Balling a married woman

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by nzalan
You spout religious babble from the bible, as if you are a religious man, and yet you say you would kill, which goes against one of the commandments - thou shalt not kill.

Like many others who claim they are religious, you are a hypocrite. You are religious only when it suits you.

I can understand why Lost would fly off the handle, most men would. It's easier to react to the situation than reflect on what obviously not working in the actual marriage. Wives in a secure and viable marriage seldom stray. It's just the husbands needing to stay in tune with how their wives perceive their marriage.

I will say that it is very interesting how so many people quote the bible but say or do things that are not congruent with it. "You have sinned by what is written but I will do whatever I'd like in retribution since you sinned against me..." I don't get it.

But before some numbnutz new to the forum start a flame in the thread I'll say again that I do not pursue married women however if they pursue me, I would definitely consider friends with benefits.

 

[white sox bill]

But before some numbnutz new to the forum start a flame in the thread I'll say again that I do not pursue married women however if they pursue me, I would definitely consider friends with benefits.


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Well put Bro. Ditto here

 

[Lost In Translation]

trust some turkey to miss the point.

nzalan YOU ARE THAT TURKEY

Quote - nzalan
You spout religious babble from the bible, as if you are a religious man, and yet you say you would kill, which goes against one of the commandments - thou shalt not kill.

Like many others who claim they are religious, you are a hypocrite. You are religious only when it suits you.

my post count is 571.

how many times have i quoted the bible in 571 posts ?

ONCE

you need an a$$ kicking nzalan

shut the f*ck up if you have no clue !

and if you had have a brain you would see what this bible quote is saying

THOU SHALL NOT KILL yes you are right the bible says that DUH !

but look at the passage i quoted. it says that even though it is against Gods law to kill. AN ANGRY HUSBAND IS GOING TO BE SO ENRAGED HE IS NOT GOING TO CARE !

HE IS GUNNA KICK YOUR ASS

he will commit a crime in his passion for his wife

in the heat of the moment

as PR_L would say " SAY NO TO MARRIED HO'S "

p.s nzalan. JESUS LOVES YOU !


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

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“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

DJ LIT in the house!!!!! Quoting the book of proverbs? My favorite book!!!!!! Wisdom prevails throughout it's length!!!!!

Yes boys, killing the wicked is good and their death sprouts good fruit!! But only God can judge the wicked to eternal damnation!!!!

Don't seek vengance against the hormonger who pimps your wife - seek vegance against the wrongdoer - your hor wife - who has condemn your spirit through her destructive hor mindset!! It is the hor wife who has made a contract of fidelity with you -- who she hors with is immaterial!!!!

 

[iveyleeger]

I've got a lot of offers from married women and always turned them down. It is amazing how shocked they are that I care that they are married. Sure, she will just find another guy. But I would never want to be the one who puts that kind of hurt into a man's life.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by iveyleeger
I've got a lot of offers from married women and always turned them down. It is amazing how shocked they are that I care that they are married. Sure, she will just find another guy. But I would never want to be the one who puts that kind of hurt into a man's life.

That's a bit being full of yourself. If a married woman approaches you, there has already been bad sh1t going on in their marriage for a long time. Husbands blames the other guy more times than not because his @ss was blind to sh1t going wrong in his marriage every day. Straight up AFC.

 

[iveyleeger]

AFC is going with the desparate married chick who approaches you. DJ his having some standards and going after a quality girl.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by iveyleeger
AFC is going with the desparate married chick who approaches you. DJ his having some standards and going after a quality girl.

AFC is attempting to dictate the definition of a DJ just to justify his own actions.

 

[HKgunslinger]

Re: Re: married women

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I can understand how you guys could fell this type of morality especially if you've been cheated on. This usually happens when either a guy dates the wrong type of woman OR isn't fulfilling some need in the relationship, h3ll that's the reason why guys cheat.

I have never been married, nor cheated on in any sort of relationship than I know of.

If a woman made her vows she STICKS by them, most cheating women don't even let their husband know there is marriage trouble, they just go about it and justify it later, using the usual "emotional needs" bull$hit. It's frooties like you who buy into that sh!t BECAUSE YOU FEEL THE NEED TO JUSTIFY YOUR ACTIONS. Nice chick logic there.

