If it's going to take more than 3 messages to get it done, call.Todd Preston said:Good one Squirrels...!
There must be a course on texting for best results.
a buddy of mine got offended cause I wouldn't tell him right away via text how much money I got for a down payment for a potential car I was looking @, this text was all a few days ago.squirrels said:If it's going to take more than 3 messages to get it done, call.
Don't hold endless text conversations with girls. With anyone for that matter.
I've got a friend who loves to have conversations over text-message and sometimes I just want to slug him.
I think this is important because some girl you don't even know is probably going to feel the same way. Who the hell wants to waste their time building rapport with a stranger via text?I hate texting guys unless its a situation where its like "I'm coming over" or "im at club a,b or c". I noticed some of my guy friends like to text me like I'm a female and I'm not digging that
besides that if your a dude dont f***ing text me
I'm not against kissing/fvcking any random hot chick either. When I'm meeting new women however, I never let on that I would.bugsquish said:I guess that's where we are different. I actually will kiss/fvck anyone, if I find them physically attractive
Precisely! My method DOES result in most girls wanting to be your girlfriend. The idea is that if you use it with several women at a time you will always be getting some action from someone. Waiting 3 dates to make a move with Veronica isn't such a big deal if you just got some with Betty the night before. Or maybe the reason you are blasting out of the date so quickly is to meet up with another chick who is dying for it. Nice complications to have sometimes.bugsquish said:If it's possible to take a girl home and bang her on a first date then why would you want to drag things out? Your method might be better if you are pursuing a LTR but even then I'd say no kissing on a first date is a recipe for LJBF.
Todd Preston said:Wrong...(sigh)
I'm texting to TRY and get a future meeting.....HIGH SCHOOL kiDS spend time texting back and forth...i don't do that.
yuppaz said:Ya dude, your acting kinda @ss on here...what Pimp-Sicle said is dead on. The girls straight don't know you. I can get a phone number (real one) from a girl (yes in the DAY!!! I rock daygame squirt and told you more time because I f*cking learned the same lesson the hard way) in 5 minutes too, BUT you know what? She doesn't know you from Adam in such a short time and why would she WANT to get together with you again. I look good, I approach strong, sometimes really direct (for attraction and cuz I feel like it) I can get her wet in 5 minutes, but the next day she will have forgotten those feelings and mistrust herself if she didn't also have a logical reason to follow up with you. Your problem is that your game sucks. Get used to spending more time talking to her and getting to know her better and make plans in person right then and there when her interest level is high. Texting first doesn't work well.
You really don't deserve the knowledge people are giving you because you act like a needy, know it all *****. Fix the b*tch out of you then try meeting women.
Slickster said:.....
Pimp-sicle said:Its funny how you come here asking for help because clearly your doing something wrong, then when you get money advice from guys like Slickster you start with the "sigh" and acting like you know what's up...comical to be honest.
Explain this to all of us: Whether you text, call email etc after you have got her contact information, WHY would she even bother getting in contact with you for a future meeting when you didn't show her anything to get excited about when you initially met?
Chicks flake, don't call back etc etc for 3 reasons and 3 reasons only:
1) Lack of Rapport
2) Lack of Comfort
3) Lack of Attraction
If your don't know how to effectively flirt, find common ground and capture her interest why would she want to go on a date with you?
Sure flaking happens to the best of them from time to time, but the same holds true in those instances too; for whatever reason if your not getting a response from the target girl your not doing your job right when you first met.
PIMP
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
yuppaz said:Just a lil **** sucker troll...... no wonder women hate you & think you have a tiny ****
I think it is YOU who needs to learn some respect. Pimp-sicle has been around here a long time and he knows his sh!t. If you have something to "add" to the topic please do. We are all here to learn.john siegal said:I disagree....I think he probably flirts very well...(if you can get a number in 5 mins or less...you have to have something goin).
(Funny how these "Studs" come on here thinkin they know everything... when the truth is... they know very little).
Chick Flake out for NUMEROUS reasons...but you want us to believe their are only 3 main ones.
