Another update on the "need advice" topic from below!

[joekerr31]

T So word of advice as stated previously in this thread, when they say they're a b!tch get the fvck out of there!!!

that was my advice glad you see the truth of it now.

the reason women will do that is because in their mind it absolves them of all future fault. all they have to do is slip it in once, even if make it look like they are joking, "oh ya we're all *****es".

then that's it. as far as they are concerned they've given you fair warning and their conscience is clear.

one of my criteria with women im dating is that if they refer to themselves as a ***** i end the date / relationship right there.

i will tell them 'im sorry, but i dont date women who consider themselves b*tches."

they will typically say 'what?!!! i'm not saying im actually a b*tch."

to which ill say 'well then you shouldn't call yourself a b*tch then. keep that in mind for the next guy that comes along."

 

[jophil28]

I AM trying. This to me now has just been a lessoned learned.

One other thing that I thought of today was the first time I went and got her to cut my hair we started talking about my current girlfriend and I jokingly said that she was a b!tch. She then replied, "we're all b!tches" and I said "really, even you?" and she said "oh yeah!" So word of advice as stated previously in this thread, when they say they're a b!tch get the fvck out of there!!!

Yep ! They tell you EXACTLY , in some way, who and what they are from the get go..
It is unusual that a woman will be so forthright as this sorry psycho, however women give you PRECISE infomation about their CHARACTER in the first two dates, WE need to develop the skills of interpretation and accessment ,and then the courage to walk away .

Pvssy ain't worth brain damage !

 

[jophil28]

that was my advice glad you see the truth of it now.

the reason women will do that is because in their mind it absolves them of all future fault. all they have to do is slip it in once, even if make it look like they are joking, "oh ya we're all *****es".

then that's it. as far as they are concerned they've given you fair warning and their conscience is clear.

one of my criteria with women im dating is that if they refer to themselves as a ***** i end the date / relationship right there.

i will tell them 'im sorry, but i dont date women who consider themselves b*tches."

they will typically say 'what?!!! i'm not saying im actually a b*tch."

to which ill say 'well then you shouldn't call yourself a b*tch then. keep that in mind for the next guy that comes along."

Sometimes a woman will say " I can be a b1tch AT TIMES ."
This appears to be her attempt at warning you without clearly labeling herself as a paid-up b!itch. Nice try ?

 

[Latinoman]

PTC...I am sorry dude. I was harsh on you. I won't discourage anyone from using a dual ID as I know that someday one of the regulars might need some serious advice and to safeguard his "anonymity", he might create a temporary ID to express his concerns and seek help.

I truly get annoyed because I cannot stand when a woman (that in my eyes is trash) tries to take advantage of a man that all he wants is give her love.

Truly pisses me off.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...I truly get annoyed because I cannot stand when a woman (that in my eyes is trash) tries to take advantage of a man that all he wants is give her love.

Truly pisses me off.

I'll say it again; women give some men purpose. When that's the case, objective thought and taking logical action is greatly diminished.

 

[PTC]

PTC...I am sorry dude. I was harsh on you. I won't discourage anyone from using a dual ID as I know that someday one of the regulars might need some serious advice and to safeguard his "anonymity", he might create a temporary ID to express his concerns and seek help.

I truly get annoyed because I cannot stand when a woman (that in my eyes is trash) tries to take advantage of a man that all he wants is give her love.

Truly pisses me off.

It's okay,...but thanks for the apoligy.

By the way your last statement is so true. I am realizing more and more that this woman is really trash. I am more angry than hurt because like you said it pisses me off that she tried to take advantage of me,... while the whole time she was so in love with me and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me,...blah,blah,blah,...sucking me in like a toxic vulture.

I was talking to a friend of mine last night and she (yes a she)told me something that actually made since to me. She told me who you date is a reflection of YOU whether you like it or not. Date below your standards, and you and others will view you as less than originally thought. It's a sh!tty concept, but it's true.

Thanks again Latinoman

 

[joekerr31]

Sometimes a woman will say " I can be a b1tch AT TIMES ."
This appears to be her attempt at warning you without clearly labeling herself as a paid-up b!itch. Nice try ?

its so easy to dismiss when a woman giggling calls herself a b*tch, even when she adds 'at times'. its so easy to dismiss it when she is all over you and showing high interest level.

i've dismissed it many times myself. and unfortunately, always to my regret. i've just been through it enough now that i now take it as a warning they are giving.

its kind of like when a guy says 'hey, im a really nice guy. but when someone f*cks with me, watch out." - he's basically giving a warning - 'when i get pissed I will tear you a new *sshole."

just like in boxing, people telegraph their moves. when you see the shoulder dip, you know an upper cut is coming at you. when a woman jokingly refers to herself as a b*tch - guess what, at some point you are going to meet that b*tch!

the only problem is that SOOOOO many women today joke about being a b*tch - so using this as a filter can cut down on the amount of women you pursue long term.

 

[Latinoman]

It's okay,...but thanks for the apoligy.

By the way your last statement is so true. I am realizing more and more that this woman is really trash. I am more angry than hurt because like you said it pisses me off that she tried to take advantage of me,... while the whole time she was so in love with me and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me,...blah,blah,blah,...sucking me in like a toxic vulture.

I was talking to a friend of mine last night and she (yes a she)told me something that actually made since to me. She told me who you date is a reflection of YOU whether you like it or not. Date below your standards, and you and others will view you as less than originally thought. It's a sh!tty concept, but it's true.

Thanks again Latinoman

Your female friend is right. That's why I try to have as high standards as possible...it does reflect on who we are as men.

 

[Latinoman]

its so easy to dismiss when a woman giggling calls herself a b*tch, even when she adds 'at times'. its so easy to dismiss it when she is all over you and showing high interest level.

i've dismissed it many times myself. and unfortunately, always to my regret. i've just been through it enough now that i now take it as a warning they are giving.

its kind of like when a guy says 'hey, im a really nice guy. but when someone f*cks with me, watch out." - he's basically giving a warning - 'when i get pissed I will tear you a new *sshole."

just like in boxing, people telegraph their moves. when you see the shoulder dip, you know an upper cut is coming at you. when a woman jokingly refers to herself as a b*tch - guess what, at some point you are going to meet that b*tch!

the only problem is that SOOOOO many women today joke about being a b*tch - so using this as a filter can cut down on the amount of women you pursue long term.

NO woman would call herself a b_itch...not even as a joke. UNLESS she is truly a biatch.

I have done the joke around warning about people not f_king with me, because I would tear a new azzhole...and you can rest assure that even if it sounds as a joke or even if I have a smile...I am VERY serious and it is indeed a warning.

 

[PTC]

its so easy to dismiss when a woman giggling calls herself a b*tch, even when she adds 'at times'. its so easy to dismiss it when she is all over you and showing high interest level.

i've dismissed it many times myself. and unfortunately, always to my regret. i've just been through it enough now that i now take it as a warning they are giving.

its kind of like when a guy says 'hey, im a really nice guy. but when someone f*cks with me, watch out." - he's basically giving a warning - 'when i get pissed I will tear you a new *sshole."

just like in boxing, people telegraph their moves. when you see the shoulder dip, you know an upper cut is coming at you. when a woman jokingly refers to herself as a b*tch - guess what, at some point you are going to meet that b*tch!

the only problem is that SOOOOO many women today joke about being a b*tch - so using this as a filter can cut down on the amount of women you pursue long term.

Now see,....why didn't I have this info a year and a half ago!! :cuss: