I'm not social funding .

When we arrived at my place, we didn't waste to much time, we just drank a cola, eat some chocolate and go to bed. I made out some more with her in my room, got to the bathroom and took of my clothes till I'm only standing in my underwear and then make out some more with her on the bed. We're both getting kinda touchy, she asks me to put out the lights, which I do. She's undressing too, 5 minutes later, we're both completly nude . I already feel that she wants me to put my c*ck in without a condom so I quickly say: "It might be better that I put on a condom"... She just replied: "Whatever you want, its fine by me"... We only did 5 minutes over it, it was REALLY good, but she had pain so thats why we had to stop.

10 minutes later, after we talked a little more, i start to get touchy again, this time I pull her on me, she grabs my c*ck and puts it in without a condom (I know!! it was very stupid...) At the end of the day we did it like 4 times, every time was "Flawless", but 3 times without a condom . None of the times I came, but the last time I just told her to finish off and she did so no harm done ... I do have to go get myself checked, this is the second girl I fvcked this week, without protection... (Very very very stupid, I know!)

 

[Effington]

She can still get pregnant...

 

[Credos]

She can still get pregnant...

They both take the pill, the only thing I'm worried about is diseases... though I doubt it, anyway, well see right...

 

[Microphone Fiend]

No no no. I should give you neg. rep for hitting it raw. Trust me, I KNOW how good it feels to have unprotected sex, but get the girl tested and then go raw with caution. There are much more detrimental resutls that a morning-after pill cannot clear up. Can you imagine living with something for the REST OF YOUR LIFE because you went raw for 15-20 minutes of pleasure? It's just not worth it man. Hopefully you will do some thinking from the time you get tested to the time you get your results so that it sinks in. Two girls unprotected already? That is some foul sh!t, rookie mistakes man. You just had sex with every sexual partner these two girls have had thus far pretty much. Don't come this far and throw it away by being a slave to the pvssy. Keep yourself thinking logically.

Other than that, props on the Lay, you are picking up steam.

 

[Credos]

No no no. I should give you neg. rep for hitting it raw. Trust me, I KNOW how good it feels to have unprotected sex, but get the girl tested and then go raw with caution. There are much more detrimental resutls that a morning-after pill cannot clear up. Can you imagine living with something for the REST OF YOUR LIFE because you went raw for 15-20 minutes of pleasure? It's just not worth it man. Hopefully you will do some thinking from the time you get tested to the time you get your results so that it sinks in. Two girls unprotected already? That is some foul sh!t, rookie mistakes man. You just had sex with every sexual partner these two girls have had thus far pretty much. Don't come this far and throw it away by being a slave to the pvssy. Keep yourself thinking logically.

Mye I you're right, pff, yesterday I felt ok, but today I'm kinda nervous, I mean the french chick has done 10 guys and she's only 18... Ffs, after I banged her 4 times, then she tells me sh*t like this :crazy:... Anyway I'm probebly nervous for nothing, but I did get a wake up call. I'll get myself tested as soon as I got time (with the exams and all, its really a crappy time for this).

From now on I'll apply a new rule for myself: No raw sex with women until:
- I've seen test results (which indicates she has nothing... DUH!)
- I've been with her more than a month (Or in other words, I'm serieus with this girl...)

I guess I earned the stress for being so reckless... Ow well, lesson learned, now hope it doesn't cost more than stress

 

[Credos]

Small update on things, seducing women has never been easier, eyecontact, close... sigh... I want somewhat more of a challange, you know, somebody who's intrested but doesn't let me bang her the first week. Cause if I can fvck em in a week, that means others can too, and thats just not a person you wanna have a relationship with, cause they are too easy you see .

Anyway, the french chick stoped texting me, she send me a mail that she has no more money on her phone, anyway I tried to setup a date, but she hasen't replied (and that was friday), so I just stopped putting effort in it, she has to make the next move or it ends here.

"In" wants to be in a serieus relationship, I'm not feeling much for her, only that she's the hottest girl I've ever seduced, but qua content, she's really far away of what I'm looking for in a girl... I'm thinking of keeping her as backup, though that rather mean, I couldn't really care about it anymore, I've been used, so why shouldn't I return the ways...

