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Quite possibly, one’s writing style and opinions on topics are a hard thing to fake. I’ve noticed some similarities between his writing style, beliefs and ways of engaging in conversation and others here that seemingly came out of nowhere.

But then again he did have “the powers that be” monitoring him, because of his dangerous ideologies, IIIRC.

Being the international man of mystery that he is I doubt he’d risk being located again.


He might be back under a new name................
 

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I do hip thrusts with 500+ pounds and also do them with band tension, best glute exercise there is. Well developed glute muscles are also very often women's favorite body part on a fit and athletic man, just a little fyi.
Yeah but there are plenty of options, try some good mornings and see if it doesn’t do it for you.
 

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Reporting from wet sheets. I love a girl who squirts. It a little hand magic and you are in control. Mix in some real **** after and have them squirt from your **** and your a king to them.
 

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Its a presence thing. Not just hand magic. You have to get in their head and be that dude.

Its like when a premature ejectulator comes from obsessing too much before any physical touch happens. Just do it to a chick
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Now I will get my sheets, work clothes, and regular laundry done. Among other things.
Its about getting into their mind first. Being a big jacked dude helps obviously. But the mind game is the win.
 

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Some girls are better and dont fall for it. No matter how good in bed. You get the text after when they leave. Like what did you do to me...? But they still will play the text, social media, no first contact bs. I guess, in my opinion it comes down to spinning plates until you find one plate you want to spin like a globetrotter until it fizzles.
 

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Btw first meet up on this one. Didnt grt psst first. No deodorant but brand new shirt a little cologne. They have to like your musk.
 

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But on the flipside. Sometimes they end up stalkers and will **** up your life and new chicks. So its dangerous game. For real.
 

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I say this from experience. Its like what you do you get back. You just have to have a plan. Or another plate to take your side if shtf.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Reporting from wet sheets. I love a girl who squirts. It a little hand magic and you are in control. Mix in some real **** after and have them squirt from your **** and your a king to them.
Well welcome to the Big Leagues - some day you won’t need to finger blast her first.

There’s also a way to seal that memory (dopamine) to you.

Doesn’t matter anyway, because most guys don’t care to take the time to learn how to obliterate the memory of anyone who came before even if he was a CK model with a 10” coke can.
 

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The guy that takes the time to understand how to get a girl off will always be miles ahead of the one who didnt. The one who didn't will never realize where he stacks up either. He will come on SS and tell everyone it doesn't matter. Hahaha cracks me up.
 

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Its a presence thing. Not just hand magic. You have to get in their head and be that dude.

Its like when a premature ejectulator comes from obsessing too much before any physical touch happens. Just do it to a chick
Not a big squirt fan. I’ve had girls say they squirt. I just more goo on my hands when I finger them.
 

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Well welcome to the Big Leagues - some day you won’t need to finger blast her first.

There’s also a way to seal that memory (dopamine) to you.

Doesn’t matter anyway, because most guys don’t care to take the time to learn how to obliterate the memory of anyone who came before even if he was a CK model with a 10” coke can.
I didn't look or try to be in the big leagues years ago the big leagues found me. Long time lurker mostly when Im in a down phase deciding to join the party. Even a major leaguer. Which honestly I am not gets into a rut now and then.
I dont have time to game every girl that pokes her butt out at me, smiles automatically when I walk by, or just has her mouth opened. I usually wait for one that I have kinda vetted like this wont be a problem when it ends.
 
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My understanding is the “nice guys” typically do take things slow, use lots of foreplay, and focus on her pleasure.* Those aren’t really their problems.

Looks and attraction stuff aside, they probably lack an aggressive/assertive, take charge energy to make her feel “taken.”

They are naturally gentle guys who overdo Paragraph 1 stuff at the expensive of Paragraph 2 stuff.

*Assuming they don’t have PIED.
 
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Got guys making it their mission to eat pvssy on the first time and give girls orgasms. Disgusting.

I'm sorry but that just ain't me. I will put effort in with certain women, LTRs and absolute stunners I want to imprint on.

I'm not eating any pvssy that ain't LTR, I'm not jumping through hoops. I'll leave that to you guys. I'm always commended on my sex and equipment because I'm thick, long and a good communicator/kinky. I'm also not reading 6 pages of nonsense.
BINGO, I dealt with a "Tinder chick" recently who wanted me to do that, I was like nooooo fyi she wasn't hot at all lol
 

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No it's not.

A woman's degree of attraction towards a man is a major part of how satisfied she will be with a sexual encounter.

I'm repeating what I mentioned on my previous post.

If some guy that is 5'6" and 250 pounds is sitting next to her on her couch when they are alone, if that even would happen, she'd be as dry as the Sahara Desert. Just about nothing he would do would get her aroused or get her interested in a sexual interaction, as it probably wouldn't even happen in the first place.

If some totally average guy, about 5'10" with an average build, maybe 5-10 pounds overweight, is sitting next to her she may be open to it, especially if they are in that scenario of being alone together. She is kind of on the fence about it, like he is not great but not bad. He's going to have to compensate for this in order to get her aroused in the first place, let alone have a chance of a longer term sexual relationship. If he pulls out some 5" ****, has premature ejaculation issues, has no stamina or rhythm he loses points and it's very likely he will be rejected for anything further. In a situation like this, he'd need to bring more to the table to keep her interested, which is what ties in with what you and @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 believe.

If some guy, about 6'3" and fit is in the picture she's far more attracted to this guy than the other examples. This guy doesn't need to do much of anything and she'd already be down to have sex with him with little resistance or need for stimulation, as she's already aroused by him. If he takes his clothes off, revealing a fit body, and then whips out some 7"+ **** she's going to have the night of her life. This man would have to completely screw it up to ruin his chances of being able to have her available sexually again. The trend here is that "chad" doesn't have to put anywhere near the same effort into something like this in order to not only have this one single sexual encounter but to have repeat ones with the same woman.

This is very black pill sounding but it's the truth, anyone saying otherwise is just coping to protect their own ego.
There is sex based on raw animalistic attraction, and there is also sex based on a things that aren't physical in nature. Sex based on the latter is different than the former IMO, for the woman atleast.
 

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Got guys making it their mission to eat pvssy on the first time and give girls orgasms. Disgusting.

I'm sorry but that just ain't me. I will put effort in with certain women, LTRs and absolute stunners I want to imprint on.

I'm not eating any pvssy that ain't LTR, I'm not jumping through hoops. I'll leave that to you guys. I'm always commended on my sex and equipment because I'm thick, long and a good communicator/kinky. I'm also not reading 6 pages of nonsense.
I don’t eat any pvssy ever. Would take gun to my head to make me do it. I make girls cvm with my dvck.
 
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