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steviecruiser said:
you treated with respect is getting plowed by guys like me. But dont worry partner as she will call you to cry about me never calling her back and using her like the piece of fvck meat that she is lol!
Plow'em if you can reach'em. You'd have to jump 10,000 feet to get them from where you stand. Being a 'PUA' and 'DJ' are two different things, maybe you'll figure someday. (oh BTW, don't forget to stop by frequently to look for a few 'cool' tricks and 'lies' in SS, you'll need those)

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For all the guys in this thread coming to the "aid" of women, did Florence Nightingale not even herself say:

"Women have no sympathy and my experience of women is almost as large as Europe".

A woman herself who is exposing the truth about her own gender. Do I really have to say anything else? A huge pat on the back goes out to this woman for this type of honesty.
 

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Slickster > Feel free to PM me if you want any advice on how to pick up women. All that pent up anger you are displaying towards me is clearly your own frustration with lack of success. Trust me Ive been there b4. I can probably give you a few tips that will get you your first kiss from a real woman.
Yes Steve, I was frustrated. Not by my lack of success with women. (I’m married by the way and she’s great!) I was offended by your post. You see I just lost a best friend recently. My Mom has cancer, and Dad’s health isn’t too great either. I apologize for my harsh words earlier but I did take a LOT of offence to what you said. Lying about your sick dying father so you can cheat on your “dream girl” GF just didn’t sit well with me on that day. Regardless, it is my bad. I shouldn’t be trying to impose my beliefs on you. Sorry.

All of your chest pounding and feather ruffling does little to impress. You remind me of the guy who has a complex because he’s a bit too short, realizes he’s going bald in the next few years, and has a tiny d!ck to boot. I bet you have a sweet car!

I’m sure you have had your share of women too. I bet that the majority of them were devilish wh0res. I bet they’ve lied, cheated, and proved a thousand times over that they deserved to be treated like sh!t. I can tell by your attitude. It reveals YOUR frustration with women!

If you really are “for real” and actually do live your life as you say, then I do not want your advice. Taking advice from you about women would make me feel like I was on some trashy talk show like Jerry Springer or Rikki Lake.

Do you have any good relationships with people? Are your friends for real? Really? Have you ever had a woman in your life that you viewed as a human being instead of just a wet hole? Let me guess. Way back when, you were in love but she lost interest and cheated on you. Your heart was broken and ever since then, you’ve been playin’ the game. Play or get played. How mature. I gotta admit, I bet you are good at it.

Sadly it’s plain to see that your immoral behaviour towards women and people just perpetuates more of the same in return. We all create our own realities. Good for you! Come find us in ten or fifteen years and let us all know how it worked out.

Seriously though Steve, I think you need to ask yourself if anything really good has ever happened in your life due to your little “play or be played” game? REALLY be truthful with yourself. If your only answer is that you stuck your d!ck into a couple warm wet holes then I’d say you truly are missing out on some great life!
 
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edger said:
For all the guys in this thread coming to the "aid" of women, did Florence Nightingale not even herself say:

"Women have no sympathy and my experience of women is almost as large as Europe".

A woman herself who is exposing the truth about her own gender. Do I really have to say anything else? A huge pat on the back goes out to this woman for this type of honesty.
Having trained hundreds of women in my personal training career, I agree!
 

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edger said:
For all the guys in this thread coming to the "aid" of women, did Florence Nightingale not even herself say:

"Women have no sympathy and my experience of women is almost as large as Europe".

A woman herself who is exposing the truth about her own gender. Do I really have to say anything else? A huge pat on the back goes out to this woman for this type of honesty.
I believe this uniaxial "bitterness" (reaching almost to levels of misogyny) has to be linked to a very, very dangerous woman that goes deep in your thinking.

Nobody is "aiding" women here (for first of all this is almost exclusively a men's club and there would be no point), and what you are continually failing to see is that the opposite camp's argument is not the complementary of what you say.

Everybody here has had low quality, sh!tty women at least once or twice, so the point is not about women being intrinsically good angels or anything similar. It's just that these clear-cut, sharp remarks are often wrong and if they are to be taken seriously, they have to be supplemented with vigorous examples, justifications and so on.

