Balling a married woman

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: Re: married women

Originally posted by DonRob
Seems to me that a married woman trying to get you into a relationship lacks integrity. Why mess with someone who has no integrity.... if she messed around on him, she will mess around on you.

Thanks for posting what I said out of context. You missed the part of the post when I told her that nothing was going to become of us, no dating, no relationship, no commitments. She can't commit, she's married! I could care less about what she does on her own time. I also just posted that she was like a couple of the other women I see, just "filler friends."

Like I said before, so many of you guys seems as if once a woman becomes interested in you all of a sudden you are in some type of relationship. That's the type of thing that women complain about all the time. You leach on to them just because they were nice to you or went out with you once. Now you think that you're 'dating' and are in a committed relationship. That's a bit AFC.

 

[cave dweller]

luck

Hey,

Like I said---'You got lucky this time, but, don't press your luck.'

You slipped in there, with a married woman, and 'hit that thing'.

Now move on and find a single one.

cave dweller

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: luck

Originally posted by cave dweller
Hey,

Like I said---'You got lucky this time, but, don't press your luck.'

You slipped in there, with a married woman, and 'hit that thing'.

Now move on and find a single one.

cave dweller

CD, find a single one? Dude, I had to drop two of of my single fillies from the rotation because they weren't keeping up, now I'm down to four including Ms. Married. Like I said before, Ms. Married is just a side dish, I keep a good number of appetizers around that help me from becoming bored.

Don't tell me that you're one of those DJs that think that when you come across a woman that's interested in you that you have to put all of your efforts toward just her. Come on now, that takes no effort at all...

 

[cave dweller]

no

Hey,

I am just saying your luck may run out and some nasty husband a$$ may come after your a$$ with a gun.......

Hey, I have hit married women and I won't do that mistake again.....

Some husbands will go damn crazy....On your a$$.

cave dweller

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I bet he caught your @ss because you saw her all of the time. I bet you even saw her more than once a week, didn't you? If you did, what else would you expect but he would suspect something going on and then follow his wife and then find you??!!

Please tell me you didn't make THAT mistake....

 

[seanmichaels]

Francisco I agree with you whole-heartedly. I had a crush on a married woman and to find out she liked me too and now we're together... She's married, but seperated. Divorce can't just happen in a matter of seconds. At first I felt bad that I would be with her cause of her marriage but my friend who was very close to her had told her I liked her and she and I ate lunch together and we're "dating" right now. Best of luck to you.

Always remember, just becuase they're married doesn't mean they aren't worth it....They're human beings too and they could have feelings changed.

 

[stickindamud]

I was happy to finally see that there are some men out there with some kind of moral values. We get a bad rap sometimes from women but god maybe we deserve it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by seanmichaels
Francisco I agree with you whole-heartedly. I had a crush on a married woman and to find out she liked me too and now we're together... She's married, but seperated. Divorce can't just happen in a matter of seconds. At first I felt bad that I would be with her cause of her marriage but my friend who was very close to her had told her I liked her and she and I ate lunch together and we're "dating" right now. Best of luck to you.

Always remember, just becuase they're married doesn't mean they aren't worth it....They're human beings too and they could have feelings changed.

Thanks for the kind words but I said it before and I'll keep saying it; we aren't 'dating.' We have some common interests and we enjoy each other's company thats it, no commitment what so ever.

She plans to leave her husband, not for me but for herself. She knows that even if she leaves him, I'm not going to be 'her man.' She also knows that I'm seeing other women but she still wants to hang out just because we have a good time together, alone and with friends.

I'm glad to hear that your situation is working out for you. I'm not going to say that you're lucky or any BS like that like some people might say. Everyone has their own experiences and I'm not one to throw a wet blanket on what you're doing or your happiness. Why should I? It doesn't effect me or my life. I hope the best to both you and yours.

 

[cave dweller]

bang.......

Hey,

I will be 58 next month and have been divorced over 15 years.

All you young boys 'banging' those married women need to watch your back.

Because, a crazy a$$ husband can and will fvck your shvt up.

cave dweller

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: bang.......

Originally posted by cave dweller
Hey,

I will be 58 next month and have been divorced over 15 years.

All you young boys 'banging' those married women need to watch your back.

Because, a crazy a$$ husband can and will fvck your shvt up.

cave dweller

Ney CD, you still haven't answered my question about you getting caught. You were seeing her more than once a week I bet, right? That would be majorly AFC, of course her husband would catch you if you did something like that. What else would you expect?

 

[Hypoxia II]

I thought this was the mature mans forum.. Seems to me that we are discussing some infantile behavior.

