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[izza]

Bonhomme,

You fish? I've always wondered what it is that people love about that sport... just the peace and quiet I guess?

Also, are you French?

Izza

 

[bearfan34201]

Best post I have ever read. WOW


Seriously man, I've been dreaming of the day to graduate highschool(class of 07 ) and get out there and travel, meet people, EXPLORE!!! LIVE


I'm reading a book called On The Road, basically about a guy going on a cross country trip across america looking for himself and meeting people and experiencing things along the way. This is originally why I rented the book anyways.

Point is, My english teacher saw I was reading it. And what she said really struck a chord.

She told me that shes happy that I'm reading the book, that soo many kids go to a college in the area or in state and come home after 4 years.... and thats it.. They get a job in the area and stay around here and live. And she said that is depressing. She goes.. "what I'm trying to say is.. Your young, Go out, Explore, Meet people, Your best days are the summers in between college and after. What this book is trying to tell you is Get the **** out of Dodge. Ya know!" -english teacher.

I realized I don't want to be what so many others my age or older are doing. Living in Illinois or in this area. I want to get out and explore, I want to meet people, I travel in a plane and I just want to stop whereever we are so I can get out and experience something new. I hate being trapped in this town with the same people. It's just not for me.

I have a list of a few things I want to do before I'm 30. A couple examples.

I want to backpack europe, I also want to move to Florida and bartend on the coast somewhere for a few years and live it up down there. I want to be a sports agent, I got a lot of things to do!


I just got a question for fingers. How do you afford to go to all these places? Do you have any friends that travel with or do you go alone.

Thanks for the post. Really opened my eyes

 

[Styles]

What is this

 

[tmpgstx]

Great post and summarizes the same things i too have learned. It's amazing how you end up learning alot of the same things in life when you place emphasis on success and are always climbing higher.

It really comes down to not doubting yourself and having that 'unspoken winner's attitude'. It is an intangible that people pick-up on and are seeking validation from you, instead of the other way around.

Having that 'presence' when entering a room already gives you a big advantage.

Imagine your body language at a time when you felt totally unstoppable. Looking at yourself from a birds-eye view, how did you project yourself? You should be giving off this same projection most of the time.

Conversation? I like the "you must touch that emotional g-spot with excitement, inspiration and compassion" phrase lol. It's all about being a good, charming conversationalist while painting a picture.

It does, however, usually take a more mature girl to appreciate these more matured aspects of a man.

 

[SkillzthatKillz]

Good post man!

However as I read through the rest of the thread I had to laugh. If your asking fingers for advice I think you missed the point of what he was trying to say. Think for yourself, is all I’m saying.

 

[afrojiggles]

as usual ano great hit

 

[Holland]

Brilliant!
Thanks for posting!