Edit:Florence Nightingale is not particularly known for her bewildering experiences on women psychology and sadly, she cannot be taken seriously anymore than I can with this remark.
 
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At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yes Steve, I was frustrated. Not by my lack of success with women. (I’m married by the way and she’s great!) I was offended by your post. You see I just lost a best friend recently. My Mom has cancer, and Dad’s health isn’t too great either. I apologize for my harsh words earlier but I did take a LOT of offence to what you said. Lying about your sick dying father so you can cheat on your “dream girl” GF just didn’t sit well with me on that day. Regardless, it is my bad. I shouldn’t be trying to impose my beliefs on you. Sorry.

All of your chest pounding and feather ruffling does little to impress. You remind me of the guy who has a complex because he’s a bit too short, realizes he’s going bald in the next few years, and has a tiny d!ck to boot. I bet you have a sweet car!

I’m sure you have had your share of women too. I bet that the majority of them were devilish wh0res. I bet they’ve lied, cheated, and proved a thousand times over that they deserved to be treated like sh!t. I can tell by your attitude. It reveals YOUR frustration with women!

If you really are “for real” and actually do live your life as you say, then I do not want your advice. Taking advice from you about women would make me feel like I was on some trashy talk show like Jerry Springer or Rikki Lake.

Do you have any good relationships with people? Are your friends for real? Really? Have you ever had a woman in your life that you viewed as a human being instead of just a wet hole? Let me guess. Way back when, you were in love but she lost interest and cheated on you. Your heart was broken and ever since then, you’ve been playin’ the game. Play or get played. How mature. I gotta admit, I bet you are good at it.

Sadly it’s plain to see that your immoral behaviour towards women and people just perpetuates more of the same in return. We all create our own realities. Good for you! Come find us in ten or fifteen years and let us all know how it worked out.

Seriously though Steve, I think you need to ask yourself if anything really good has ever happened in your life due to your little “play or be played” game? REALLY be truthful with yourself. If your only answer is that you stuck your d!ck into a couple warm wet holes then I’d say you truly are missing out on some great life!

So you are married but you are still an avid poster on a seduction forum??? Does your wife know this? The only thing I'll agree with you on is that yeah its kind of low to lie about sick relatives so I'll try to change that up. But if it came down to saying that to get some definite booty then the ends justify the means in my opinion.

Your little theories about me are amusing to say the least. Like I said I was in your shoes a long time ago (A total AFC naive moron) so I really feel sympathy towards you as opposed to any anger. Not that I need to but just for grins and giggles I'll let you know that I'm tall, thick and I don't even have a car since I live in Manhattan. Its unnecesary, although I'm very financially stable being a Futures Trader. My company pays for my subway commute so a car is really unnecessary.. When I do settle down and live out in the burbs I'll get that fancy car. I'll still have a thick pecker too though ;)

As far as getting cheated on and having my heart broken I can certainly say thats never happend. But I understand you needing to tell yourself that. It makes you feel better or higher because it acts as the reason for my alpha behavior. Now let me tell you plain and simply why I have my attitude which I love and wouldn't trade for the world.

Woman want real men. They get wet when they around real men. You can do all your little flower sending and sweet romantic comments till you are jerking off in a nursing home. But what works for me is being bold, assertive, and going after what I want by any means necessary.

Are there women you don't have to lie to? Sure there are. I've bedded plenty of them. But Im the type of guy that sees an attractive woman and wants it. If I have to lie to get her in bed so be it. I love women and I love pvssy. I live for hot women too. Any1 that ridicules this type of thinking clearly envies it and doesn't have the success they want.

As I said PM me, I'd be more than happy to help you out Then again it might take you 15 years to get off your rationalization high horse and admit you are a miserable bastard. I say all this with love by the way.
 

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To the OP - you are free to do as you wish.

Just remember, karma's a b1tch.
 

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realsmoothie said:
Almost? This guy is misogyny personified.

