Chicks aren't Calling or Texting Back ? ? ?
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If it's going to take more than 3 messages to get it done, call.Todd Preston said:
Don't hold endless text conversations with girls. With anyone for that matter.
I've got a friend who loves to have conversations over text-message and sometimes I just want to slug him.
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a buddy of mine got offended cause I wouldn't tell him right away via text how much money I got for a down payment for a potential car I was looking @, this text was all a few days ago.squirrels said:
He then called me yesterday, but I was at work, then he proceeded to text me that he was offended that I wouldnt tell him and felt like I didn't trust him and that he was trying to help me lookblah blah blah.
i replied back saying "ill call you when im done with work"
It's really getting out of hand when "MEN" are texting like females over petty issues.
I hate texting guys unless its a situation where its like "I'm coming over" or "im at club a,b or c". I noticed some of my guy friends like to text me like I'm a female and I'm not digging that
besides that if your a dude dont f***ing text me
Todd Preston,
Sounds like you are hell bent on text game rather than modifying your current 5 minute rapport building exercise that isn't working.
Read Solomon's last blurb in the post above.
During first conversations I've had many chicks make comments about me hitting on them even though clearly I'm not. It's as though their ego is being hurt or they get confused. We are chatting and having a great convo but for some reason I'm not biting. They are waiting for me to make a move or show my intentions but it doesn't come. So they make a sassy comment about me hitting on them almost to "remind" me that I should be making a move. I'll just smile and say something like "Eww you're gross!" and carry on. It's at that point you know you got 'em.
As for LJBF, if you are a cool and fun guy and doing things right, girls will be crawling over each other and breaking up with their bf's just be around you.
Sounds like you are hell bent on text game rather than modifying your current 5 minute rapport building exercise that isn't working.
Read Solomon's last blurb in the post above.
I think this is important because some girl you don't even know is probably going to feel the same way. Who the hell wants to waste their time building rapport with a stranger via text?
I'm not against kissing/fvcking any random hot chick either. When I'm meeting new women however, I never let on that I would.bugsquish said:I guess that's where we are different. I actually will kiss/fvck anyone, if I find them physically attractive
During first conversations I've had many chicks make comments about me hitting on them even though clearly I'm not. It's as though their ego is being hurt or they get confused. We are chatting and having a great convo but for some reason I'm not biting. They are waiting for me to make a move or show my intentions but it doesn't come. So they make a sassy comment about me hitting on them almost to "remind" me that I should be making a move. I'll just smile and say something like "Eww you're gross!" and carry on. It's at that point you know you got 'em.
Precisely! My method DOES result in most girls wanting to be your girlfriend. The idea is that if you use it with several women at a time you will always be getting some action from someone. Waiting 3 dates to make a move with Veronica isn't such a big deal if you just got some with Betty the night before. Or maybe the reason you are blasting out of the date so quickly is to meet up with another chick who is dying for it. Nice complications to have sometimes.bugsquish said:
As for LJBF, if you are a cool and fun guy and doing things right, girls will be crawling over each other and breaking up with their bf's just be around you.
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Todd Preston said:
Its funny how you come here asking for help because clearly your doing something wrong, then when you get money advice from guys like Slickster you start with the "sigh" and acting like you know what's up...comical to be honest.
Explain this to all of us: Whether you text, call email etc after you have got her contact information, WHY would she even bother getting in contact with you for a future meeting when you didn't show her anything to get excited about when you initially met?
Chicks flake, don't call back etc etc for 3 reasons and 3 reasons only:
1) Lack of Rapport
2) Lack of Comfort
3) Lack of Attraction
If your don't know how to effectively flirt, find common ground and capture her interest why would she want to go on a date with you?
Sure flaking happens to the best of them from time to time, but the same holds true in those instances too; for whatever reason if your not getting a response from the target girl your not doing your job right when you first met.
PIMP
Ya dude, your acting kinda @ss on here...what Pimp-Sicle said is dead on. The girls straight don't know you. I can get a phone number (real one) from a girl (yes in the DAY!!! I rock daygame squirt and told you more time because I f*cking learned the same lesson the hard way) in 5 minutes too, BUT you know what? She doesn't know you from Adam in such a short time and why would she WANT to get together with you again. I look good, I approach strong, sometimes really direct (for attraction and cuz I feel like it) I can get her wet in 5 minutes, but the next day she will have forgotten those feelings and mistrust herself if she didn't also have a logical reason to follow up with you. Your problem is that your game sucks. Get used to spending more time talking to her and getting to know her better and make plans in person right then and there when her interest level is high. Texting first doesn't work well.
You really don't deserve the knowledge people are giving you because you act like a needy, know it all *****. Fix the b*tch out of you then try meeting women.
You really don't deserve the knowledge people are giving you because you act like a needy, know it all *****. Fix the b*tch out of you then try meeting women.
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LOL...apparently Reading 101 is not required on this forum....i said...my texting is only used to set up future meetings ASAP.
