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6, 4, 6.

IF you want help, you need to address the issue. Now post your pics.
He can't post his OLD messages, HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY. He's making all of this up.

That's why he's not posting it.

Think about it - have you even/ever seen his OLD profile?
 

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He can't post his OLD messages, HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY. He's making all of this up.
Like I said a long time ago-

Dave is a male version of the female attention wh0re.
 

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He can't post his OLD messages, HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY. He's making all of this up.

That's why he's not posting it.

Think about it - have you even/ever seen his OLD profile?
Let's see. Zero matches on Bumble would indicate a pic problem in relation to what he seeks.
 

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BS. Post or stop b!tching.
that's exactly what kind of stuff I message them

one girl said she was big fan of game of thrones books and I asked if books are as good as movies. She never replied, none of them ever reply

6, 4, 6.

IF you want help, you need to address the issue. Now post your pics.
you rated a girl I'm very attracted to as a 4


but I have high standards
 

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He has a fragile ego. That is problem one.

He is not social. Problem two.

He doesnt go to places (physically go to places) that attract the specific type of woman he is interested in. No, no....he wants to compete for the other washed up c0ck wh0res on OLD that 75,000 other men in his area are trying to attract....men that are better looking than him and have a social life to project.

On the next episode of Dave's Insanity.......

Is he going to have Amante and Guru respond to all of his messages too? Will they secretly wait in the fake Electric Company van outside with monitoring equipment so they can tell him word to word what to say on his date?

Tune in to find out!

What messages? I never get any messages

As far as what I do in real life. I go to the best bars and clubs in area, concerts, sports events, festivals, restaurants, vacations 12 times a year, etc... I live 40 minutes from Chicago. What else can I do in real life? I constantly make friends everywhere I go
 

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Dave, I will give you the template from "Hello" to # that will maximize your results.

But first, post your profile pics.
 

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Bigdave17 is a fake account

He's a troll. Am old poster with an axe to grind. Probably is bigneil
 

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Dave, I will give you the template from "Hello" to # that will maximize your results.

But first, post your profile pics.
He won't, he can't, he doesn't have any. He doesn't have a bigdave OLD account either
 

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He can't post his OLD messages, HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY. He's making all of this up.

That's why he's not posting it.

Think about it - have you even/ever seen his OLD profile?

here ya go - zero replies and messages







photofeeler - all pics around 7.2 to 8.9 -



If I got a professional photographer, I could probably get that bumped up to 90 to 95 range as I'm much better looking than those pics in real life but it wouldn't make any difference. The gods have determined that I will die alone


will you stop f*cking doubting me
 

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Will you stop fvcking doubting YOURSELF?

those pictures are weak, btw
 

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Will you stop fvcking doubting YOURSELF?

those pictures are weak, btw
you fukking *******s told me photofeeler was the gospel. The pic on the left there is rated 8.5 to 8.9 across the board - set only to allow women under 34 to vote

Guru and Amante both told me photofeeler was the gospel.

I can get a professional photographer to take great quality pics of me but I think that would be incredibly demoralizing - seeing that even the best pictures of myself are not good enough to get a woman that Guru rates a 4/10. We all know that's exactly what is going to happen.
 

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I messaged a decent looking black girl today who was in decent shape
literally the bottom of our social hierarchy- black women. Still no response
Lol, I can't imagine why not with that attitude lol :rolleyes:

A 9 guy will bang out a 7 because she will lay quickly with no effort and because she is a different piece of azz--and then dismiss her without reason. So now her ego believes she is entitled to a 9 guy when her value is much lower.
That's a tale that's often been told. It occurs to me that men are creating their own problems with women. Guys are always complaining about women's entitlement issues. Guys pumping down and dumping is perpetuating this, if not the actual cause.
 

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you fukking *******s told me photofeeler was the gospel. The pic on the left there is rated 8.5 to 8.9 across the board - set only to allow women under 34 to vote

Guru and Amante both told me photofeeler was the gospel.

I can get a professional photographer to take great quality pics of me but I think that would be incredibly demoralizing - seeing that even the best pictures of myself are not good enough to get a woman that Guru rates a 4/10. We all know that's exactly what is going to happen.
The pic on the left...the one where you are in shorts (why?) And are spread eagle with your arm dangling? It's really a "meh" picture.

None of your pictures are exciting. None of your pictures make me want to know more about you. None of your pictures are compelling
 

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Lol, I can't imagine why not with that attitude lol :rolleyes:
low and behold, Guru rated her a 4/10. Guess I was right... as usual

She is not a 4/10. She is actually very cute. Guru is just typical non black male who would never touch a black girl unless she was a supermodel
 

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The pic on the left...the one where you are in shorts (why?) And are spread eagle with your arm dangling? It's really a "meh" picture.