*waits for guy to wiki "misogyny"*
Yeah I hate women.... thats why I ravage them and make them *** like crazy.... LMAO I'm almost going to start ignoring the haters... I still think its a little funny though.

I appreciate the posters who are with me and are sticking to the topic. I'll summarize all the tips shortly. I have to meet my gf for lunch now.
 

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hey steviecruiser,


This has nothing to do with cheating... But how do I get money and material things out of girls I'm dating?
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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samspade said:
Most guys around here know how to get a steady supply of a$$ without wasting time and money on this - especially in NYC.
Samspade, what types of women do you normally f*ck and go for? Are we talking the hot, mini-skirted with heels type chicks?
 

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Lioric said:
I believe this uniaxial "bitterness" (reaching almost to levels of misogyny) has to be linked to a very, very dangerous woman that goes deep in your thinking.

No dude, try MOST of the women I've come across in my life. Is that enough for a case?

I'll be the first one to admit WITH NO SHAME that I despise the majority of hot women. Would I ever allude to it and let them know that? Hell no. That would be a dealbreaker right there. When I'm around them, I genuinely act like I love them, but really all I'm thinking to myself is "this b*tch is only good for one thing" and "I can't wait to spray c*m all over her hot body".:D

I got news for ya, WE ALL despise most attractive women. A lot of you don't wanna admit that, but deep down WE ALL despise them. Why? Because it is blatantly more than obvious that they are selfish, self-centered pieces of sh*t who aren't concerned about anybody else but themselves.
 

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samspade said:
Edger, it sounds like you're saying that deep down in every man's id is an ingrained hatred of and contempt for hot females.

While I'm sure we all have an ingrained desire to fcuk them like animals and cvm in their faces, I don't believe something like that is rooted in hatred, or even mild disliking. Conquest and gene-passing, sure, but not hatred.

Let me put it this way: Hot women will always get more attention, more gifts, more preferential treatment, and probably more sex (or at least opportunities for sex) than I. Some of them become selfish, some of them stay relatively level-headed. Hate them? I'm middle class; I don't hate rich people. I'm white; I don't hate blacks. I'm 5'9"; I don't hate tall people. My **** is as big as it's gonna get and I don't hate Ron Jeremy. And I'm a guy who has to use his wits and his charm to get hot poon, so I'm not going to waste my energy hating hot chicks.

And whether anyone agrees or not with the tactics of the OP, one thing is clear: He doesn't hate women, either. Sure, he's being duplicitous, but he doesn't sound like a man bent on revenge. He sounds like a man bent on getting plenty of action while he can, probably because he loves women.

One more thing, edger....if you are only acting like you love women (and I mean this with all due respect), that's probably a big part of why you aren't doing well with approaches. A DJ needs to be mysterious about many things, but when it comes to his love of enjoying females, he should wear it on his sleeve.
Come on man, you've been around a while. How you can respect and like any human being when they are selfish, self-centered, manipulative, lying, and don't care about the feelings of others? That's what it seems like you're expecting from me. It's funny how THEY'RE the ones at fault, yet I'm having fingers being pointed at me and being casted in a negative light, when I have done nothing wrong, when all I am doing is pointing out the fact that a lot of women are sh*tty people. Something's wrong with that picture. Perfect example of how guys will go against their own gender, and once again, aquit the female gender of their poor behavior. This is why we have problems dude and females are out of control, this is the reason boards like this exist.

I'm not saying I despise all women, no way, I'm just saying a good-portion of them. I find it funny that so many guys complain about the quality of women out there, yet when someone posts how they despise a good chunk of the female population, all of a sudden everyones attitude shifts and the guy is suddenly casted in a negative light as a "woman hating misogynist". You guys can cast me in a negative light all you want, I can seriously give 2 sh*ts, but I know what I know and see what I see, and nothing will ever change that.
 

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samspade said:
One more thing, edger....if you are only acting like you love women (and I mean this with all due respect), that's probably a big part of why you aren't doing well with approaches.

