Originally posted by marqZAL
Look, I am not sure what planet you come from, but sex is natural part of life. If a grown man or women doesnt want sex...that isnt natural. I dont know why you think your high and mighty because you dont have sex??? Your not normal!!!! This is a matter of following your desires as a human being(we are sexual creatures)....if you lack sexual desire or the ability to follow through on your desires as a grown as$ man then you have big problems. As far as being insecure, even if was...it doesnt change the fact that youd be sitting home on a friday night jacking off, while I am out banging the girl you wish would give you the time of day!!!
I don't even know where to begin. I guess point-by-point will do.
1. No one ever said virgins don't want sex. I want sex. But for a variety of reasons, different ones at different times, the potential pain outweighs the potential pleasure. At least that's how I see it.
2. I don't think I'm high and mighty because I choose not to have sex. That's my choice. I could give a shyt less what anyone else does. And given what passes for "normal" in modern society, "abnormal" is a title I wear with pride already. AFCism is normal. Think about that.
3. Again, you're operating under a false premise. This premise is that the only reason for one to be a virgin is that there's something outside one's own control preventing one from acting on one's desires. This is, at least for me, not the case, so your argument is moot. I do not lack sexual desire. I do not lack the ability to act on my desires. However, I choose not to act on those desires. I choose this because of my principles, because of my upbringing, because basically it's a promise I made to myself and I want to follow through on it. I also choose this to prevent out-of-wedlock pregnancies, shotgun weddings to girls I don't care about, STDs from random bar sluts, fathers with shotguns, and any number of other things. The bottom line is, it's my choice, and I have the willpower to overcome my physical desires. In fact, this ability is what separates humans from the lower animals. This is a fundamental part of our humanness. There's nothing abnormal or unhealthy about restraining one's desires.
4. Finally, my choice to not have sex has nothing to do with my ability to attract, date, etc., any woman I want. I don't have much of a problem with that.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being a virgin, just don't get these peeps who deliberately hold onto it. Especially until marriage.