All in all, it's all chill, Ever since I started my journal, life has been great on me, exams are going smooth so far. After that I'll go wakeboarding etc (doing the stuff that I wanna do, being impulsive). Yeah things are going great

Later mates, I'll report later on again

 

[Credos]

Lol ok, there was this singing contest on tv which my mom was watching recently, and she yelled everytime there was an HB, now first time I walk in the room, this armenian girl called: "Sirouhi Harutyunyan" (aka Sirusho )....... Holy mother of god, if there is a type a girl i like and I wanted her to look like somebody, it would be her... Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezus, she's hot, HB9.5 minimum! Anyway I couldn't help myself to google it (i know i know, she's hot, so I have the right , you should do it too if you wanna know how she looks...). This girls boyfriend looks like the BIGGEST afc I've ever seen... How the hell can a guy like that score with a quality girl like this? She's extremely hot, smart (studies in the university), social,knows alot of languages (which shows intellegence),can sing (which is a nice addition to what i really want but hey its alwayse welcome) and my age...

Anyway it doesn't matter, cause I'll never meet her, but anyway the thing is that an AFC, or at least an ugly basterd considering I don't know how his personallity is, is dating this chick... That's just not right!

I'm smart, I got ambitions, I'm not a bad looking fella, I'm fun and well educated!

as a conclusion: I can do ALOT beter if an ugly dude can do it... hell if a guy like that can get quality like her, then I can get even better (then again, she is top of the bill, but there's alwayse a flaw... Somewhere, there's another guy happy he dumped her, there alwayse is...)

So next time I see girl with mindblowing calibre, I'll just remember what I just discovered and know that it's not imposible, you just gotta find the right broom to sweep em of their feet, then you can have anybody ...

 

[Credos]

Ok I was doing this research for a project for school for my exams next week, and as the subject happens to be Manipulation, I found some serieusly intresting stuff!

My ex GF, the only girl I've ever loved, is a EXTREME manipulative WH*RE . Here's the article, read it and weep...

1)There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator. You make a statement and it will be turned around. Example: I am really angry that you forgot my birthday. Response - "It makes me feel sad that you would think I would forget your birthday, I should have told you of the great personal stress I am facing at the moment - but you see I didn’t want to trouble you. You are right I should have put all this pain (don’t be surprised to see real tears at this point) aside and focused on your birthday. Sorry." Even as you are hearing the words you get the creeped out sensation that they really do NOT mean they are sorry at all - but since they’ve said the words you’re pretty much left with nothing more to say. Either that or you suddenly find yourself babysitting their angst!! Under all circumstances if you feel this angle is being played - don’t capitulate! Do not care take - do not accept an apology that feels like bull****. If it feels like bull**** - it probably is. Rule number one - if dealing with an emotional blackmailer TRUST your gut. TRUST your senses. Once an emotional manipulator finds a successful maneuver - it’s added to their hit list and you’ll be fed a steady diet of this ****.

2)An emotional manipulator is the picture of a willing helper. If you ask them to do something they will almost always agree - that is IF they didn’t volunteer to do it first. Then when you say, "ok thanks" - they make a bunch of heavy sighs, or other non verbal signs that let you know they don’t really want to do whatever said thing happens to be. When you tell them it doesn’t seem like they want to do whatever - they will turn it around and try to make it seem like OF COURSE they wanted to and how unreasonable you are. This is a form of crazy making - which is something emotional manipulators are very good at. Rule number two - If an emotional manipulator said YES - make them accountable for it. Do NOT buy into the sighs and subtleties - if they don’t want to do it - make them tell you it up front - or just put on the walk-man headphones and run a bath and leave them to their theater.

3)Crazy making - saying one thing and later assuring you they did not say it.If you find yourself in a relationship where you figure you should start keeping a log of what’s been said because you are beginning to question your own sanity --You are experiencing emotional manipulation. An emotional manipulator is an expert in turning things around, rationalizing, justifying and explaining things away. They can lie so smoothly that you can sit looking at black and they’ll call it white - and argue so persuasively that you begin to doubt your very senses. Over a period of time this is so insidious and eroding it can literally alter your sense of reality. WARNING: Emotional Manipulation is VERY Dangerous! It is very disconcerting for an emotional manipulator if you begin carrying a pad of paper and a pen and making notations during conversations. Feel free to let them know you just are feeling so "forgetful" these days that you want to record their words for posterity’s sake. The damndest thing about this is that having to do such a thing is a clear example for why you should be seriously thinking about removing yourself from range in the first place. If you’re toting a notebook to safeguard yourself - that ol’ bull**** meter should be flashing steady by now!