It seems like you're digging, LOOKING, and trying to find a reason. I don't know any other way to get through to you guys anymore regarding my situation. Everything I say, you guys seem to discredit. Take it from the man himself, from the horses mouth itself, I don't wish to make things up: I'm playing my cards right. I'm very jovial, fun, and genuinely act like I like these females, smile on my face, the whole bit. I never get into any discussions about the battle of the sexes, I avoid these things like a plague. Tell me now, "It's oozing from my pores, I'm just not aware of it" bullsh*t.
 

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samspade said:
You've parsed your words a little, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.
I'm not trying to change anything up, I'll say it again: I dislike most hot women.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm not trying to change anything up, I'll say it again: I dislike most hot women.
I can hear RT warming up his Keyboard down in the FL sweatpit.

Edger, that statement of yours above is all BUFFER.
 
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samspade said:
I remember reading once on SS, in the articles or tips section, something like, "Know that women are emotional, manipulative, conniving, immature, and superficial. Love them anyway." I don't know if I got the quote right, but you get the idea.

-ss
Those are the words of a weak jellyfish male. I won't even use the word man.

Understand women so you can turn their manipulative machinations against them.

Do you know how it feels to have a woman take you out? Expensive restaurants, fancy hotels, etc.

Do you know how it feels to have a woman please you sexually in any way?
 

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samspade said:
I understand what you're saying, and you are right. But I'm not talking about being weak or not having self-respect. I'm talking about not succumbing to negativity and bitterness, which is the plight of a lot of AFCs around here and elsewhere. I am sure you understand the distinction.
I'm not succumbing to any negativity or bitterness. All I'm doing is pointing out how most females(particularly hot ones) are pieces of crap. I'm pointing out a fact that everyone here knows. I don't know what's so wrong about that. I'm being taken out of context. It's not as if I live every day of my life letting these women get the best of me. The "supposed" heavy hitters even say most women are pieces of crap.


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If you look at the posts by some of the heavy hitters around here (Rollo, jophil, guru, etc.) you'll see that they do very little complaining about their OWN situations with women
Hah, you wanna know why they don't complain? Because they have no situations to complain about. Rollo, has a wife and is happily married, and by the way he makes it sound, has never really had a rough time with women...the guy, according to what he claims, has gotten laid by attractive women far more than I ever have. Guru "supposedly" is getting laid by the hottest women the planet...and Jophil actually complains a lot, so I don't know why he'd even be listed here.
 

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Those are the words of a weak jellyfish male. I won't even use the word man.
Yeah, it's a real stupid thing to quote. It sends the wrong message to women(and men for that matter), and so long as guys continue to do that, we will all have problems with women and boards like this will continue to exist, because they will think it's ok to continue acting the way they act, because, "Men will still love them". Give me a break. Hasn't anything of worth been taught on this site? That was the very first concept I grasped when I first came to this site.

God forbid a guy complains about how most women are horrible, God for f*ckin'bid.
 

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You said:

edger said:
I'm not trying to change anything up, I'll say it again: I dislike most hot women.
and below that your personal quote that you wear like a badge of honor:

-I may not have f*cked that many women(9), but I'm at least proud to say that EVERY SINGLE WOMAN I've slept with, was hot.
Never met you man, but I'm with the others here. How can you expect to bang high quality ass if you hate everything about them but their looks?

Seriously. If your are as good looking as you say you are and you have a decent personality, this is why hot women don't give you the time of day.

Healthy, normal, well adjusted women respond favorably to male INDIFFERENCE, but not male HATRED. There's a big difference.

You only THINK you are projecting the right attitude. Women are sniffing you out a mile away.

Another thing.....you seem to have some kind of odd obsession with hot women. Hey, I like a nice pair of t1ts, a firm ass, and a beautiful face just as much as the next guy, but I don't obsess over needing a 9 or a 10 to get my rocks off, and I CERTAINLY don't hate women (hot or not), contrary to what those who misunderstand me might believe.

I would tell you to find a way to get over this bizzarro love/hate thing you have going on, but I suspect it's pretty deeply rooted and it might take some counseling to get through it.

Good luck.
 
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