Me? I don't buy that sh!t AT ALL. Women should be held to the same standard, I don't care how cute they are, how many times they use the excuse that they don't have a logical brain like men do. Doesn't matter, a woman who cheats KNOWS WTF she is doing.

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Before anyone asks about how would I feel if my woman was seeing another guy. First off, it wouldn't happen (and it has never happened to me). I date (commit) to women with integrity AND I do what's necessary to contribute to the relationship. If by some strange twist of fate she does cheat, I would first look at myself to determine whether I had a part to play, if not I'd next her. Simple as that.

You sir, are FOS. You've never been cheated on? How the fvck would you know? Maybe you're not as good a detective as you think?

Anyone who blames the husband for a wife cheating, is FOS. Sure some guys don't know how to fvck right of whatever, don't show enough affection as they could, but also they work their fvckin' A$$ off for that b!tch and she could show some appreciation for the guy she made her VOWS to, get some counciling, show him how to be a better lover, whatever. Of course there are always complete POS husbands who cheat or whatever, THEN I could care less what the woman does, all bets are off.

Cheaters are POS, if you want out of a marriage you GET OUT, then do whatever, you don't fvck over your wife/husband/children.

'Slinger out.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Oxide
note to self: Lock my wife away when Francisco comes over.

Smart man but actually I do draw the line with girlfriends of my buds. It's personal at that point.

Look at it this way.. if you are with a girl (not married) and she cheats... would you blame the guy or would you blame her? Most guys blame the guy becuase of their own insecurity.. You should be blaming her, right after you leave her.

Same with marriage. You find you, you get divorced. No if's, or's or but's.

You've got it...

Fran, how long you been with that one married girl (the gorgeous chick you met at the lake?) .. i think i'd get tired of all the tip toeing after awhile.

I took a break from her over the winter and didn't see her for a good three months. I saw her on a club ride and chit-chatted for a bit, had to cut it short because I was there with another woman (yeah, I live on the edge).

Anyway, she's going through her divorce and met another guy during our hiatus. For sh1ts & giggles I called her to for a get together about a month later. She was supposed to be going on a ride with this other guy but changed her plans, stood him up and went out with me.

Got back to my house, she played hard to get of course but come on... She broke a date to see a guy that she had only seen once in three months? Long story short, she left at 10:00 the next morning.

 

[Paratrooper51]

Yup

I let my wife do whatever she wants, we trust each other, and I dont care. However, she married me knowing that if she ever cheated on me, I'd get the Army involved and take all of her money through court martial, divorce her, and forget her. Goes both ways though. If I ever cheated on my wife the Army would destroy my life, but I dont worry about that since it wont happen. I love her to death, we have awesome sex, we live adventurous lives, so there really isn't anything for me to worry about in the first place. I think she's scared too, knowing that I jump out of planes and kill people for a living. lol. Dumb ****. Most women will put out plenty of signs before cheating, and if your communication is bad, thats your fault. It's the man's job to maintain his household and keep his **** together. Plus, stop giving your wife good sex and making her laugh, see what happens. My two cents.

BTW - "Do not be too timid or unsure about your actions. All life is an experiment." -Emerson

No. How about stop taking advice from ****heads, grow a sack, and do the right thing? Experiment my a**, Ralph Waldo Emerson never even got married.

 

[dietzcoi]

Over and over again, reasons not to get married.

But, who will ever learn from others? You have to make the mistake yourself.

BTW, lots and lots of married women cheat. Francisco is right.. they will find a stud to cheat with, if it is not you, it is somebody else... not that that makes it right.

I won't be with a married woman myself, don't need the drama... but if you like adventure and danger, that is the place to find it.

All you guys who bluster about how YOUR woman won't cheat.. ha ha ha

Dietzcoi

 

[grunnacht]

Ok, just reading this thread made me register and post.

We'll, let's evaluate some situations:

a) You find a chick, you bang her, you part ways.
b) You find a chick, you make a friend with benefits (not a date).
c) You find a chick, one-itis kicks in (hopefully in both directions), you date her.

In the first situation, does it really matter if she is married or not? In fact you could have done it unknowingly.