AND LISTEN "FAGGOT"....I KNOW gotdayum well...you would NEVER TALK LIKE THIS to me in person....TRUST ME...you wouldn't be on your feet very long.
sO knock off the Tough guy talk...HOOD RAT!
If you can't speak with Respect...then don't post on my Thread...Got it ?
Now...Get the fvkc off my thread Arsehole!
(where the fvck does these punks come from?)
AND LISTEN "FAGGOT"....I KNOW gotdayum well...you would NEVER TALK LIKE THIS to me in person....TRUST ME...you wouldn't be on your feet very long.
sO knock off the Tough guy talk...HOOD RAT!
If you can't speak with Respect...then don't post on my Thread...Got it ?
Now...Get the fvkc off my thread Arsehole!
(where the fvck does these punks come from?)
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I disagree....I think he probably flirts very well...(if you can get a number in 5 mins or less...you have to have something goin).
(Funny how these "Studs" come on here thinkin they know everything... when the truth is... they know very little).
Chick Flake out for NUMEROUS reasons...but you want us to believe their are only 3 main ones.
...but you want us to think "you are special" for coming up with 3!
bah ahhahah
I'm sick of you so called "COACHES" hazing people who come here for help....especially when your Kibitz is Weak and Lanquid (i know you didn't go to college...so look those words up knot head).
Please...learn some respect before posting (read the rules).
Thank You!
(Funny how these "Studs" come on here thinkin they know everything... when the truth is... they know very little).
Chick Flake out for NUMEROUS reasons...but you want us to believe their are only 3 main ones.
- What about Timing....
- What about the Husband or Boyfriend...
- What about the Kids...
- What about the Race or Ethic differences...
- What about the implications of Sex...
- What about assumptions....
- What about....(oh hell there are hundreds of reasons)
...but you want us to think "you are special" for coming up with 3!
bah ahhahah
I'm sick of you so called "COACHES" hazing people who come here for help....especially when your Kibitz is Weak and Lanquid (i know you didn't go to college...so look those words up knot head).
Please...learn some respect before posting (read the rules).
Thank You!
Pimp-sicle said:
I think it is YOU who needs to learn some respect. Pimp-sicle has been around here a long time and he knows his sh!t. If you have something to "add" to the topic please do. We are all here to learn.john siegal said:
I will go one step further and say there is only ONE reason chicks flake. LACK OF INTEREST
Building rapport, being attractive, and making a girl feel comfortable around you all increase her interest level.
If her interest level is high (like thru the roof high) then none of ^^^^^^ this sh!t matters. She will move freaking mountains to be with you.
Getting a phone number (even in 5 minutes) is just one step, as we can see ol' Tod here is having trouble getting past that.
Once again, if you have something productive to add to the discussion I'm sure everyone would love to hear it.
On second thought, after your comments above (along with Tod's) I doubt many people will care what the hell you have to say.
P.S. Amazing that you made it thru college. "There" grading system must have been pretty slack up "their".
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Oh Slickster...you are indeed a First Class Chump!
You live a Black and White world...and the world is anything but that...
LOL...that's ok....you keep looking at the world with Myopia...and do the REPEATOR routine.
HINT: Her interest level is only A fraction of the Real World Equation. You will learn that when you graduate from High School.
You live a Black and White world...and the world is anything but that...
LOL...that's ok....you keep looking at the world with Myopia...and do the REPEATOR routine.
HINT: Her interest level is only A fraction of the Real World Equation. You will learn that when you graduate from High School.
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If you're out just to get a quick phone number, you should expect these kinds of results. Think about it: most girls, if they happen to be single, have guys that they like from their own social circle/ workplace--guys that they already see on a regular basis. How can a STRANGER expect to generate enough interest to trump every other guy she knows in 5 MINUTES?? This is just not realistic.
If you want to go out and get quick phone numbers like this, understand that you need a REALLY high volume of them before you start enjoying success. You may be charming, but you're still a STRANGER, which is a recipe for flakiness.
If you want to maximize the probability of seeing a chick again, ALWAYS PUSH EVERY INTERACTION AS FAR AS IT WILL GO! If it's during the daytime, ask if she wants to duck into a cafe with you real quick, or come to run a shopping errand with you--an instant first date. If it's at night, don't bother with a phone number unless you've at least made out with her. Escalation doesn't have to take HOURS; you can get a makeout pretty quick if she's feeling you.
I'm going to respectfully disagree with Slickster on the subject of waiting to make a move. I think the timeline for building sexual tension is much quicker, and you can mess things up for yourself if she thinks you're too chicken to kiss her on a date. Also, women get attached to guys through sex--I understand waiting if you're not sure how much you like her, but if you really want to keep a girl around, there's no real reason to wait to have sex, once you know that she's ready. But, different strokes for different folks.
The biggest piece of advice for you? If a girl doesn't text you back, the WORST, most chump-ish thing you can do is lecture her. A high value male simply would not give a f$%k if a RANDOM GIRL THAT HE MET FOR FIVE MINUTES didn't text him back. All of your actions should be in line with those of a high value male- that is the "prize" mentality. Delete the number and smile to yourself, knowing that it's her loss, not yours.