4)Guilt. Emotional manipulators are excellent guilt mongers. They can make you feel guilty for speaking up or not speaking up, for being emotional or not being emotional enough, for giving and caring, or for not giving and caring enough. Any thing is fair game and open to guilt with an emotional manipulator. Emotional manipulators seldom express their needs or desires openly - they get what they want through emotional manipulation. Guilt is not the only form of this but it is a potent one. Most of us are pretty conditioned to do whatever is necessary to reduce our feelings of guilt. Another powerful emotion that is used is sympathy. An emotional manipulator is a great victim. They inspire a profound sense of needing to support, care for and nurture. Emotional Manipulators seldom fight their own fights or do their own dirty work. The crazy thing is that when you do it for them (which they will never ask directly for), they may just turn around and say they certainly didn’t want or expect you to do anything! Try to make a point of not fighting other people’s battles, or doing their dirty work for them. A great line is "I have every confidence in your ability to work this out on your own" - check out the response and note the bull**** meter once again.

1) fvck this happened to me alot, even the crying, I once told her: "Damn girl, I bet you can cry on command!" she was about to beat me then

2)Christ, seen it a billion times, she even just flaked on me and then gave me excuses about it...

3) she tried that, didn't really work though... She alwayse got pissed then

4) Ow ye, it happened alot, she didn't want me to do it, but nag your head off about the problem...

 

[Credos]

Part 2

5) Emotional manipulators fight dirty. They don’t deal with things directly. They will talk around behind your back and eventually put others in the position of telling you what they would not say themselves. They are passive aggressive, meaning they find subtle ways of letting you know they are not happy little campers. They’ll tell you what they think you want to hear and then do a bunch of jerk off **** to undermine it. Example: "Of course I want you to go back to school honey and you know I’ll support you." Then exam night you are sitting at the table and poker buddies show up, the kids are crying the t.v. blasting and the dog needs walking - all the while "Sweetie" is sitting on their ass looking at you blankly. Dare you call them on such behavior you are likely to hear, "well you can’t expect life to just stop because you have an exam can you honey?" Cry, scream or choke ‘em - only the last will have any long-term benefits and it’ll probably wind your butt in jail.

6) If you have a headache an emotional manipulator will have a brain tumor! No matter what your situation is the emotional manipulator has probably been there or is there now - but only ten times worse. It’s hard after a period of time to feel emotionally connected to an emotional manipulator because they have a way of de-railing conversations and putting the spotlight back on themselves. If you call them on this behavior they will likely become deeply wounded or very petulant and call you selfish - or claim that it is you who are always in the spotlight. The thing is that even tho you know this is not the case you are left with the impossible task of proving it. Don’t bother - TRUST your gut and walk away!

7) Emotional manipulators somehow have the ability to impact the emotional climate of those around them. When an emotional manipulator is sad or angry the very room thrums with it - it brings a deep instinctual response to find someway to equalize the emotional climate and the quickest route is by making the emotional manipulator feel better - fixing whatever is broken for them. Stick with this type of loser for too long and you will be so enmeshed and co-dependent you will forget you even have needs - let alone that you have just as much right to have your needs met.

8) Emotional manipulators have no sense of accountability. They take no responsibility for themselves or their behavior - it is always about what everyone else has "done to them". One of the easiest ways to spot an emotional manipulator is that they often attempt to establish intimacy through the early sharing of deeply personal information that is generally of the "hook-you-in-and-make-you-sorry-for-me" variety. Initially you may perceive this type of person as very sensitive, emotionally open and maybe a little vulnerable. Believe me when I say that an emotional manipulator is about as vulnerable as a rabid pit bull, and there will always be a problem or a crisis to overcome.

5) being supportive, then act really b*tchy about it afterwards? Been there done that!

6) I remember this one: We went to the cinema and there she was, telling me that this cinema (in her town) is extremly big. I answer with the one in my town, the new one is also big, that she should see me. This is where the drama comes in: YOU'RE STUFF ALWAYSE HAS TO BE BETTER DOESN'T it?! Christ can't you never be supportive about my stuff?
Thats a combination of 4) and 6) right?

