Danger said:
The media doesn't parrot reality, the media parrots it's agenda.
Otherwise, you would see a far greater number of criminals cast on tv as being black or hispanic. Instead, usually it's some white guy.
I don't see many black men and white women here in the Northeast. About twice as often as I see asian men with white women, or white men with asian women, or white men with black women. On occasion but not much at all. Never do I see an asian/black mix of any kind.
But, if one suggests that the media only starts showing what is happening in society, that person would be completely wrong. Crime statistics versus what tv's show are the first blatant evidence of that.
I live in NY, and I see interracial couples ALL the time. Especially in big cities. The black man/white woman pairing is super common nowadays. I dont know how you miss it. Maybe you live in a less diverse suburbia, because its seen in diverse towns and cities.
I almost never see asian men with white women when compared to the amount I see other combinations mix. Most of the time white women arent that into asian guys the way white dudes chase asian women.
PlayHer Man said:
Not sure where in the Northeast you live/visit. Probably not a major metro area. I see the white female / Black male combo on a weekly basis. Way more common than the white male / black female combo or the Asian male / White female combo. I see the Asian female / White male combo probably on a daily basis. Occasionally I see Asian female / Black male but its pretty rare. Maybe once a year I'll see that.
The only combo I NEVER see is Asian male / Black female. I've only heard of its existence through other people. Never seen it in my entire life.
Ive never seen the black female/asian male combo either, yet Ive heard it talked about a good bit, especially online. Seems those two groups of people are gravitating towards each other since they dont get the same attention in interracial dating. They are showing one another appreciation, especially since their opposite sex racial counterparts (black men and asian female) are so overly sexualized by others.
You should check out the blogs or forums about this pairing. Some of these Asian men and Black women explain it better than I can. Theyre showing each other some real love though, so Im all for it.
Who Dares Win said:
You guys make things more complicate than what they really are, the hate that raise when a black man is with a white woman is strictly related to the fact that white women are the most desired one from all races.
When something is few and everybody wants it it begins a conflict, of course white men are pissed off if they see what they want stolen from somebody from a different group, its called "territory" wheter your leftist friends like it or not and its part of any sane man whose testicles dropped from his crotch.
Why nobody hate if a black woman is with a white man? no offence to anyone but the reason is that even black guys most of the times dont give a fvck about black women (for different reasons sure but still the fact remains), stats from dating site research confirms it.
If black women were desired as much as white ones, there would be ryanair flying to from London to Zambia instead of only Latvia.
So its not about something too complicate, its about precious resourches and territory and in many cases even this leftist media propaganda which is pissing me off as well.
Btw I've been travelling most of Europe since many years and I had "ethnic guys" staring hostile to me while only speaking with their girls, so lets avoid the colossal bullsh1t of white man being insecure and such.
Id say a lot of people act jealous when their opposite sex racial counterpart dates inter-racially. Ive seen black men, asian men, white women, latina women get jealous. However, Ive only seen white guys react with the amount of anger they do. Its not that serious.
Theres PLENTY of white women to go around, and only a small percentage of them date outside of their race. And only a small percentage marry outside of their race too. People need to look up some statistics. Its common to date outside ones race, but its not like 50% of a group is doing so.
And I dont agree with what your saying about white women being desired vs how black women are desired. Asian women and latinas are very desired, yet you dont see dudes (be they black white or asian), getting the same hate from other guys for dating them. Though sometimes I have seen the jealous eye of a white guy when I was with an Asian girl...as if white guys have claim on them
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. That being said, if this was only about which women were desired the most, youd see other races of guys acting as upset as white guys do, but we dont see that.
I think someone explained it well earlier. A lot of white guys see themselves "at the top" of the dating pyramid (and other pyramids too), and view black dudes at the bottom. And because of this, and because of the fact that blacks are the most physically different from whites, these dudes see it as a slap in their face. I cant see why one would tie their self esteem to the small percentage of women who wont date them. The fact remains is that most women are open to dating a well put together white man. The same cannot be said for a well put together black man.
So I cant understand all the butthurt.
PS - If a guy hasnt fvked a broad, she aint his territory. I dont worry about who is screwing who, unless its a girl Im currently screwing. Dudes need to stop being whiny beta bitcches about who other men decide to sleep with and grow a pair.
speed dawg said:
Great post on this subject. Especially that last sentence. Gaylan and Hustlaz D-Diggity Shizz Bomb are in La La Land. Portraying what they want, not what's really there.
Let me repeat. Asian women date outside their race a lot more than white women or any other women. Yet the Asian guys I see online or talk to in real life dont get as upset and hateful as white guys do. They dont stoop to calling people racial slurs and shaming biracial children because of some insecurity.
Again let me say, though all races of men and women can be protective of their opposite sex counterparts, Ive yet to see any group react the same way white men do.
Hell, Ive only seen white guys dedicate threads online to hating on interracial pairings. I dont see "ethnic" guys really give too much of a fvk to need to do that.