Are you Good-Looking???
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Funny thing i was commented by one of my fathers friends about how handsome i was while reading this.. she even went on to say ill look good in uniform... But however good looks does make girls come up to you chat you up. it has happened sometimes.. once in a blue moon but this genereally does not happen... i might be of the opinion the really handsome males dont get approached often.. mayb because the woman fears rejection.
Also one last point... is it just me or does every one on this site think their good looking.. i know that cant be true becuase it it were so u wont be here. im not saying good looking people dont have problems with getting women, look at me i have confidence issues and cant approach women cis im too shy.. even when they stare... but on genreral good looking people dont have problems with gettin chicks even the extremely arrogant ones... im jus saying there are some fakes.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
Actually, I think there is quite a difference in the way that a man can be good-looking.
A man can be good-looking in a very masculine way, or he can be good-looking in a more feminine way.
Men that look masculine, are often feared by women and will never get approached.
However, men that look more feminine, are much more likely to be approached by women, yet will also make it much more likely for a guy to be put in the "friends" zone.
The biggest factor that causes women to feel attracted is a combination of features. When a man looks quite masculine, yet has several feminine features, it's very attractive to a much larger population of women.
Now, behold, men with more masculine faces will have it easier with very attractive women than either a combo good-looking guy or a feminine good-looking guy. This means that they are almost always at an advantage in the looks department. However, behaviour can solve this quite rapidly.
Now, both types have their advantages. If you look feminine yet act like a real man and behave sexually, average women will fall for you very easily.
If you look very masculine and act like a real man, women will fear you but still feel very attracted to you.
If you've got a lot of masculine and a lot of feminine features, a rather large spectrum of women will be attracted to you.
Ofcourse, this only applies to people that are already "Good-looking". If you're fat, deformed or your nose keeps falling off, you're just not good-looking and will have to rely completely on your behaviour.
Ofcourse, this post yet again makes clear that it's all about the way you interact with women!
A man can be good-looking in a very masculine way, or he can be good-looking in a more feminine way.
Men that look masculine, are often feared by women and will never get approached.
However, men that look more feminine, are much more likely to be approached by women, yet will also make it much more likely for a guy to be put in the "friends" zone.
The biggest factor that causes women to feel attracted is a combination of features. When a man looks quite masculine, yet has several feminine features, it's very attractive to a much larger population of women.
Now, behold, men with more masculine faces will have it easier with very attractive women than either a combo good-looking guy or a feminine good-looking guy. This means that they are almost always at an advantage in the looks department. However, behaviour can solve this quite rapidly.
Now, both types have their advantages. If you look feminine yet act like a real man and behave sexually, average women will fall for you very easily.
If you look very masculine and act like a real man, women will fear you but still feel very attracted to you.
If you've got a lot of masculine and a lot of feminine features, a rather large spectrum of women will be attracted to you.
Ofcourse, this only applies to people that are already "Good-looking". If you're fat, deformed or your nose keeps falling off, you're just not good-looking and will have to rely completely on your behaviour.
Ofcourse, this post yet again makes clear that it's all about the way you interact with women!
mroriginal
Banned
I just got a scanner today and i know im good looking but i dont know if im good looking in a rugged masculine way or in a feminine way because ive been called hot and pretty too.ill post a pic this week when i find an accurate picture of me ,my sister says i have a baby face but i seem too intimidate most of the girls at my school.
Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
mroriginal
Banned
Just give me a week because my dad hasnt installed my scanner yet and if i dont find any pictures ill take some and if i havent posted a picture of me by sunday you guys can say im full of sh!t but im not a fake like some of these guys.im really gorgeous as some girls would say.
I've been told I have a baby face too. Whatever, I'm cool with it. And looks wise, I'm for sure not the most attractive guy, but whatever, I don't let it get to me. I've been told I'm hot, cute, handsome, and also ugly.
I could honestly care less what someone says about my looks. Being not as attractive is a benefit in my opinion - hot chicks don't expect a 'cute' guy to have the confidence of a 'hot' guy and therefore it makes me stand out to them even more.
I've gotten some really attractive girls, and what I'm doing is working great for me.
http://www.meetmeinto.com/profile.asp?id=155006
I could honestly care less what someone says about my looks. Being not as attractive is a benefit in my opinion - hot chicks don't expect a 'cute' guy to have the confidence of a 'hot' guy and therefore it makes me stand out to them even more.
I've gotten some really attractive girls, and what I'm doing is working great for me.
http://www.meetmeinto.com/profile.asp?id=155006
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
First off, I thought that was a random picture of an older women when I visited your page, Bussey. You might want to get a clearer picture, or at least one that shows the contour of your head on darker monitors.
Second, wtf?:
[color=crimson-red]STATUS[/color]: single, not looking
Second, wtf?:
[color=crimson-red]STATUS[/color]: single, not looking
9.1
You are hotter than 90% of men on this site!
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According to hot or not I am considered attractive. But who cares what they think. I consider myself to be very attractive and I feel that way inside also.