 

[cave dweller]

yes

hey franco,

Yea, I got caught.

I was 'tearing' that dvmn thing up at least 2 times a week.
Hell, she wanted to leave her husband and move with me to Montana...........
)

cave dweller

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Hypoxia II
I thought this was the mature mans forum.. Seems to me that we are discussing some infantile behavior.

Well, you do not need to stick around for cookies and milk young man if you can't emote your views without denouncing another's behavior.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: yes

Originally posted by cave dweller
hey franco,

Yea, I got caught.

I was 'tearing' that dvmn thing up at least 2 times a week.
Hell, she wanted to leave her husband and move with me to Montana...........
)

cave dweller

Whoa, sounds as if you were in a relationship with her. At least it alludes to commitment, most married couples don't go at it twice a week.

For those of you that are interested, here's a link to a Newsweek article from last summer about why women stray. I find it interesting that most women just want what they don't get in their relationships. It may be worthwhile for some to read just to get a better understanding of how neglect effects their partners.

Newsweek Article:The Secret Lives of Wives

 

[Ricky]

Re: Not good enough to get single women?

Originally posted by WestCoaster
Cheating is for losers and AFCs who can't get single women.

Let's see, there are thousands of more women than men in America and you guys gotta settle for some housewife? Sheesh, give me a break. What's the deal, can't get a date with a single woman?

Let's see, single girlfriends:

1. Don't have to sneak around.

2. They don't ACT married.

3. They're not whining about their hubby.

4. They're not banging someone else when you're not around (usually).


I can't believe you guys can't land dates with single women. I've been single my whole life and haven't had problem finding single women.

I say hit the gym to work on your fitness since obviously you can't attract single women; and work on your personality, since that apparently isn't attracting them either.

Sheesh, I've dated women 15-20 years younger than me -- I'd prefer not to -- but most single women aren't that caught up in age if you guys feel so old you have to hit on boring, hagged out married women.

Have fun chumps ... more single women for me.

You are absolutely correct. I messed with a married woman and it was when I was a total AFC.

Now I beg anyone to not make the same mistakes I did. The guilt was unbearable, the embarrasment of being discovered and fear of being killed weren't too cool either. My life was pretty much ****ed up for a whole year after I had an affair and it was found out.

I still feel incredibly guilty about it. IT IS NEVER EVER WORTH IT. I can't empasize that enough.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: Not good enough to get single women?

Originally posted by Ricky
You are absolutely correct. I messed with a married woman and it was when I was a total AFC.

Now I beg anyone to not make the same mistakes I did. The guilt was unbearable, the embarrasment of being discovered and fear of being killed weren't too cool either. My life was pretty much ****ed up for a whole year after I had an affair and it was found out.

I still feel incredibly guilty about it. IT IS NEVER EVER WORTH IT. I can't empasize that enough.

I bet you're another one that saw her more than a couple of times a month or even worse, EVERY WEEK!! What makes you think that you wouldn't get caught? Did you think that she was 'the one' too? Hehehehe, One-itis fever, it's a b1tch.

It does sound like you were an AFC too. SHE'S the one's that cheating but YOU were the one feeling guilty!!! Now think about it, does that make any sense? I won't even go into the fear of death, fears and phobias are a personal thing.

But to let it effect your life for a whole year, that's completely messed up. Ricky I agree, YOU should definitely stay away from married women.

 

[Hypoxia II]

Well, you do not need to stick around for cookies and milk young man if you can't emote your views without denouncing another's behavior.

ok..

 

[white sox bill]

You know, I NOT downplaying the fear of being killed by a jeolous hubby. Been there and done that, but how many times does it REALLY happen? I know people will cite examples, but when you think of all the affairs that have been busted by the husband, I'd say the murder rate is miniscule, the assualt rate just a tad bit higher.

I've never been married, but if my wife cheated, I'd give her the boot (unless your an AFC), and sure I'd be tempted to beat the sh*t out of the guy, but something about going to jail and a huge fine would stop me. Isn't worth the time and expense

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm bumping this thread because the topic brought about some drama; and we all know that this forum needs more drama...

 

[Bonhomme]

Generally no, but...

Generally NO for me, but there are exceptions to any rule. If the gal was in a "marriage of convenience" with the main purpose being to get citizenship for herseelf or her husband, then I would not consider the marriage a true marriage of the heart, and I'd have no qualms about getting with her.

In general, I don't care to fool around with any attached woman at all until they make the break, be it divorce, separation, or breaking up with their boyfriend. Life's complicated enough as it is.

That said, I'll readily acknowledge that a lot of woman get married for the wrong reasons, and end up "serial wives."