In the last situation, does it really matter if she dates somebody else or is married? She's THE ONE (tm) for you!

The grayer one is the one in the middle, and I can understand people not wanting it. I even can undersant people having [some principles/closed mind] and not wanting to do it in the first case. And for the last... one-itis is so AFC... but pursuing what you want is alpha! And really, if you care about something you do not go for it?

Worst of it all is that the gilty feeling is not because we hurt her, or us, but a total stranger (I also draw the line of not touching my friends' actual girls). He could be a moron, he could be cheating her, he could be vengeful, he could be looking for an excuse to divorce, he could be a nice guy,... but you don't know him, and in fact he is not there.

The most curious about it all was that I have just read this after lurking in a forum of men who pay for sex. And one thread was about the guilty complex some had because they were cheating their wifes/girlfriends.

Most of you will think the same about these men as you do about the ones who bang wifes. But probably not as strong. Why? because it's embedded into us that wifes BELONG to men!! And that's simply not true.

And the funny thing is that the husband with a cheater wife will go against the lover (most of them will also go against the wife), while the wife with a cheater husband will not go against the other girl, just against the husband (except psyco ones, of course).

Men feel guilty for cheating, men feel gilty for banging another man girl, men attack men because their girl's been unfaithful, women suck the life out of men because they've been unfaithful. This is sick

Take care.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Yup

Originally posted by Paratrooper51
I let my wife do whatever she wants, we trust each other, and I dont care. However, she married me knowing that if she ever cheated on me, I'd get the Army involved and take all of her money through court martial, divorce her, and forget her. Goes both ways though. If I ever cheated on my wife the Army would destroy my life, but I dont worry about that since it wont happen. I love her to death, we have awesome sex, we live adventurous lives, so there really isn't anything for me to worry about in the first place. I think she's scared too, knowing that I jump out of planes and kill people for a living. lol. Dumb ****. Most women will put out plenty of signs before cheating, and if your communication is bad, thats your fault. It's the man's job to maintain his household and keep his **** together. Plus, stop giving your wife good sex and making her laugh, see what happens. My two cents.

BTW - "Do not be too timid or unsure about your actions. All life is an experiment." -Emerson

No. How about stop taking advice from ****heads, grow a sack, and do the right thing? Experiment my a**, Ralph Waldo Emerson never even got married.

Here's a guy that knows how to keep a woman honest.

BTW, nice quote...

 

[white sox bill]

BTW - "Do not be too timid or unsure about your actions. All life is an experiment." -Emerson

No. How about stop taking advice from ****heads, grow a sack, and do the right thing? Experiment my a**, Ralph Waldo Emerson never even got married.


Smart man that Emerson.

 

[Alpine]

Any man prepared to kill a bloke cos someones slept with his Mrs, probably gives you an idea why she's let another guy poke her.

If a relationships strong then it shouldn't happen anyway, if she's generally wayward and you don't like it, don't blame the other guy, blame yourself for marrying a slut.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Just wanting to resuscitate this thread because it's one of the few truly heated discussions where DJs could control themselves as not to make the mods close it. GOOD JOB EVERYONE!!! :UP:
Here's the latest with my Ms. Married:

A couple of weeks ago I end up on the same bike club ride as her. I walk right up to her and give her a hug and kiss as if we had seen each other the week before (it had been at least a month since we've seen each other). I walked away to get my gear together while telling her over my shoulder that I would talk to her later; everyone knows that women love mystery, right?

Anyway, she catches up to me during the ride and tells me that our anniversary is coming up! WTF???!!! She actually remembered the day that the two of us met at the lake and wants to celebrate. She goes on to tell me that she is finally getting her own place in a couple of weeks. Oh no! What should Francisco do???!!!

Long story short, that was a couple of weeks ago and I'm curious if I'm going to see her on tomorrow's ride, we'll see. We'll also see if We're going to celebrate our "anniversary" after the ride.

FYI, the other chick I was seeing who ended up on the same ride broke her bike so she shouldn't end up on this one, but sh1t can always happen. All a guy can do is wipe.

Anyway, anyone care to commit on my lack of moral fiber, the fact that I'm a self professed "Man Wh0re" or any other rants about ex-wives who have cheated on them and how the OTHER GUY broke up their marriage?

