Cheating on your Girlfriend - Tactics

[lifeislearning]

I do think it is way way worse for a woman to cheat in a relationship than for a man. Men have a natural drive for variety, women do not. A man can cheat and still feel attracted and interested in his significant other. Women can't and lose respect for the man their cheating on. Then there's the pregnacy thing, "mama's baby, daddy's maybe". There was a time when women would ignore and tolerate their man having a mistress. And honestly about the lying thing, women don't even like the truth. I also fel it's much worse for womn to lie than men, although most women do it. I'm not saying cheating on your GF or significant other is right, but it's a very minor thing in comparison to a woman cheating.

Wow. This is the most backward, anti-DJ post I have ever come across. I don't see how this view makes you a better man, better with the ladies, better with a significant other, or better at all. I'm not sure how you developed these arguments, but good luck with that.

Anyway... What an interesting post. Interesting to see all the responses that were elicited. I've been on every side of the cheating game in the past, but damn all that effort just to keep one girl around? I'd rather be single and not have to worry about the secrecy and scrambling to keep up appearances. OP, I really don't understand how this girl is worth the hassle. I think is she really were as awesome as you portray you wouldn't be looking for other p*ssy, no? Getting BF treatment AND having the freedom of being single is like the best of both worlds, but at what cost to your sanity and effort at the very least?

Earlier you mentioned the difference between a girl who should be treated like a sl*t and GF material, and you get what you want from both. Have you considered they are getting all they want with you? No way your GF only has sex in a relationship. Thats a time tested favorite of the women folk. Perhaps she saw you as a perfect opportunity to wine and dine her, while your FB knows you're not worth more than a quick f*ck. Just a thought. And out of curiosity, what would you do if you discovered your GF were screwing around without you?

The hair thing is a killer though. I had some issues having three different girls in my bed every week regularly for a few months. After two weeks I just stopped trying to guess whose hair was on my pillow. Plus I live with 2 girls and I frequently find their underwear in my laundry. It is amazing what some women will tolerate.

 

[Reyaj]

Wow. This is the most backward, anti-DJ post I have ever come across. I don't see how this view makes you a better man, better with the ladies, better with a significant other, or better at all. I'm not sure how you developed these arguments, but good luck with that.

Anyway... What an interesting post. Interesting to see all the responses that were elicited. I've been on every side of the cheating game in the past, but damn all that effort just to keep one girl around? I'd rather be single and not have to worry about the secrecy and scrambling to keep up appearances. OP, I really don't understand how this girl is worth the hassle. I think is she really were as awesome as you portray you wouldn't be looking for other p*ssy, no? Getting BF treatment AND having the freedom of being single is like the best of both worlds, but at what cost to your sanity and effort at the very least?

Earlier you mentioned the difference between a girl who should be treated like a sl*t and GF material, and you get what you want from both. Have you considered they are getting all they want with you? No way your GF only has sex in a relationship. Thats a time tested favorite of the women folk. Perhaps she saw you as a perfect opportunity to wine and dine her, while your FB knows you're not worth more than a quick f*ck. Just a thought. And out of curiosity, what would you do if you discovered your GF were screwing around without you?

The hair thing is a killer though. I had some issues having three different girls in my bed every week regularly for a few months. After two weeks I just stopped trying to guess whose hair was on my pillow. Plus I live with 2 girls and I frequently find their underwear in my laundry. It is amazing what some women will tolerate.

Yeah keeping up with covering your tracks can be annoying.... but I can somewhat relate to the op... I mean I wouldn't suggest lying as much as he does.. but there are a lot of girls that want to be in a monogamous relationship. If they knew you were having fun on the side, they'd break it off with you.

I do think its more acceptable for a man to cheat than a woman.

 

[Reyaj]

I do think it is way way worse for a woman to cheat in a relationship than for a man. Men have a natural drive for variety, women do not. A man can cheat and still feel attracted and interested in his significant other. Women can't and lose respect for the man their cheating on. Then there's the pregnacy thing, "mama's baby, daddy's maybe". There was a time when women would ignore and tolerate their man having a mistress. And honestly about the lying thing, women don't even like the truth. I also fel it's much worse for womn to lie than men, although most women do it. I'm not saying cheating on your GF or significant other is right, but it's a very minor thing in comparison to a woman cheating.

I think I'd have to take it on a case by case situation and the and she would have to be an exceptional GF to derserve exclusitivity and total honesty. If you are married to her then maybe that would be different.

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[Reyaj]

In light of some cheating posts I read, I am going to bump this up if anyone has any more tactics to help keep us safe