All you need to know that if you can make a girl's heart beat faster...you get her hooked. (When you get to the root of it)
Some girls cheat because it gets their heart beat FASTER. After years of boring, routine supplicating from their partners they somehow find ways to amuse themselves.
Emotional rollercoaster gets their heart beat FASTER. Sometimes I routinely play with a girls emotion to get something out of them interesting. This could be:
*Teasing
*Medium/high intensity arguing
*Walking away (ie "Fine, go ahead and do *&%& and you will have an interesting tim getting hold of me" then wander off and do your thing)
*Being rough. Nothing beats the old play wrestling, chasing or trying to put icecubes down each others shirts.
*Intentionally making them frustrated. If you can make an art of push/pull this is important.
*Getting them to physically touch you. Getting in the way of someone you as they walk behind you and smile as you block them, chances are they will push up on you or try to grab you...instant kino.
*Don't be afraid to tickle her like hell.
*If your girl is a good girl, try to get them to do something out of the ordinary like get into a heated moment shouting, swearing or be enraged. But if your woman does this regularly then this wouldnt really make any difference.
And then when you see her peak their excitement level....PIN HER DOWN or PUSH HER AGAINST the wall and KISS her like a MADMAN then SHAG her as hard as your back can physically take.
I hope you get the drift. Women cheat because some guy has peaked their interest, excitement and then they just happen to make a move when the time is right. Emotions are addictive to women it doesnt matter who.
You cannot just give her POSITIVE emotions but you also have to routinely incorporate NEGATIVE emotions. Both high positives and negatives really make that woman stay alive. That is why some women even get hooked on a*ssholes but only make pancakes out of AFCs.
When a girl makes a mistake, I usually say "Oh no your gonna get it now, your gonna get punished. Everytime she makes ANY mistakes do something rather than "its ok baby, you're beautiful it not a big deal". For little mistkes, I tickle her, slap her in the butt, squeeze her buns. I sometimes rip her clothes and have a sly munch on her rude bits. For bigger mistakes, make sure you thrust her so hard your balls hang off your foreskin and make her suck you til the bedsheets hang out of you pee-hole.
But for relationship-threatening mistakes, I always waste no time packing their sh*t in a box and leave it outside their place and tell them to come down. Don't be afraid to make her cry. Make your way out and let them build a mountain or kill the president to prove their love to you. Its your decision from then on, the ball will always be on your court.
This is the kind of emotional roller coaster that some men forget to instill in their woman. This emotional roller coaster give them the feeling of being alive, on their feet, excited, alert and does not give them time to take their man for grant nor give women time to develop complacency in the relationship. If they dont get this then they will go elsewhere to get their hearts racing.
Have you ever read about those romance novels where women take off at the peak of their excitement? Do that to your woman (make sure she aint a serial cheater and liar) and she WILL be hooked to you.
I know what the OP is trying to say but kind of used the wrong terminology and such. I hope this helps people get a better clarification.