MikeYikes122
Master Don Juan
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I might be a little late on the reply here, but I thought I'd weigh in since I was part of this thread originally. I usually don't even kino. I wait for the girl to do it and it happens nine times out of 10 if the girl is attracted. From that point on, I'll probably reciprocate. Honestly, this is kind of a tough question for me to answer because I'm not even really self-aware of things like this. If a girl touches me or rubs my arm, I'll just kind of go into autopilot.
That said, I think you should worry less about kino and more about some of the other intricacies of building attraction. I'm kind of interested in what you guys talked about at dinner and during the time you spent together. I think that would give a lot of us on here a good idea of went wrong. I've got a good feeling that kino was last on your list of problems.
With the online dating stuff, when you exchange e-mails with these women make sure you're not responding instantly to them. Give it a day or so before you respond to an e-mail from one of them. I've never done online dating, but among the college crowd Facebook (MySpace for college kids) is huge. Whenever I'm exchanging messages or wall posts with a girl I'm interested in I never respond immediately unless there is some sort of urgency in what we're talking about. Sometimes I'll wait 24 hours or even more. One of the women you were exchanging e-mails with kind of did this to you.
It's not a huge deal, but it's pretty important I think for you to do be doing this when exchanging e-mails in this dating service.
That said, I think you should worry less about kino and more about some of the other intricacies of building attraction. I'm kind of interested in what you guys talked about at dinner and during the time you spent together. I think that would give a lot of us on here a good idea of went wrong. I've got a good feeling that kino was last on your list of problems.
With the online dating stuff, when you exchange e-mails with these women make sure you're not responding instantly to them. Give it a day or so before you respond to an e-mail from one of them. I've never done online dating, but among the college crowd Facebook (MySpace for college kids) is huge. Whenever I'm exchanging messages or wall posts with a girl I'm interested in I never respond immediately unless there is some sort of urgency in what we're talking about. Sometimes I'll wait 24 hours or even more. One of the women you were exchanging e-mails with kind of did this to you.
It's not a huge deal, but it's pretty important I think for you to do be doing this when exchanging e-mails in this dating service.