- What about Timing....
- What about the Husband or Boyfriend...
- What about the Kids...
- What about the Race or Ethic differences...
- What about the implications of Sex...
- What about assumptions....
- What about....(oh hell there are hundreds of reasons)
...but you want us to think "you are special" for coming up with 3!
bah ahhahah
I'm sick of you so called "COACHES" hazing people who come here for help....especially when your Kibitz is Weak and Lanquid (i know you didn't go to college...so look those words up knot head).
Please...learn some respect before posting (read the rules).
Thank You!
If her interest level is high (like thru the roof high) then none of ^^^^^^ this sh!t matters. She will move freaking mountains to be with you.What about Timing....
What about the Husband or Boyfriend...
What about the Kids...
What about the Race or Ethic differences...
What about the implications of Sex...
What about assumptions....
What about....(oh hell there are hundreds of reasons)
Slickster said:I think it is YOU who needs to learn some respect. Pimp-sicle has been around here a long time and he knows his sh!t. If you have something to "add" to the topic please do. We are all here to learn.
Still waiting siegal.......If you have something to "add" to the topic please do.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Jeffst1980 said:If you're out just to get a quick phone number, you should expect these kinds of results. Think about it: most girls, if they happen to be single, have guys that they like from their own social circle/ workplace--guys that they already see on a regular basis. How can a STRANGER expect to generate enough interest to trump every other guy she knows in 5 MINUTES?? This is just not realistic.
If you want to go out and get quick phone numbers like this, understand that you need a REALLY high volume of them before you start enjoying success. You may be charming, but you're still a STRANGER, which is a recipe for flakiness.
If you want to maximize the probability of seeing a chick again, ALWAYS PUSH EVERY INTERACTION AS FAR AS IT WILL GO! If it's during the daytime, ask if she wants to duck into a cafe with you real quick, or come to run a shopping errand with you--an instant first date. If it's at night, don't bother with a phone number unless you've at least made out with her. Escalation doesn't have to take HOURS; you can get a makeout pretty quick if she's feeling you.
I'm going to respectfully disagree with Slickster on the subject of waiting to make a move. I think the timeline for building sexual tension is much quicker, and you can mess things up for yourself if she thinks you're too chicken to kiss her on a date. Also, women get attached to guys through sex--I understand waiting if you're not sure how much you like her, but if you really want to keep a girl around, there's no real reason to wait to have sex, once you know that she's ready. But, different strokes for different folks.
The biggest piece of advice for you? If a girl doesn't text you back, the WORST, most chump-ish thing you can do is lecture her. A high value male simply would not give a f$%k if a RANDOM GIRL THAT HE MET FOR FIVE MINUTES didn't text him back. All of your actions should be in line with those of a high value male- that is the "prize" mentality. Delete the number and smile to yourself, knowing that it's her loss, not yours.
Hey, I'm not saying you HAVE to wait to make a move. I'm saying that if you are good at seduction and creating sexual tension you will drive women CRAZY by making them wait. You have to let the pot simmer to get the best flavors. When you figure that out you are in for some great fun.Jeffst1980 said:I'm going to respectfully disagree with Slickster on the subject of waiting to make a move.
bigneil said:As far as escalating the night you get their number, you should. But sometimes it's not possible to take them home that night (they are with friends). In that case, I've found that giving them a kiss on the cheek (or maybe lips if they turn their head as you do) is enough to establish something.
If they've given you the number, that gives you permission for the cheek kiss. In fact, you should make a habit of giving all women a kiss on the cheek as you leave, not just young or hot ones. You can feel a lot about the chemistry when you do. I once had a girl get blown away by the cheek kiss, and we lived 1000 miles apart and both of us knew we had to see each other again based on the fireworks we felt.
Also, if you get their Facebook info (last name), sending them a FB email (NOT a friend request) is good because they see your photo when they hear from you. After a few emails you can switch to phone/text and then ask for a date. I prefer to ask for dates on the phone so you hear their voice and can read them.