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[AmsterdamAssassin]

If a man had thousands of average broads orbiting him, he'd be ecstatic.

I'm not ecstatic.

 

[BaronOfHair]

If a man had thousands of average broads orbiting him, he'd be ecstatic.

We'd all be ecstatic, if we didn't have to work ten times harder and more cunningly than our attractive young female colleagues do, in order to get ahead in our careers... Not even guys with male model looks are sympathized with as readily as beautiful young women are

Alas, this(men having to expend effort in order to fulfill our desires, that is) ain't the way life operates, and no amount of protesting or fantasizing over such things coming to pass will ever change that

 

[corrector]

For a woman I don't even want sex with, I'm not about to waste $30.

Yeah, I'd be down to accept a date with her (to boost my self-esteem)...but still not worth the $30.

I don't understand your logic. You don't think $ 30 is not worth a boost to your self esteem, but then you'll spend $ 300 on an escort?

If you are spending money on escorts, then why would you care so much about money with broads, especially that small? At least that's more of a genuine attraction to you.

The curisoity as whether it's all legit or if it's a scam, to get the finality of that is worth taking that risk, otherwise, in the back of your head, how do you know she is even real?

 

[Vanderdonck]

It's not that hard to attract or pull "average" women. Mid women are everywhere and not that interesting. Most of the men here complaining about the "abundance" women have would probably turn their nose up at an average woman who came onto him.

 

[GoodMan32]

We'd all be ecstatic, if we didn't have to work ten times harder and more cunningly than our attractive young female colleagues do, in order to get ahead in our careers... Not even guys with male model looks are sympathized with as readily as beautiful young women are

Alas, this(men having to expend effort in order to fulfill our desires, that is) ain't the way life operates, and no amount of protesting or fantasizing over such things coming to pass will ever change that

Umm, I'm a man, yet I could easily get ahead in my career if it weren't for the fact my mental illnesses/ASD prevent me from being able to handle a promotion.

I've had bosses beg me (and harass me incessantly) about how badly they've wanted me to accept a promotion.

Put another way: Even a man who doesn't want a promotion has had promotion offers thrown at him. Surely a man who wants a promotion could easily get one.

If only cooch were thrown at me with the same passion promotion offers have been thrown at me.

 

[GoodMan32]

I don't understand your logic. You don't think $ 30 is not worth a boost to your self esteem, but then you'll spend $ 300 on an escort?

If you are spending money on escorts, then why would you care so much about money with broads, especially that small? At least that's more of a genuine attraction to you.

The curisoity as whether it's all legit or if it's a scam, to get the finality of that is worth taking that risk, otherwise, in the back of your head, Ken.

do you know she is even real?

The chance it could be a scam (and the fact even if she's real, there's a decent chance she'll change her mind before the date even happens) prevents me from paying the $30.

As has been hinted at on the thread, dating/hookup sites that make you pay to reply are typically scams.

Paying $30 to find out if a woman who isn't even in my preferred age group is legit really isn't worth it in my opinion. I pay $30 for speed dating events...that's different though because I'm guaranteed a chance to chat up live broads in person.

 

[GoodMan32]

It's not that hard to attract or pull "average" women. Mid women are everywhere and not that interesting. Most of the men here complaining about the "abundance" women have would probably turn their nose up at an average woman who came onto him.

I can't speak for other men on here.

I'd be thrilled for a chance for a romp with an average woman in my preferred age demographic.

The abundance thing is real by the way. Even an average woman has suitors galore on swipe apps. No way does an average man have the same degree of abundance.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Umm, I'm a man, yet I could easily get ahead in my career if it weren't for the fact my mental illnesses/ASD prevent me from being able to handle a promotion.

Hard time holding onto a woman

I've mentioned on this forum before that most of the free sex I've had came from Craigslist (and other than the married woman I had the monthlong affair with from Craigslist, every Craigslist escapade was a one night stand). It's been suggested on this forum that even though a non-Chad might get...

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[GoodMan32]

Hard time holding onto a woman

I've mentioned on this forum before that most of the free sex I've had came from Craigslist (and other than the married woman I had the monthlong affair with from Craigslist, every Craigslist escapade was a one night stand). It's been suggested on this forum that even though a non-Chad might get...

www.sosuave.net

My mental illnesses and ASD aren't excuses; mere facts of life.

