After all we've been thru, she just leaves.
- Thread starter the_great_gaia
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Are some of you f*cking retarded? Do you bother to read the posts before you offer your advice?
HE STATED THAT SHE IS IN FACT 18 YEARS OLD. READ!
Hopefully that's clear.
And DJLegion....dude, I'm sure he appreciates your advice, but try to cut back on the negativity. Calling the guy names isn't going to help anything. I'm sure he knows his situation is f*cked.
the_great_gaia:
It's all been said and thensome. Just remember:
1). There are such things as BAD investments and This is one of them.
2). No matter how hard it is for you, stay the hell away from this girl. Remember the mindset your in right now and keep it.
I don't know what else to say....this is one of those things that can only get worse. She obviously doesn't respect you...why respect her?
If you continue, your only gonna get sh*t on again (definitely), taken, or in court for some domestic violence BS.
If some chick called me a 'lame' after I handed her MY car keys, or tried to stab me with broken mirror/glass/etc, I'd drop that sh*t and never look back. In the end, your the only person who can make that call. Chances are, you'll end up going back. Maybe a couple times before you get f*cked with enough to seriously be finished.
I can tell you from a third party perspective looking in, you really need to take action with this. Action being to avoid this girl like the plague.
Best of luck to you, I hope it works out for the best.
HE STATED THAT SHE IS IN FACT 18 YEARS OLD. READ!
Hopefully that's clear.
And DJLegion....dude, I'm sure he appreciates your advice, but try to cut back on the negativity. Calling the guy names isn't going to help anything. I'm sure he knows his situation is f*cked.
the_great_gaia:
It's all been said and thensome. Just remember:
1). There are such things as BAD investments and This is one of them.
2). No matter how hard it is for you, stay the hell away from this girl. Remember the mindset your in right now and keep it.
I don't know what else to say....this is one of those things that can only get worse. She obviously doesn't respect you...why respect her?
If you continue, your only gonna get sh*t on again (definitely), taken, or in court for some domestic violence BS.
If some chick called me a 'lame' after I handed her MY car keys, or tried to stab me with broken mirror/glass/etc, I'd drop that sh*t and never look back. In the end, your the only person who can make that call. Chances are, you'll end up going back. Maybe a couple times before you get f*cked with enough to seriously be finished.
I can tell you from a third party perspective looking in, you really need to take action with this. Action being to avoid this girl like the plague.
Best of luck to you, I hope it works out for the best.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
I still haven't had to urge to call yet, which is a good thing. I know I need to get over this girl, and I am, I just can't wait for the moment when all of my feelings subside. Everytime I come home from school, I go straight to sleep.. I know it's because I am heartbroken, when I arise, I get online, hoping to hear from the brotherhood here in the Forums. Negative or Positive responses, I need them all.
I keep worrying about my AFC side trying to call/contact her. I have this picture of us together, I had thoughts of taping it to her door with the phrase: "THE END?" attached to it. I come up with the craziest thoughts, but I don't intend to act on them. Man, getting over Andrea reminds me of a certain episode of Dragon Ball Z. I know why I am so affected by what she's does/ doing. I'm not IN love with her, I'm not even sure if it's LOVE period. But she has belittled my pride! I remember when I cheated on her 3 times in Oct-Nov, my pride felt restored (this was when I was in control of the relationship). I lost my control when I let my pride go for her, then she capitalized and used my feelings against me. I know that without my pride, I am nothing. So that's exactly how I feel now, but I feel like I have to do something to her to restore my pride again, and I know just the idea!
I won't see her again until March (she dropped out of school for the semester). In her absence, I will increase my self appearence into something beyond a 10. This will bother her because I have never done this while I was with her. She thinks she created me fashionably, and I give her the credit; which is more of the reason why I have to use it against her. I will try to look like the man she always wanted, this is her weakness. And I will not interact with her, as she is in disbelief from a distance. Yes, she will try to approach me and she will try to sucker me back in, but I will not fall for it, and I will have someone else. It would hurt to watch something you created function without you. She made me, now I'm gonna make history. She told me once that If I moved on and my next girlfriend were to look better than her (which she will), Andrea would try to ruin my relationship with her. We'll see.. but I will never go back to her again.. Why am I doing this? Because I want my revenge, I want the last laugh! AND I WILL HAVE IT!! It is the only way I'd feel comfortable with myself.