I don't need outside validation and nor should anyone else. What counts is your inner game being strong.
You are hotter than 90% of men on this site!
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56 people have rated you
Not satisfied with your rating?
According to hot or not I am considered attractive. But who cares what they think. I consider myself to be very attractive and I feel that way inside also.
I don't need outside validation and nor should anyone else. What counts is your inner game being strong.
Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
dudes
help me out
im 19 years old ok?
and my kf mastah said he though i was 16!
ppl say i have a baby face, but i guess it's not just a litlle bit, its very proeminant baby features i think
i heard ppl at work saying that i looked like an angel (of course not in front of me)... i can deal with that, i really don't care..
i weight 65,8kg and im 1,75m tall... u can see im not big, but im kinda toned from all the kung fu from the past years.. my point is, i only looke very toned when im doin' exercises or forcing it, when im relaxed i look like a skinny fuk!
wut can i do to fix that? i need to be very fast so i cant bulk too much.. also i don't have time for bulking.. i was thinking about buying some weights, but im not sure about the results, they may be parcial.
currently im trying to get my body fat lower, to show my abs..
and about the baby face, i have no freakin ideia.. i got some facial hair, but they aren't enough to let it grow (lol)...
i can get the chiks who really dig baby face guys, but i almost have no chance(of course i have, but it's too much efford, not to mention competition with the "machos") with the ones who dig "masculine" type
ps. im really masculine and stand up for myself, but i look so young that my personality and my acts may look false, they get obscured by it
sorry about the big post, but help! hehe
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how to overcome my young image, for ppl not only jugde me by my appearence? thx
help me out
im 19 years old ok?
and my kf mastah said he though i was 16!
ppl say i have a baby face, but i guess it's not just a litlle bit, its very proeminant baby features i think
i heard ppl at work saying that i looked like an angel (of course not in front of me)... i can deal with that, i really don't care..
i weight 65,8kg and im 1,75m tall... u can see im not big, but im kinda toned from all the kung fu from the past years.. my point is, i only looke very toned when im doin' exercises or forcing it, when im relaxed i look like a skinny fuk!
wut can i do to fix that? i need to be very fast so i cant bulk too much.. also i don't have time for bulking.. i was thinking about buying some weights, but im not sure about the results, they may be parcial.
currently im trying to get my body fat lower, to show my abs..
and about the baby face, i have no freakin ideia.. i got some facial hair, but they aren't enough to let it grow (lol)...
i can get the chiks who really dig baby face guys, but i almost have no chance(of course i have, but it's too much efford, not to mention competition with the "machos") with the ones who dig "masculine" type
ps. im really masculine and stand up for myself, but i look so young that my personality and my acts may look false, they get obscured by it
sorry about the big post, but help! hehe
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edit: just to resume everything
how to overcome my young image, for ppl not only jugde me by my appearence? thx
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Haha, my bad.
And I don't own a digital camera.. Kinda drunk when that was taken.. whatever.
And Second: I am single, but the not looking I just leave it like that, cuz I don't want a relationship right now.
Facial hair is overrated... very few guys look good with beards, mustaches or other random ****.
I have a baby face to, but whatever. Its genetics... Think ahead man!!! When your 40, 20 year old will be flocking to you cuz you look their age but have money like a 40 year old.
Thats how I look at it.
AmazingTricks
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let me just gloat that i'm a 9 on hot or not
and i have never heard a girl say i was handsome...i don't think at least...
a few cutes, couple clean cuts, but that's about it
so much for your "just know you're hot theory":crackup:
and i have never heard a girl say i was handsome...i don't think at least...
a few cutes, couple clean cuts, but that's about it
so much for your "just know you're hot theory":crackup:
frisky fisky
New Member
good looking?
yeah i know im not to good looking but i have been called it before, so i dont know if i just have that low of self esteem or if i really am good looking, the girl i kinda got now says that im sooo hot, so i dont know it makes me feel good i guess.
yeah i know im not to good looking but i have been called it before, so i dont know if i just have that low of self esteem or if i really am good looking, the girl i kinda got now says that im sooo hot, so i dont know it makes me feel good i guess.
Kawk_Blocker
New Member
If your a good looking guy:
1. Other guys will hate you, sometimes for no reason other than that - it will leave you shaking your head. I'm still astonished at the number of people that will take an instant disliking to me, even though I've never even met them - and alot of them are loser guys.
Jealous b*astards. But guys (especially AFCs) will be as underhanded as some women are, , especially if they see you as direct competition for the ladies - this will never change and will haunt you for the rest of your life.
2. Confident girls will acknowledge your looks, shy ones will look away.
3. You are somewhat marginalised because most women who are imtimidated by you will throw you off your game. You are likely stuck with the better looking ones, who are, of course, high maintenance.
4. The better looking you are, the more women will play their silly little head games. This is a fact of life, so you'd better get used to it.