 

[corrector]

It's not that hard to attract or pull "average" women. Mid women are everywhere and not that interesting. Most of the men here complaining about the "abundance" women have would probably turn their nose up at an average woman who came onto him.

Agree with GM. That is simply not true. While I do have limits (if the woman is into something demonic or occultic then I would pass), I dont have much in preference. I have even subbed a fat hor on OF. It shows that I am not that picky.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The abundance thing is real by the way. Even an average woman has suitors galore on swipe apps. No way does an average man have the same degree of abundance.

You and I view abundance very differently. And women will view it even more differently, because (despite incels blathering about women riding the penis carousel) women are more interested in whose penis they let in. Most women won't stoop to dumpster diving.

Abundance means the availability of ATTRACTIVE intimate partners, because when getting sex is no longer difficult, you want the improved version. Starfishes need not apply.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

My mental illnesses and ASD aren't excuses; mere facts of life.

You're absolutely right. They aren't excuses. You just use them as excuses.

 

[BaronOfHair]

My mental illnesses and ASD aren't excuses; mere facts of life.

Most human beings are susceptible to psych disturbances of some sort, hoss. You really aren't that special

 

[GoodMan32]

Agree with GM. That is simply not true. While I do have limits (if the woman is into something demonic or occultic then I would pass), I dont have much in preference. I have even subbed a fat hor on OF. It shows that I am not that picky.

Are you open to getting married ever again?

Asking because your refusal to partake in sex outside of marriage puts you in a unique position compared to the vast majority of men on here.

 

[GoodMan32]

You and I view abundance very differently. And women will view it even more differently, because (despite incels blathering about women riding the penis carousel) women are more interested in whose penis they let in. Most women won't stoop to dumpster diving.

Abundance means the availability of ATTRACTIVE intimate partners, because when getting sex is no longer difficult, you want the improved version. Starfishes need not apply.

Plenty of attractive men get overlooked by broads for whatever reason. Not just me. Vice made a short YouTube documentary about an attractive incel.

Here's a screenshot of the incel:



Then here's the journalist interviewing him:



Ironically, the incel looks better than the journalist.

 

[Lean Baby Face]

A lot of these "unattractive" men are really average.

If a man had thousands of average broads orbiting him, he'd be ecstatic.

I'd say majority of men that use OLD happen to be below 5s, at least when it comes to appearance. I once tried to do a search for males just to see what they looked like, and damn, no wonder why a woman would only reply to the top 5% of all men approaching her if that's what the average man on OLD looks like.

I remember in the past I actually had a few women writing to me "Are you real?" as their first message. Taking care of your appearance and making an effort to look good on photos can do wonders, at least when trying to catch a woman's attention. Once you got her attention though, that's when looks starts becoming less important, sadly...

 

[GoodMan32]

You're absolutely right. They aren't excuses. You just use them as excuses.

The vast majority of the female population will never find an autist sexually exciting. That's a fact.

 

[GoodMan32]

I'd say majority of men that use OLD happen to be below 5s, at least when it comes to appearance. I once tried to do a search for males just to see what they looked like, and damn, no wonder why a woman would only reply to the top 5% of all men approaching her if that's what the average man on OLD looks like.

I remember in the past I actually had a few women writing to me "Are you real?" as their first message. Taking care of your appearance and making an effort to look good on photos can do wonders, at least when trying to catch a woman's attention. Once you got her attention though, that's when looks starts becoming less important, sadly...

Perhaps in Europe, it's mainly below average men (in terms of looks) using online dating/hookup platforms.

For us Yanks, while I admittedly haven't paid a whole lot of attention to men's profiles on online dating/hookup platforms, I've heard plenty of men with at least average looks mention that they use (or have used) online dating/hookup platforms.

Hell, when I was in college, I even remember a popular jock I went to high school with using OLD.

Also when I was in college, I remember a girl on POF telling me I look too good to be single.

There are a number of reasons a man who isn't ugly might use online dating (social awkwardness, too low of an income to impress the typical woman in real life, has niche preferences, not enough time to meet a woman in real life, broads in his social circle are overwhelmingly taken, etc)