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Boot Camp Thread (Opening May 2nd)
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TheCollector
Don Juan
AFC12345 join in its never too late. Anyways so far for the first three days of week three i havent really been going after talking to chicks nearly as much as i would like. No excuses time to get out there today.
Lost
Master Don Juan
damn i sorta forgot about this...
gotta start gettin back to it.
gotta start gettin back to it.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Well done lads , keep it up!
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
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juanstepatatime
Don Juan
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week 2 day ?
5 Conversations so far - random guy in class, hairdresser, hb from school, and 2 separate store people. The thing is, all of these convos have a context, making it very easy compared to a totally cold conversation. I *think* that's ok - it's no worse than talking to new people at a party right? Any opinions on this?
5 Conversations so far - random guy in class, hairdresser, hb from school, and 2 separate store people. The thing is, all of these convos have a context, making it very easy compared to a totally cold conversation. I *think* that's ok - it's no worse than talking to new people at a party right? Any opinions on this?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Hmm okay I took a 2 week break from sosuave to get some perspective and sh!t... n e how I'm back and I'll restart week 2. Wish me luck, and Wonderbread... keep it goin mayne!
Lost
Master Don Juan
bump.. eye contacts and some not too loud heys.... i need to greet ppl more and definately smile.
like i would hold ec with chicks.. but i wouldnt smile.
like i would hold ec with chicks.. but i wouldnt smile.
juanstepatatime
Don Juan
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week 2 day ?+2
4 convos today = total of 9
- a group of ppl while in line for burgers.
- a retired librarian while in line for cake.
- some girl who was a friend of some other girl i don't know well (while eating the cake and burgers)
- some girl i met playing softball
talking to random people isn't much of a problem for me if i have a context, so I'm skipping the last convo, and moving on to week 3, which I expect to be much harder - 10 convos with HB including 5 cold approaches (I added that myself). I'm scared already
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4 convos today = total of 9
- a group of ppl while in line for burgers.
- a retired librarian while in line for cake.
- some girl who was a friend of some other girl i don't know well (while eating the cake and burgers)
- some girl i met playing softball
talking to random people isn't much of a problem for me if i have a context, so I'm skipping the last convo, and moving on to week 3, which I expect to be much harder - 10 convos with HB including 5 cold approaches (I added that myself). I'm scared already
.TheCollector
Don Juan
Have to repeat week 3 i went to the college to meet chicks and completely choked. Then i got food poisoning so tomorrow i will start week 3 again.
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
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[look]aRhino
Don Juan
Hey you guys, although it may seem like it, I actually *haven't* fallen off the face of the earth.
I try and make eye contact and smile at every single person I walk by, I don't really count it, I guess I kind of dispensed with week 1 like that.
So I was in the subway and I just started chatting up this cute asian chick the other day (HB6), turns out she not only goes to U of T as well, shes in the same college. Yet I forgot to number close.
Otherwise I chat with guys and girls when i get a chance. And i surprised myself by going and talking to a HB9 at the gym. I had met her very briefly before at a bbq, but still, it was something. I'll probly go to the gym at the same time next monday incase shes there.
Otherwise I've also started to chat with guys a lot more, but thats not really worth going into depth.
So i'm still trying, but its tough. I have no job or summer classes, I'm pretty much at home packing for my move.
Rhino
I try and make eye contact and smile at every single person I walk by, I don't really count it, I guess I kind of dispensed with week 1 like that.
So I was in the subway and I just started chatting up this cute asian chick the other day (HB6), turns out she not only goes to U of T as well, shes in the same college. Yet I forgot to number close.
Otherwise I chat with guys and girls when i get a chance. And i surprised myself by going and talking to a HB9 at the gym. I had met her very briefly before at a bbq, but still, it was something. I'll probly go to the gym at the same time next monday incase shes there
.Otherwise I've also started to chat with guys a lot more, but thats not really worth going into depth.
So i'm still trying, but its tough. I have no job or summer classes, I'm pretty much at home packing for my move.
Rhino
Lost
Master Don Juan
good job aRhino. youre making a good effort
need to bump this.
havent been getting out. just worked out and the surf has sucked... which my soreness would go away so i could hit the beach and go surfing. ill probly be going in the evening tho.. so i probly wont see too many chicks. or i might go in the morning... better chance then (when i leave.. like around 12?)
if im still sore ill just go to the mall tomorrow instead.
need to bump this.
havent been getting out. just worked out and the surf has sucked... which my soreness would go away so i could hit the beach and go surfing. ill probly be going in the evening tho.. so i probly wont see too many chicks. or i might go in the morning... better chance then (when i leave.. like around 12?)
if im still sore ill just go to the mall tomorrow instead.