If you want to go out and get quick phone numbers like this, understand that you need a REALLY high volume of them before you start enjoying success. You may be charming, but you're still a STRANGER, which is a recipe for flakiness.
If you want to maximize the probability of seeing a chick again, ALWAYS PUSH EVERY INTERACTION AS FAR AS IT WILL GO! If it's during the daytime, ask if she wants to duck into a cafe with you real quick, or come to run a shopping errand with you--an instant first date. If it's at night, don't bother with a phone number unless you've at least made out with her. Escalation doesn't have to take HOURS; you can get a makeout pretty quick if she's feeling you.
I'm going to respectfully disagree with Slickster on the subject of waiting to make a move. I think the timeline for building sexual tension is much quicker, and you can mess things up for yourself if she thinks you're too chicken to kiss her on a date. Also, women get attached to guys through sex--I understand waiting if you're not sure how much you like her, but if you really want to keep a girl around, there's no real reason to wait to have sex, once you know that she's ready. But, different strokes for different folks.
The biggest piece of advice for you? If a girl doesn't text you back, the WORST, most chump-ish thing you can do is lecture her. A high value male simply would not give a f$%k if a RANDOM GIRL THAT HE MET FOR FIVE MINUTES didn't text him back. All of your actions should be in line with those of a high value male- that is the "prize" mentality. Delete the number and smile to yourself, knowing that it's her loss, not yours.
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Finally...some good advice.
Thank you....
Now that you mention it... perhaps its too ****y of me to assume (even though i am tall dark and handsome) that she will be that interested in me after 5 mins. After all...these are HB7's and up...and with all the horny dudes roaming the streets these days....she's probably gettin hit on all the time.
I also agree with the sexual escalation POV. I've had Sex with women on the same night as we met on several occasions. Either the Sexual attraction is there...or its not...and you will know in a short period of time.
Thank you....
Now that you mention it... perhaps its too ****y of me to assume (even though i am tall dark and handsome) that she will be that interested in me after 5 mins. After all...these are HB7's and up...and with all the horny dudes roaming the streets these days....she's probably gettin hit on all the time.
I also agree with the sexual escalation POV. I've had Sex with women on the same night as we met on several occasions. Either the Sexual attraction is there...or its not...and you will know in a short period of time.
Jeffst1980 said:
Hey, I'm not saying you HAVE to wait to make a move. I'm saying that if you are good at seduction and creating sexual tension you will drive women CRAZY by making them wait. You have to let the pot simmer to get the best flavors. When you figure that out you are in for some great fun.Jeffst1980 said:
I've played this game over and over with positive results. I'm just relaying my experiences.
True story: Years ago there was a particular chick and by date 3 I had been working things exceptionally well. After another great date with the sexual tension peaking I dropped her off early and bolted out of there. About an hour later she was on my doorstep crying her eyes out and telling me "She can't take it anymore! I don't want to play games. I just want to be with you!" She ended up giving me a bloejob right there in the entrance way.
I know my method is "different" than what most guys do or think. I get told all the time by women that I'm different than most guys.
As far as escalating the night you get their number, you should. But sometimes it's not possible to take them home that night (they are with friends). In that case, I've found that giving them a kiss on the cheek (or maybe lips if they turn their head as you do) is enough to establish something.
If they've given you the number, that gives you permission for the cheek kiss. In fact, you should make a habit of giving all women a kiss on the cheek as you leave, not just young or hot ones. You can feel a lot about the chemistry when you do. I once had a girl get blown away by the cheek kiss, and we lived 1000 miles apart and both of us knew we had to see each other again based on the fireworks we felt.
Also, if you get their Facebook info (last name), sending them a FB email (NOT a friend request) is good because they see your photo when they hear from you. After a few emails you can switch to phone/text and then ask for a date. I prefer to ask for dates on the phone so you hear their voice and can read them.
If they've given you the number, that gives you permission for the cheek kiss. In fact, you should make a habit of giving all women a kiss on the cheek as you leave, not just young or hot ones. You can feel a lot about the chemistry when you do. I once had a girl get blown away by the cheek kiss, and we lived 1000 miles apart and both of us knew we had to see each other again based on the fireworks we felt.
Also, if you get their Facebook info (last name), sending them a FB email (NOT a friend request) is good because they see your photo when they hear from you. After a few emails you can switch to phone/text and then ask for a date. I prefer to ask for dates on the phone so you hear their voice and can read them.
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Another good one....
Thank you!
I like the cheek kiss to solidify the meeting...and test the waters.
99% of the women i meet these days on during street game (goin to and fro my daily routine)...
Yeah its tough being a working man these days but i haven't hit the lotto and no rich women have offered to rescue me. I know its easier to nail women you meet in Bars...but Bars have their downside as well.
Thank you!
I like the cheek kiss to solidify the meeting...and test the waters.
99% of the women i meet these days on during street game (goin to and fro my daily routine)...
Yeah its tough being a working man these days but i haven't hit the lotto and no rich women have offered to rescue me. I know its easier to nail women you meet in Bars...but Bars have their downside as well.
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