A month has passed since I last checked into the site and I had nearly forgotten about this post. Now that I come back, I see that the topic I brought up is still being discussed. Admittedly, my personal strengths lie in the creation of innovative ideas, and not in the presentation. I truely wish that I had more carefully chose the words I used to present my thoughts, because I feel that a true understanding of the message in my post is something that the majority of the posters on this site could benefit from.
I'm an intelligent man. Before I posted my advice, I looked around the site and saw the constant preaching of self-improvement and as I began typing out my thoughts, I wasn't expecting to please everyone. Attacking a lifestyle that many of you had adopted, I knew what I was in for.
It is now that I should point out that I wasn't truely attacking self-improvement as a whole, but the mannor in which some people on this site are abusing it.
I am in fact attacking the way members of this site are fearfully hiding behind self-improvement to avoid getting burned by a woman. Let me elaborate. New members of this site are given the impression that they aren't good enough to get a women YET.
So they completely avoid going out and meeting and approaching women, because they genuienely (and wrongfully) believe that they aren't worthy of these women yet. They adopt a negative SELF-IMAGE. All of a sudden they make women these amazing, godly creatures and make it seem like they well out of their league. So what do they do? They go to the gym daily, tape record their voices, spend hours reading Pook's articles and scrutinize and 'improve' EVERY characteristic they possess.
They tell themselves, when I get my teeth whitened I'll be a ladies man, or when I put on some more muscle I'll be pimping. But as they fix one 'flaw' a new one arises. They convince themselves that there is something wrong with them and in turn are creating impossible obstacles for themselves that simply
DON'T EXIST.
The simple truth is that no matter how hard a man tries, he will never be that perfect man that he is tirelessly persuing. The good news, however, is that you don't need to be perfect to get that HB10. (which also doesn't exist, but that's for a different thread)
The message of my thread isn't to get fat, ugly or to dress like a slob. You can continue to 'improve yourself' if you wish. (Hell if I was obese, I would want to lose weight for the health benefits alone) HOWEVER, as you participate in self-improvement, DO NOT expect things to instantly get easier with women. You will still have the same anxieties and fears inside of you. And guess what? They aren't going to be any easier to tackle 6 months down the road.
ATTACK YOUR FEARS TODAY!
Go out now and take risks with women. Don't wait, you'll regret it. Be sexual, be forward and be HONEST about your intentions. Walk right up to that HB and talk to her. It will soon become an addiction much healthier than self-improvement. And believe me, the benefits of the lifestyle are endless.
You don't need to improve yourself, you simply need to become that ballsy, risk-taking man that's trapped inside of you.
Because gentlemen I think once you guys get out in the field, you'll begin to realise that despite what you tell yourself now, you're really doing these self-improving activities to make yourself worthy of that HB10. And once you get out into the field and meet her you may just realise that you had been wasting your time.