Lost
Master Don Juan
are you guys still in this or wut? yo ugotta remembenr to post if you are.
anyways i went to the mall with my sister today but walked by myself.
i surprisingly had some trouble with the bootcamp. it was weird cuz i seemed fine with it a few days back at the beach. ... anyways
first chick i made ec with.. some hot blonde for about 3 seconds.. but i broke it. i noticed after a while my performance was sucking so i tried a bit more and forced myself to sorta do some.. but still a bit hesitant.
ill hopefully go next tuesday again.. there are some clothes i wanna get and another dj from this site says he may be able to go then, so it should be fun. but tomorrow hopefully i wont be sore and ill be able to go surfing.. so maybe ill see some chicks then(altho i may go in the evening).
anyways i went to the mall with my sister today but walked by myself.
i surprisingly had some trouble with the bootcamp. it was weird cuz i seemed fine with it a few days back at the beach. ... anyways
first chick i made ec with.. some hot blonde for about 3 seconds.. but i broke it. i noticed after a while my performance was sucking so i tried a bit more and forced myself to sorta do some.. but still a bit hesitant.
ill hopefully go next tuesday again.. there are some clothes i wanna get and another dj from this site says he may be able to go then, so it should be fun. but tomorrow hopefully i wont be sore and ill be able to go surfing.. so maybe ill see some chicks then(altho i may go in the evening).
TheCollector
Don Juan
Yeah im still in Keep it up Lost. Nothing new to report the last couple days just hung out with some friends. Im going to get by week 3 sooner or later.
Heyjose25points
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Hi fellow DJs. I am n00b and have contacted with a few DJs about if the bootcamp is a good idea or not. After their feedback, good, not so good, etc. I have decided, eventho its against my solemn conscience, to do the DJ Bootcamp. I am tired with always tryin to make excuses for not approachin a girl that i find attractive. So this is the only way to COMPLETELY FORCE MYSELF. But I am gonna start in 11 days tho, because of the amount of stress for finals, plus I am sick. So I am absolutely in.
Oh btw, Lost, Yea...we in this togetha partna
But I am gonna start in 11 days tho, because of the amount of stress for finals, plus I am sick. So I am absolutely in. Oh btw, Lost, Yea...we in this togetha partna
Lost
Master Don Juan
Went to the beach this afternoon and went surfing for a LONG time. im sore as ****. anyways.. werent really ne hot chicks there. I didp retty well with the whole eye contact thing. things seem like theyl be coming along quite nicely . been feelin bit more confident lately. with this whole bootcamp and stayin away from porn and whatnot....... its hard and i get tempted everyday but i still stay away from it. im hopin ill start gettin more horny @ the beach or something . just need the stimulus (hot chick). not sure how long its been.. i think maybe week and a half or two or... less.. dnno haha. doesnt really matter. wooooooo!
. been feelin bit more confident lately. with this whole bootcamp and stayin away from porn and whatnot....... its hard and i get tempted everyday but i still stay away from it. im hopin ill start gettin more horny @ the beach or something . just need the stimulus (hot chick). not sure how long its been.. i think maybe week and a half or two or... less.. dnno haha. doesnt really matter. wooooooo!TheCollector
Don Juan
Yesterday went out to the club with my friend. Usually we both just drink and watch the chicks but yesterday i said screw it and went out on the dance floor and just danced with about any group of girls i felt like.
Lost
Master Don Juan
ohmygod... i keep getting new spam and popups and whatnot... and these buttons on internet explorer... on this one toolbar thers a button that says "chicks with ****s" ......wtf. i dont even look @ porn anymore D:<.
ok anyways i should leave that for another post.
Today i went to the beach.. took me like 2 hrs to get a ****ing parking. after which the waves were HORRIBLE.. and to top it off ther was some ****ing police on a jetski in the water saying no surfing for 6 blocks... but its was perfectly fine for people to swim.......wtf??????? go down 6 blocks there isnt any surfing.
ok enuff rambling
so i did fine with the whole eye contact pretty much. i got a quiet hi to one hb. :/. lol
but later i went to tjmax/marshalls (one of those two) ... and i was with my mom and sister .. i noticed that i totally lose my vibe when im with them. and i understand that... cuz im not really myself. so if im working on bootcamp im gonna have to go solo.
soo
TO DO:
GO SOLO
MAKE HI's LOUDER
Change NOD to SMILE AND HI
ok anyways i should leave that for another post.
Today i went to the beach.. took me like 2 hrs to get a ****ing parking. after which the waves were HORRIBLE.. and to top it off ther was some ****ing police on a jetski in the water saying no surfing for 6 blocks... but its was perfectly fine for people to swim.......wtf??????? go down 6 blocks there isnt any surfing.
ok enuff rambling
so i did fine with the whole eye contact pretty much. i got a quiet hi to one hb. :/. lol
but later i went to tjmax/marshalls (one of those two) ... and i was with my mom and sister .. i noticed that i totally lose my vibe when im with them. and i understand that... cuz im not really myself. so if im working on bootcamp im gonna have to go solo.
soo
TO DO:
GO SOLO
MAKE HI's LOUDER
Change NOD to SMILE AND HI
Lost
Master Don Juan
man no one is updating anymore
ugh today was a pretty crappy day. it wasnt so bad at first but when i got done from surfing and was so tired... i just sorta felt a bit like my old self and was avoiding the eye contact >;/. oh well, gotta get it over it. tomorrows another day. might go to the mall with that dj tomorrow.
ugh today was a pretty crappy day. it wasnt so bad at first but when i got done from surfing and was so tired... i just sorta felt a bit like my old self and was avoiding the eye contact >;/. oh well, gotta get it over it. tomorrows another day. might go to the mall with that dj tomorrow.
TheCollector
Don Juan
Went out to breakfast chatted with the waitress for a while. Struggling to do cold approaches. BTW Lost do you longboard or shortboard? Anyways keep it up bro.