I keep worrying about my AFC side trying to call/contact her. I have this picture of us together, I had thoughts of taping it to her door with the phrase: "THE END?" attached to it. I come up with the craziest thoughts, but I don't intend to act on them. Man, getting over Andrea reminds me of a certain episode of Dragon Ball Z. I know why I am so affected by what she's does/ doing. I'm not IN love with her, I'm not even sure if it's LOVE period. But she has belittled my pride! I remember when I cheated on her 3 times in Oct-Nov, my pride felt restored (this was when I was in control of the relationship). I lost my control when I let my pride go for her, then she capitalized and used my feelings against me. I know that without my pride, I am nothing. So that's exactly how I feel now, but I feel like I have to do something to her to restore my pride again, and I know just the idea!
I won't see her again until March (she dropped out of school for the semester). In her absence, I will increase my self appearence into something beyond a 10. This will bother her because I have never done this while I was with her. She thinks she created me fashionably, and I give her the credit; which is more of the reason why I have to use it against her. I will try to look like the man she always wanted, this is her weakness. And I will not interact with her, as she is in disbelief from a distance. Yes, she will try to approach me and she will try to sucker me back in, but I will not fall for it, and I will have someone else. It would hurt to watch something you created function without you. She made me, now I'm gonna make history. She told me once that If I moved on and my next girlfriend were to look better than her (which she will), Andrea would try to ruin my relationship with her. We'll see.. but I will never go back to her again.. Why am I doing this? Because I want my revenge, I want the last laugh! AND I WILL HAVE IT!! It is the only way I'd feel comfortable with myself.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
You already got your revenge buddy..............because not matter waht she does from now on.....she cannot influence you anyway. Let her try and ruin your relationship......she will look like the maniac freak that she really is
and trusty me....it wont be hard to find a better looking girl then her.
and trusty me....it wont be hard to find a better looking girl then her.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
i want to see tears, confusion, anger, pain on her face; IN HER EYES! I want her to know how it feels to be left ALONE. And she will know.... I want her mercy, I want her to beg! I want her to submit!! And better than THAT I want to see the look on her face after I tell her NO!
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Only if stories about wife abuse are a good excuse for hating men.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Yes... let this hatred of her build you into a better person. Start reading the bible... Arm yourself with knowledge that will set you free!!!!
the worst suffering you can impose on her is to totally ignore and avoid her!! Meaning no short or long conversations.. no meeting... no recognition and acknolegement of her existence...
Yeah it sounds extreme but it the cruelest!!
the worst suffering you can impose on her is to totally ignore and avoid her!! Meaning no short or long conversations.. no meeting... no recognition and acknolegement of her existence...
Yeah it sounds extreme but it the cruelest!!
California Love
Master Don Juan
This only shows that you are weak and still care. Be a man - she is out of your life forever. Don't center your life around revenge. The best way of getting back is showing that you no longer care; you have moved on.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
MAn, I have come to a point in my life today that bytches ain't worth the trouble we worry over. They want to be and they life ain't complete until we let them see that they cause us headaches. Why give a fucc? Just... don't give a fucc. I have peace in life now, I'm glad all that shyt happened to me because it was my calling to finally let go of the chic, it's somebody else out there better for me to be with... I learned y'all.... why do we cry over these women? Why do I call them bytches, it's not my mission to keep getting hurt, but I gotta stop callin' em out they names without permission. All my life, this very mood is what I've been missing.. it's over now. Move on with my life, I know I'll like it, and it doesn't have to be hard, the hardest part was not being smart enough to leave this chic in the dark. But I'm all good now... I Love Y'all, thanks for the support, especially you, Fenderules and DJLegion. Live on in harmony..
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
good luck man and congrats on your new attitude
