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Blondes vs Brunettes, anyone else notice differences? (White Girls)

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It’s not bragging if it’s true. I don’t besmirch the Dutchman for “bragging” about his conquests and kittens. I assume his experience is as represented; as is mine.

Unwanted attention does get old, trust me. Especially from dudes you have zero interest in (which is ALL dudes other than my spouse).

I’m explaining a perspective y’all simply don’t have.

Sheesh.
 

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Only thing I've noticed is that blondes are all carbon copies of each other. Seriously it's extremely rare for a blonde to have unique fashion/styles or personality traits.
 

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Yeah, well, I'm blonde too, and god damn, I get hit on the moment I walk out of my house; there's usually at least three chicks trying to get inside and strip for me on the spot. It's a hard life.

Love ya B, and truth be told we’re dishwater blondes now…but we’re Fierce aren’t we?

:p
 
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Ya ya. Y’all are a mess ;)
JPM was a waste of time, wasn’t it? Well except for getting comped for a few shows and VIP’d to Hakkasan and Light. It’s the only way to steer clear of the fuddy dudies and Persian docs (they had to leave their Maseratis and Beemers at home). Although a few made it to Ka’ and O. Nobu and Morimotos were a shyte show.
 
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And what happens when the curtains don't match the rug? Does all of the expert analysis above still apply?
The main reason most go bare is that most of the assembled who like blondes don't care if they're dyed and have implants either...
 

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Gotta ask though, since I do not want to do another thread on it, do you all notice the differences in men they go for? Because I have seen a trend.

1. Hot blondes that are the prototypical Barbie overwhelmingly not just prefer a "Chad" but also a blond haired dude. Like even if a darker haired guy wants one, he is overcompensating in some way and hitting it out of the ball park.

2. Fake blondes love black dudes a lot or really any kind of guy that will get them attention.

3. Brunettes seem to go thirsty for minorities and ethnic dudes, like the more tanned and darker the brunette, the more she goes with an ethnic dude. Saw a few cases where women with that Kendall Jenner look just hang with ethnic women or black women instead.
 

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Gotta ask though, since I do not want to do another thread on it, do you all notice the differences in men they go for? Because I have seen a trend.

1. Hot blondes that are the prototypical Barbie overwhelmingly not just prefer a "Chad" but also a blond haired dude. Like even if a darker haired guy wants one, he is overcompensating in some way and hitting it out of the ball park.

2. Fake blondes love black dudes a lot or really any kind of guy that will get them attention.

3. Brunettes seem to go thirsty for minorities and ethnic dudes, like the more tanned and darker the brunette, the more she goes with an ethnic dude. Saw a few cases where women with that Kendall Jenner look just hang with ethnic women or black women instead.
IMHO, I will group my answer in to 3 points. In addition, my observations come from couples in LTRs & marriages lol.

1). I think most people tend to date people that look like them. When I mean look like them, I mean look like they could be a sibling or first sibling. To keep it simple, I see a lot of blonde-haired women with blonde haired men.

2). My first point applies to blacks, but in a socioeconomic way. I see a lot of trashy white women with trashy black men regardless of class. However, I do see lighter haired to blonde, white women with wealthier black men or as cleet chasers.

3). I see a similar thing with point 2). when it comes to non-black minority men and white women. They tend to date someone similar to them in personality and socio-economical class regardless of hair color. I will say that I see black men with the hottest white women compared to the other minorities, but minorities date better looking and more quality white women on an average basis.
 

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Literally every single dude I heard claim this will drop everything and go full on hungry coyote the second he has a chance with a hot blonde. I just say, stop coping bros lol.
Blondes aren’t my thing. If one falls in my lap, then I’ll smash but I’m not going to go crazy over one. I prefer women with dark hair
 

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Your experience is diametrically different than mine.
Gotta ask though, since I do not want to do another thread on it, do you all notice the differences in men they go for? Because I have seen a trend.

1. Hot blondes that are the prototypical Barbie overwhelmingly not just prefer a "Chad" but also a blond haired dude. Like even if a darker haired guy wants one, he is overcompensating in some way and hitting it out of the ball park.

2. Fake blondes love black dudes a lot or really any kind of guy that will get them attention.

3. Brunettes seem to go thirsty for minorities and ethnic dudes, like the more tanned and darker the brunette, the more she goes with an ethnic dude. Saw a few cases where women with that Kendall Jenner look just hang with ethnic women or black women instead.
 

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Literally every single dude I heard claim this will drop everything and go full on hungry coyote the second he has a chance with a hot blonde. I just say, stop coping bros lol.
That's probably because she's hot, not blonde. There are a lot of ugly blondes out there.

I'll take a beautiful woman with a nice personality of any hair color, skin color, and eye color. It's not helpful to me to have "types." Hence I've banged all kinds and IME physical traits don't affect their personality. Nice girls, bytches, and crazies of all shades.
 

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Literally every single dude I heard claim this will drop everything and go full on hungry coyote the second he has a chance with a hot blonde. I just say, stop coping bros lol.
Jesse, I say this with the utmost honesty, so don't think I'm trolling, but that is the exact opposite of the truth from my experience and witnessing of friends and peers that have the same tastes in women.

Men that aren't into pale women don't always flip flop for a hot blonde. They might not turn them down if available, but a complete U-turn is usually not the case, myself included.
 

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Blondes aren’t my thing. If one falls in my lap, then I’ll smash but I’m not going to go crazy over one. I prefer women with dark hair
The thing is, I have never seen a guy genuinely act out on his lack of preference for blondes and white women in general. I have noticed that it is the very guys who are saying "white women are overrated" or not the best that usually can't get them and will pounce on one in a heartbeat.

IMO, Asians are overrated and usually only meant for white men who cannot get women of other races.

Latinas are woefully insecure and wish they were white.
 

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IMHO, I will group my answer in to 3 points. In addition, my observations come from couples in LTRs & marriages lol.

1). I think most people tend to date people that look like them. When I mean look like them, I mean look like they could be a sibling or first sibling. To keep it simple, I see a lot of blonde-haired women with blonde haired men.

2). My first point applies to blacks, but in a socioeconomic way. I see a lot of trashy white women with trashy black men regardless of class. However, I do see lighter haired to blonde, white women with wealthier black men or as cleet chasers.

3). I see a similar thing with point 2). when it comes to non-black minority men and white women. They tend to date someone similar to them in personality and socio-economical class regardless of hair color. I will say that I see black men with the hottest white women compared to the other minorities, but minorities date better looking and more quality white women on an average basis.
3 is true because black men are objectively higher SMV than any other minority group save for a suave Latino. Have you seen what most Asian and Indian/Arab dudes look like? There is a reason they struggle the most, it's because they tend to look the worst.

However, on point 3, just my personal observation wherever I have been even when there are equal amounts of brunettes and "blondes", brunettes seem to break hard for ethnic dudes. Brunette with freckles and pale skin? Almost always seems to like an ethnic guy of some kind, usually a Latino since they are the best looking but if the rare handsome Asian, Indian, or Arab dude comes along, she is all over him too.

I just see this so much when out and even in social settings, these women even aggressively go for darker guys. Come to think of it, even darker and more ethnic looking brunettes do so too.
 
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