 

[nectarine]

Yes, I will.

You're a nasty ****. A piece of work.

Not once in this thread have I seen what I'd have called a fairly vital piece of humanity. Thinking of the children.

So yeah, great. You meet a married girl and you hook up. No skin off your nose, right? Right. She's happy, you're happy, hubby's in the dark, it's all good.

And you're hoping hubby doesn't find out. Hubby's obviously not treating his woman right so you may as well give her what she's not getting. It's none of your business what goes on with them at their end, right?

Wrong.

This married woman got children? New lives in the world whose cradle is their family? It's on your head when hubby finds out, and divorces wife, and the childrens lives are screwed. They can't bounce back, they are powerless.

Yeah, she'd probably only cheat with another guy if you weren't there. So that other guy is responsible, and you aren't. You could, should have made that call, the right call, at the start.

You sure you won't get busted? Maybe you're right. Why risk it. In an adult world you can deal in hard truths. The children whose lives you can ruin can't. You would be responsible for that. Yes of course the wife is at fault. But you are the one involved with her when you had the choice not to be.

Take advantage of a cheating wife and you ruin the childrens lives. THAT is the inescapable judgement of your actions, and THAT is what makes you a piece of ****, and not a man.


If there are no children, no attempt at children, no pregnancy... well, that's ok then.


PS. You'll tell me, Francisco, that this one in particular has no children. But you haven't said that would stop you if another did, so it clearly doesn't bear on your thoughts. If I'm wrong and you just didn't mention it, then maybe you aren't a ****.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by nectarine
PS. You'll tell me, Francisco, that this one in particular has no children. But you haven't said that would stop you if another did, so it clearly doesn't bear on your thoughts. If I'm wrong and you just didn't mention it, then maybe you aren't a ****.

No, mine actually had children. They weren't crazy about their father and are now happy that they are divorced. But none the less, did I care, nope. Would I have done the same thing, yep.

The fact is your morality is your own and I respect that whatever premise lies within is your own. The problem is people who attempt to project it upon others. Usually when they do it is a deflection from the true issue at hand.

So speaking of which, lets say that the woman was your wife. And you were not involved in the relationship. Oh you always paid the bills and kept a roof over their heads but that's it. You seldom if ever showed any appreciation to your wife, you never interacted with your children, you just provided things rather your interaction with the family.

This goes on for years. Your wife pleads with you that her needs aren't being met and all you want to do is sleep with her more often. She doesn't know you other than you are the person that comes home each night and complains about how your boss is an @sshole and how you won't get the raise you were promised.

Day after day it's the same thing. You don't even notice that she's changed her hairstyle until two weeks after she did, then you scream and yell at her because she spent the money on something she enjoyed. Days turn into months, months turn into years. She talks to you about it but nothing changes.

So your wife meets someone who listens to her, he does nothing but lets her vent. She ends up falling for the guy just because she needs nurturing, acceptance, validation. Everything that you aren't giving her. She ends up cheating, is she the only one at fault or will you man up and look in the mirror and acknowledge that you had something to do with the marital problems as well as her?

 

[hithard]

So your wife meets someone who listens to her, he does nothing but lets her vent. She ends up falling for the guy just because she needs nurturing, acceptance, validation. Everything that you aren't giving her. She ends up cheating, is she the only one at fault or will you man up and look in the mirror and acknowledge that you had something to do with the marital problems as well as her?

Yes you are an angel sent to save all married men.You should have a school named after you

I have no problem with you doing the married girl thing.Hey go wild.For me engaged would be the limit.And if theres kids no go.If you feel its so right go up to hubby look him in the eyes and say I'm screwing your wife to make your life better.Wifey gets the thrill from sneaking around, bit of excitment.I suppose they are great for a lay.But I dont know if I'd want to surround myself with lying cheating ho's on purpose.If its so right go tell hubby why sneak around.You seem to be laying alot of blame onto the other guy.Which means you are probably listening to a woman who is already lying and cheating on her husband(yeah real keeper there).

I actually do think you are doing ppl a favour though.No guy needs a woman like that around.Better to find out sooner then later.Problem is most guys forgive and forget.Not knocking your world.But some of these posts are real flamebaiters