7) She alwayse atleast had a headache... drama drama drama, alwayse, everywhere we went. My brother busted her balls once, we went home, no sex just crying about a stupid comment... That reminds me of once I was banging her, suddenly she starts to cry, WHILE we were doing it, about that its alwayse what I wanted... I mean what the fvck? if she wanted it deferently she just had to ask, I would have done about anything for her!

8) Yep alwayse drama. I remember why I had to wait so long to bang her aswell, Her ex boyfriends "USED" here BLABLABLA


God what was I thinking, adn the thing is YOU MAKE yourself BLIND to these attributes in the person you love! Reading what I just replied to all the marks gives me butterflies to think I dumped her... One day I had enough of it, and even hurt me that day, that I dumped her. Thinking back to then, I sure have learned alot and become alot better in everything! I haven't had a manipulative B*tch since her, every once and a while a women tried, I just started laughing with it and NEXT her. In the end, thats the only best thing you can do about it, just don't get stuck with them, cause they fvck you up real good! It was a hard lesson to learn, but it thought me alot about who I am and what I want .

 

[Credos]

Haha I love exams, really I do... I never stress, cause you know, its my first time, I can alwayse redo any exam for the second time this summer, that doesn't bother me. All the girls are running around really stressy and thus are SOOOOOOO easy to seduce...

You just make sure you got alot of phone numbers before the exam period starts, then you give them text msges like: "when is your next exam? Mine is then... Good luck with studying"
she'll reply, alwayse, considering you are giving her attention and being supporting for her, which almost no other person is doing for her: "Blablabla then, I'm really stressed blablabla, good luck to you too, thanks for the message"
then you just reply: "hehe, I know you'll do just fine! Say, how about you and me go do "something, perhaps get a drink" after the exams?" Or if you send after her exam (thats a few days later): "how was your exam? say, lets get a drink after the exam period, to cellibrate that its done!"

Bamn, many many many dates for after the exams, all with different women, and all it takes is a few messages (with almost no rejections considering they already gave you their phone number, showing intrest)... Just don't overdo it, send a message max every 3 days (that means leaving a week in between is best), else its creepy/needy considering they're not even dating you (yet)...

 

[Credos]

Bah reading the last page I had 2 f-closes, the rest was all babbling crap, back to field reporting . This one is how its NOT DONE, by my good mate "Ji" hahahaha

So "ji", if you remember, the jealous guy, he had a chance with the VERY nice looking girl, a blonde (which isen't my type in general but this one is really fine looking, you know she has something special about her...) and he SCREWED up yet again... It was really horrible, this girl is great you know, fine looking, fun and smart, combined with a nice rack... What more can a guy of my age ask?

So he finally somehow managed to get a date with her. He didn't know I had intrest in her for a long while, and I don't blame him for trying, considering I wasen't. Now he doesn't have a place to stay in our college city, so he convinced her to let him stay with her, considering they were going to a party and afterwards there were no trains back to his town.

Anyway he goes over to her place, its just the two of them, they make spaghetti togheter, fun date you know. They're chatting up and everything is going FLAWLESS. They're chatting, and she shows a lot of intrest, he even convinced her to let him sleep in her bed after the party . She replied: "Ok, no problem, but you have to know, I get kinda touchy when I'm drunk"... COULD IT BE MORE OBVIOUS... This is where we (his friends) knew he was getting laid. See the guy isen't dumb, ain't ugly, (doesn't have manners but ow well everybody has his flaws) and he's fun. Why wouldn't chicks dig him you know!

Anyway they go to the party, he hasen't kissed her yet, but hey no harm done so far. Anyway he tells me the story so I'm slapping him cheering for him and making sure he goes for it, considering its a quality girl. Now what does the idiot do, he finds another "SL*T" that he didn't know and starts to make out with her... He then leaves the party to make out some more with her outside, where nobody knows where he is. The HB comes to me and asks if I know where he is, I still don't know about any of the sh*t thats going on, in my mind he's still going for her. I tell her I though he was with her, she replies: "Nah, he left with some other girl and he got the card for my jacket, and I wanted to go home"...

IDIOT Argh! He had a FREE lay, with a quality girl, and he fvcked up, he traded it for a makeout sesion with a sl*t...

Anyway, I'm going for her now, and I'm rubbing it in what kinda idiot he is, he replied to me: "she didn't even want me", and there I'm thinking of the quote she made: "Ok, no problem, but you have to know, I get kinda touchy when I'm drunk". What the hell