Blondes vs Brunettes, anyone else notice differences? (White Girls)

[CornbreadFed]

Adjusted to reality.

I don't need pointless sex lol.

 

[ManFromTartarus]

Literally every single dude I heard claim this will drop everything and go full on hungry coyote the second he has a chance with a hot blonde. I just say, stop coping bros lol.

Jesse, I say this with the utmost honesty, so don't think I'm trolling, but that is the exact opposite of the truth from my experience and witnessing of friends and peers that have the same tastes in women.

Men that aren't into pale women don't always flip flop for a hot blonde. They might not turn them down if available, but a complete U-turn is usually not the case, myself included.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Men that aren't into pale women don't always flip flop for a hot blonde. They might not turn them down if available, but a complete U-turn is usually not the case, myself included.

I've rejected women for smelling unattractive. Their hair colour didn't feature into that decision.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Your experience is diametrically different than mine.

Well, what is your experience then?

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Blondes aren’t my thing. If one falls in my lap, then I’ll smash but I’m not going to go crazy over one. I prefer women with dark hair

The thing is, I have never seen a guy genuinely act out on his lack of preference for blondes and white women in general. I have noticed that it is the very guys who are saying "white women are overrated" or not the best that usually can't get them and will pounce on one in a heartbeat.

IMO, Asians are overrated and usually only meant for white men who cannot get women of other races.

Latinas are woefully insecure and wish they were white.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

IMHO, I will group my answer in to 3 points. In addition, my observations come from couples in LTRs & marriages lol.

1). I think most people tend to date people that look like them. When I mean look like them, I mean look like they could be a sibling or first sibling. To keep it simple, I see a lot of blonde-haired women with blonde haired men.

2). My first point applies to blacks, but in a socioeconomic way. I see a lot of trashy white women with trashy black men regardless of class. However, I do see lighter haired to blonde, white women with wealthier black men or as cleet chasers.

3). I see a similar thing with point 2). when it comes to non-black minority men and white women. They tend to date someone similar to them in personality and socio-economical class regardless of hair color. I will say that I see black men with the hottest white women compared to the other minorities, but minorities date better looking and more quality white women on an average basis.

3 is true because black men are objectively higher SMV than any other minority group save for a suave Latino. Have you seen what most Asian and Indian/Arab dudes look like? There is a reason they struggle the most, it's because they tend to look the worst.

However, on point 3, just my personal observation wherever I have been even when there are equal amounts of brunettes and "blondes", brunettes seem to break hard for ethnic dudes. Brunette with freckles and pale skin? Almost always seems to like an ethnic guy of some kind, usually a Latino since they are the best looking but if the rare handsome Asian, Indian, or Arab dude comes along, she is all over him too.

I just see this so much when out and even in social settings, these women even aggressively go for darker guys. Come to think of it, even darker and more ethnic looking brunettes do so too.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

And what happens when the curtains don't match the rug? Does all of the expert analysis above still apply?

Yes.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

That's probably because she's hot, not blonde. There are a lot of ugly blondes out there.

I'll take a beautiful woman with a nice personality of any hair color, skin color, and eye color. It's not helpful to me to have "types." Hence I've banged all kinds and IME physical traits don't affect their personality. Nice girls, bytches, and crazies of all shades.

I get what you are saying but I am saying I see this cope all the freaking time. Like a guy will say white girls are overrated and usually, he is the main dude thirsting hard for white women. We have to accept facts here, white women are objectively the most desired race of women out there, bar none. Dudes can cope and prop up ethnic women but guess what, they are desperately trying to imitate white girls and are outright jealous of them.

Like I live in South Florida, a Latina's sexiness is determined by how white she is, facts. Go to South America, white skin is the most prized, same with Asia.

You cannot tell me a guy is not into white women, that is a load of bogus. There is no such thing as a lack of attraction to white women, it's only sour grapes.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Oh yeah one other observation, temper. Brunettes seem to have way worse tempers than blondes from my observation, like violent ones at that. Blondes seem to have more of that quiet temper that is more concealed and not as outwardly violent.

 

[devilkingx2]

Fascinating thread. As fun as it may be to make broad and stereotypical statements about people based on the color of their hair, you known what would be even more fun? Making board and stereotypical statements about people based on the color of their skin. I'm tempted to start thread called "White vs. black people, anyone else notice differences?"

What do you say, Moderator Pierce? Would this be verboten?

I've made a thread about Asian girls and black men before so I think that would be a fine thread to make according to the rules.

However somebody would definitely say something wild that gets them modded and potentially causes an argument that gets the thread locked lol.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I've made a thread about Asian girls and black men before so I think that would be a fine thread to make according to the rules.

However somebody would definitely say something wild that gets them modded and potentially causes an argument that gets the thread locked lol.

Here is the thing, this thread is based off of observations around approaching hundreds of women and interacting with up to a thousand as well as what I talk to guys about with women. No one is forbidding someone to talk about how women from one culture act one way and women from another culture act another. This is in no way similar to some race thread meant to attack a single group of people.

This is first and foremost, a game forum. If talking about race helps with game, you are more than free to do it. I just shared an observation and welcomed everyone to disagree with me on it.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

I get what you are saying but I am saying I see this cope all the freaking time. Like a guy will say white girls are overrated and usually, he is the main dude thirsting hard for white women. We have to accept facts here, white women are objectively the most desired race of women out there, bar none. Dudes can cope and prop up ethnic women but guess what, they are desperately trying to imitate white girls and are outright jealous of them.

Like I live in South Florida, a Latina's sexiness is determined by how white she is, facts. Go to South America, white skin is the most prized, same with Asia.

You cannot tell me a guy is not into white women, that is a load of bogus. There is no such thing as a lack of attraction to white women, it's only sour grapes.

Nah bro I didn't say that. I'm saying whichever woman is more attractive will win out. Nobody is taking a fat bytchy white woman over a sexy and nice woman of color.

If what you said about white skin being prized were true then pasty white women wouldn't spend so much time sun tanning and buying cosmetics that darken their skin. I think it's more that all women want to be some version of themselves that they're not - curly hair vs straight, blonde vs. brunette vs. redhead, etc. Women are always tinkering with their appearance and playing dress up.

I've been to South America and Asia many times over and haven't witnessed that. Racism exists everywhere, that I don't deny, and some men will never accept their own attraction to someone outside their little demo. The obsession with skin color is especially perverse in the U.S. I have friends from the deep south who I'm sure could never bring home a black girl to mom and dad without being shunned somehow. Heck it would probably be more acceptable to bring home a white man than a black woman. That's how silly it is. I feel sorry for anyone denying themselves because society said so.

But anyway that's all my POV and I'm not saying I'm right. Also I don't mean to make your thread about race when it's about hair color. My main point being that I never understood leaning on a type when the more overall attractive woman will give me the bigger boner. Generally I like dark skin & hair but I would not take a fat mean ugly dark skinned woman over a nice pretty blonde white girl. & vice versa.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I feel so bad for you I'm literally on the verge of tears.

It's funny bc in the post you reference (#42 in this thread, which leads with "try being a natural blonde!"), the Phoenix metro in Arizona where BE lives has more natural blondes than any place I've ever been, including Southern California. BE naturally references a place in a different state involving a foreign man who doesn't see a lot of blondes normally. A good half of the white women here are blonde it seems like.

@Jesse Pinkman what's your opinion on curly haired white women? Imo, they're a pain-in-the-@ss compared to straight haired ones. More Catholics and Mediterranean types in the curly haired demo in my observation.