None of your pictures are exciting. None of your pictures make me want to know more about you. None of your pictures are compelling
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- "Great smile!"
"I would date them!"
"I would date them!"
"I would date them!"
"Great photo!"


I don't know how to make myself appear exciting in pics. I fukking hate pictures so much I can't even tell you. I am forcing myself to become good at them because of women's insanity in demanding that men look fantastic in their pictures even as they look ridiculous in theirs.
 

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here ya go - zero replies and messages







photofeeler - all pics around 7.2 to 8.9 -



If I got a professional photographer, I could probably get that bumped up to 90 to 95 range as I'm much better looking than those pics in real life but it wouldn't make any difference. The gods have determined that I will die alone


will you stop f*cking doubting me
I can't really see the clothes you are wearing in the first two pics, but the image you are projecting is that you are a good-looking guy, but on the lower end of the power/status echelon. In others words, you are not projecting an exec image, but rather one in the lower to mid income range, which is not who you are.

You are representing yourself incorrectly. For a guy in your part of the woods earning 180k salary, you should be projecting a higher status in your pics.

However, the girls in the pics you have shown are no prizes either, so as you are, I don't see much of a variance between their appearance and your own.

IF you want more help, first let's nail down the problem. What I want you to do is the following:

1) Message 25 girls that you like;

2) Open them with, "I was going to message you earlier, but then I thought to myself, 'Hmm, I don't know about this one, she looks like trouble!' ;)";

3) Wait 48 hours, and post all your responses.

If you do this, I will continue working with you.
 

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I can't really see the clothes you are wearing in the first two pics, but the image you are projecting is that you are a good-looking guy, but on the lower end of the power/status echelon. In others words, you are not projecting an exec image, but rather one in the lower to mid income range, which is not who you are.

You are representing yourself incorrectly. For a guy in your part of the woods earning 180k salary, you should be projecting a higher status in your pics.

However, the girls in the pics you have shown are no prizes either, so as you are, I don't see much of a variance between their appearance and your own.

IF you want more help, first let's nail down the problem. What I want you to do is the following:

1) Message 25 girls that you like;

2) Open them with, "I was going to message you earlier, but then I thought to myself, 'Hmm, I don't know about this one, she looks like trouble!' ;)";

3) Wait 48 hours, and post all your responses.

If you do this, I will continue working with you.

I have 2 nice pictures of myself wearing high end button down shirts and both were rated 5s - 6 on photofeeler
 

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- "Great smile!"
"I would date them!"
"I would date them!"
"I would date them!"
"Great photo!"


I don't know how to make myself appear exciting in pics. I fukking hate pictures so much I can't even tell you. I am forcing myself to become good at them because of women's insanity in demanding that men look fantastic in their pictures even as they look ridiculous in theirs.
Do you do anything else besides work and sit on concrete in shorts?

Go ziplining, go climbing, go on the water, go to a club, go on vacation. HAVE YOUR FRIENDS TAKE PICTURES OF YOU. It doesn't matter of they are staged or real. Get action shots. @guru1000 is correct, none of your pictures say "powerful", all of your pictures say casual and boring. "Lookit me, I sit on concrete benches in shorts! Whooohooo!"

Put on a suit/part of a suit/nice clothes, and stage some shots.

Sheeeet...my girlfriend and I were discussing spending am afternoon staging interesting OLD pics. It's something you need to do UNLESS you are taking OLD casually and have an IDGAF attitude (which you do not)
 
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Another thing I noticed from a past thread, I’ve never talked to you before now, is that you have an amazing capacity that could be used in your favor.

See, guys here can insult you but it really doesn’t register with you. That’s fantastic. Good and bad.
A woman testing you or trying to covertly insult you won’t register either.
So if a woman says something that doesn’t seem right, just ignor it and pretend she didn’t say a thing. Lol
Just go back to the conversation as if it didn’t happen. Do you see where I’m coming from?
Ranger there are a few threads of him asking members to dissect small talk he had with a couple of women in other cities so no, I don’t see him ignoring and pretending and continuing on. Everything a woman does seems to be registering with this guy in a hyper sensitive way.

He wants to be walked through the dating pool, as evident from this very thread where he’s asking two members to explain the voting choices of a group of strangers a million times removed from any member on the site.

He’s stuck in loop of his own making. He’s a nice guy but he is stuck. This thread will be the usual 20 pages of course but he will still be stuck after page 20 and beyond because nothing that is suggested sticks with him.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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