5. If you are good looking and AFC, you ARE F*CKING DOOMED. Not only will plenty of attention hors attach themselves to you like a magnet, but people everywhere (and let's face it, most people on the planet have insecurities) will bust on you relentlessly for one reason and one reason only: ENVY.
6. Women may not always be interested in you for you. Guys might just hang around you to get at the chicks, and people in general will try to use you as social proof.
When you are percieved to be on top, whatever the reason may be, everyone will be gunning for you. For young guys growing up AFC, they are not taught how to defend against this and generally tend to go through a significant portion of thier lives clueless, but eventually come round to understanding this.
Being busted on most of your life will erode anyone's self esteem and confidence, I don't care who you are. Humans by nature will try to destroy you. Just look at society's penchant for tabloids and gossip.
....and yes, there will be the inevitable accusations of you being gay. I still get those myself to this day, and I'm almost 34. That's despite the fact that I haven't been without one woman or another since I was 18.
There are many downsides to being very attractive. You gotta have a thick skin. I used to hate attention, still do to some point, there's something disconcerting about having all eyes on you.
But as I said, being AFC and good looking is a bad combination, because then everyone is gunning for you, and yes, women will use you to rub their own egos, even married ones.
These are some of the reasons I have no f*cking game of my own.
1. Other guys will hate you, sometimes for no reason other than that - it will leave you shaking your head. I'm still astonished at the number of people that will take an instant disliking to me, even though I've never even met them - and alot of them are loser guys.
Jealous b*astards. But guys (especially AFCs) will be as underhanded as some women are, , especially if they see you as direct competition for the ladies - this will never change and will haunt you for the rest of your life.
2. Confident girls will acknowledge your looks, shy ones will look away.
3. You are somewhat marginalised because most women who are imtimidated by you will throw you off your game. You are likely stuck with the better looking ones, who are, of course, high maintenance.
4. The better looking you are, the more women will play their silly little head games. This is a fact of life, so you'd better get used to it.
5. If you are good looking and AFC, you ARE F*CKING DOOMED. Not only will plenty of attention hors attach themselves to you like a magnet, but people everywhere (and let's face it, most people on the planet have insecurities) will bust on you relentlessly for one reason and one reason only: ENVY.
6. Women may not always be interested in you for you. Guys might just hang around you to get at the chicks, and people in general will try to use you as social proof.
When you are percieved to be on top, whatever the reason may be, everyone will be gunning for you. For young guys growing up AFC, they are not taught how to defend against this and generally tend to go through a significant portion of thier lives clueless, but eventually come round to understanding this.
Being busted on most of your life will erode anyone's self esteem and confidence, I don't care who you are. Humans by nature will try to destroy you. Just look at society's penchant for tabloids and gossip.
....and yes, there will be the inevitable accusations of you being gay. I still get those myself to this day, and I'm almost 34. That's despite the fact that I haven't been without one woman or another since I was 18.
There are many downsides to being very attractive. You gotta have a thick skin. I used to hate attention, still do to some point, there's something disconcerting about having all eyes on you.
But as I said, being AFC and good looking is a bad combination, because then everyone is gunning for you, and yes, women will use you to rub their own egos, even married ones.
These are some of the reasons I have no f*cking game of my own.
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TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Kawk raises a lot of good points. I am very attractive, but even wrose, I look far older than my age, so guys my age resent me a great deal.
You can tell how good looking you are by judging the reactions of different women to youre presence. For instance, when I enter a department store female employees (7's and 8's) will usually avoid me. Are they not interested? As soon as I ask a simple question about an item they fumble their words, look at their feer, and blush.
Also, when I am walking only girls who are 9's will make eyecontact with me on a regular basis. Some others glance and look away, but they never even attempt to hold eyecontact or smile.
As far as compliments... I got "perfect" from a girl I used to date... she was an 8, and she told me after we broke up that I made her feel so unconfident in herself she wanted to cry when we were at parties (when 9's would approach me).
While a girl was going down on me 30 min after we met in my car she just stopped and said, "Anthony, you look so beautiful" then finished and swallowed.
On campus, I turned a corner and was walking along side a cute girl. I was smiling at her, she was smiling back, and she walked into a trash can.
Those are my 3 favorite.
You can tell how good looking you are by judging the reactions of different women to youre presence. For instance, when I enter a department store female employees (7's and 8's) will usually avoid me. Are they not interested? As soon as I ask a simple question about an item they fumble their words, look at their feer, and blush.
Also, when I am walking only girls who are 9's will make eyecontact with me on a regular basis. Some others glance and look away, but they never even attempt to hold eyecontact or smile.
As far as compliments... I got "perfect" from a girl I used to date... she was an 8, and she told me after we broke up that I made her feel so unconfident in herself she wanted to cry when we were at parties (when 9's would approach me).
While a girl was going down on me 30 min after we met in my car she just stopped and said, "Anthony, you look so beautiful" then finished and swallowed.
On campus, I turned a corner and was walking along side a cute girl. I was smiling at her, she was smiling back, and she walked into a trash can.
Those are my 3 favorite.
