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[GoodMan32]

@Sega Genesis he is brilliant. He has a Master's degree in a STEM field, he plays an instrument beautifully and he is an incredible vocalist. Intelligence and IQ are different than emotional quotient or EQ. I have high IQ and EQ. I have businesses and also work as a consultant in a STEM field.

He probably would do with a mood stabilizer frankly but he is in deep denial about his ASD and that is akin to a paralyzed man refusing to embrace/accept the paralysis, and thus refuse the tools available to help him. We were at a high brow Christmas party last night. Fortunately they had a live ensemble playing so my husband could take a seat & enjoy the music & I could alternatively socialize & sit a while next to him. Before we went to the party (and for the first time ever) he told me he gets uncomfortable and anxious at functions like this. That's a big step toward acknowledgement. He has a skewed view (thanks tone deaf in laws) toward mental & emotional health and sees medication as indcative of a mental health problem. There are deep roots in dysfunctional family background. He did well at the party, people there are understanding about his social issues and are welcoming.

Any man involves pros and cons. Any man. I am well aware and chose him based on things most important to me.

That's impressive how he's a good musician and good at STEM.

As a rule of thumb, STEM types generally aren't good at musical/artistic creativity.

 

[SW15]

After following the flowchart for my own circumstances, I ended up in the box of "find fulfillment outside of getting a woman"

I followed that flowchart. It confirmed that I have chosen the correct path in being a mainly daygame focused seducer. Focusing on daygame was a choice I made in the early 2010s after some deep reflections as I was nearing age 30.

 

[Sega Genesis]

Any man involves pros and cons. Any man. I am well aware and chose him based on things most important to me.

Thank you for clarifying @ Be, and re what's quoted above, I agree fer sure!

For me personally, having high respect is important to me so when I read you were losing respect for your husband, it saddened me. You yourself even said that wasn’t good.

However after reading further responses and specifically your last, I take it back!

If you're in love and happy that is all matters at the end of the day.

Again Happy Holidays and wish you both the best in 2025!

 

[GoodMan32]

I followed that flowchart. It confirmed that I have chosen the correct path in being a mainly daygame focused seducer. Focusing on daygame was a choice I made in the early 2010s after some deep reflections as I was nearing age 30.

Needless to say, I refuse to accept the "pursue other interests" path.

Yet if the chart is any indication, I'm destined for failure (which would explain my bad luck)