After all we've been thru, she just leaves.

[Luveno]

Man,

good thing you found this site when you did. I have some sympathy for you considering you are completely clueless as to how to handle women, and how to preserve your SELF RESPECT.
Read some of the posts, read the dj bible, and study the ways of a DJ. Eventually you will come to the point where YOUR life is more important than THEIR life, and with that in mind you will live for self improvement. The women will follow.

So, for this situation, here's what you do:

1. Never call her.

2. Never email her.

3. If she calls you, hang up on her. The only word she should hear you say is the "hello" when you answer the phone.

4. If you see her in public, ignore her.


That is it. She is not worthy of your time. Isolate her and move on.

And dude, I saw the pic: She ain't that hot.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

"You do it to yourself, you do.
And that's what really hurts, you do it to yourself."

That can't be more true than this case. When will you guys in dysfunctional relationships REALIZE that if it doesn't work out the first time, it almost invariably won't work out again and again and again and as many times as you're foolish enough to try. Really man sorry you had to go through all that....but at least now you'll have a glaring reminder to call it quits when the time comes in a new relationship.

Yeah she's a psycho-b1tch, but you also hurt yourself by going back and back and back.

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Luveno
Man,

good thing you found this site when you did. I have some sympathy for you considering you are completely clueless as to how to handle women, and how to preserve your SELF RESPECT.
Read some of the posts, read the dj bible, and study the ways of a DJ. Eventually you will come to the point where YOUR life is more important than THEIR life, and with that in mind you will live for self improvement. The women will follow.

So, for this situation, here's what you do:

1. Never call her.

2. Never email her.

3. If she calls you, hang up on her. The only word she should hear you say is the "hello" when you answer the phone.

4. If you see her in public, ignore her.


That is it. She is not worthy of your time. Isolate her and move on.

And dude, I saw the pic: She ain't that hot.

i certainly want to second this advise!

 

[the_great_gaia]

so far, so good, i haven't had the urge to call her yet! Thanks for supporting me, need more advice, plz..

 

[penkitten]

now go mingle with other chicks!
and tell them all the mean rotten things she has done to you, scores big points
however tell them you stood firm with her.. and told her to hit the road if shes gonna act like that!
do not tell the story that you cried for her not to leave.


what are you doing still reading this crap? go mingle with the chicks dude!

 

[Centaurion]

i didnt read the entire drama story, but i noticed that you are 20, and that chick is 16.

you need to *****slap yourself and stop doing underaged chicks.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by penkitten
now go mingle with other chicks!
and tell them all the mean rotten things she has done to you, scores big points
however tell them you stood firm with her.. and told her to hit the road if shes gonna act like that!
do not tell the story that you cried for her not to leave.


what are you doing still reading this crap? go mingle with the chicks dude!

Yes, leave out the part where she shattered a mirror and tried to shank you like she was some damn inmate at a woman's prison.

 

[the_great_gaia]

not to be in her defense, but she is really 18 now, Jan 20th; today, is her birthday.

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by the_great_gaia
not to be in her defense, but she is really 18 now, Jan 20th; today, is her birthday.

sorry it didnt defend or excuse anything hun..

run like the gingerbread man !!!

 

[Fenderules]

what ever you do DONT wish her happy b-day. that will get the message

 

[BigWillyStyle]

great_gaia stop being a ****ing ***** and get over it! Jesus christ.

 

[DJLegion]

Let me start off with your the biggest ****ing idiot alive. I will go step by step and show you why.

SIDENOTE: If you get to pissed off reading the truth here is a quick summary: Stop being a bit*ch, dump her, read the bible, and start talking to other girls(GIRLS THAT DON'T PLAY GAMES LIKE HER.). NEVER talk to her and ignore her at all costs.

Originally posted by the_great_gaia
me and Andrea got back together in Sept 2004; 5 months before, we called it quits.

Dude, theres a quote someone has said and it goes like this: "A book you've once read has the same ending everytime." If you don't get it it means your relationship with her won't work out (There is always a slim chance, but lets step through why you have NO chance and why she is a bit*ch.)

Since we have gotten back together, at first i was in control because I no longer cared about her feelings like I did before. Ironically, this made her want to be with me. She was acting like a girlfriend. Then she started saying how if I became a 10 (rating) that she would marry me and shyt. I was like whatever, but she has a weakness for a guy that can dress like a dime (10). Me and Andrea would break up and get back together constantly, like magnets; pull us apart, we'll come back together.

Your relationship definitly has a problem if you keep breaking up and getting back together. She's probably breaking up with you to try to gain more control.

I eventually caught feelings for her again like I did in the past, and things started going wrong. The carelessness and control i ruled in the relationship were hers now. I fvcked her for the 1st time on Thanksgiving, and since then, 2 weeks was the longest I ever went without fvcking her. The puzzy was so good that it's all I think about, and I tolerate so much of her temper and attitude just so that we can still be together.

Can't you get ***** somewhere else? Damn dude grow the **** up, she's not the only girl in the world. Half the people in this world have a *****.

Her mom kicked her out of her house because she snapped at her mom, so Andrea had no where to go, so I let her stay with me. While we were staying together, I realized how ungrateful she was. She never picks up after herself, she was bossy, etc. This made me realize that I could never live with her, she's junky. She stayed for two days, and I didn't fvck because she was on her period.

Dude, her profile says she's 16. You're 20. Do you really think she is going to be mature? AND DO YOU ****ING THINK SHE IS GOING TO WANT TO SETTLE WITH YOU WHEN SHE IS 16!? She's using you. You're such a tool.

Jan 13th, while at school, I was buying something from the snack machine and she heard some guy make fun of my hair. She stood there like "Aren't you gonna say something?" The guy that said something was cool with me, but she was like "How you gonna let somebody disrespect you in front of your girl?" Really, it wasn't that serious. But she called me a "lame" and walked off. Much later, I handed her my car keys and she called me a "lame" again and said "this is why I'm gonna keep all of my male friends, because you is a pure lame.." That pissed me off and she drove away.

Maybe a witty comment back would have been good but she is making this a big deal when it's not. You should have told her how the **** is SHE going to disrepect you because of the way you hang out with your friends. She is looking for a ****ing reason to break up with you. And guess what, you're being a bit*ch and giving her what she wants. WTF? She has your car keys and drives YOU around...IN YOUR CAR...???

She comes back a hour and a half later to get me from school, and her friend is in the car. I get in the car, and Andrea says to her friend that she can't stay at my house another minute because I am such a lame. This pissed me off even more. She started cussing me out, ignoring me, calling up other guys saying "Hey baby, what chu doing?", and shyt, so i started calling up chics and having chats with them, and Andrea said to me: "If I'm going in the wrong direction, I'm throwing ur fvcking phone out the window!" I ignored her and kept talking.

Look at what she is doing. She is playing games. She's not going to stop for you or anyone else. She wants control. Dude look at her profile....its ****ing stupid.

When we get in my house, Andrea and her friend Crystal starts packing her stuff. Andrea didn't want me to tocuh her stuff so I didn't help and she even locked me out of the room. Later, when she opened the door, I wasn't gonna let her lock me out no more so I stayed in the room.

Are you going to tell me that she's locked you out of your own room before? AND YOU STILL WANT HER? Again, there are more girls then her. And some of them don't play games like this sl*ut.

Then she started saying that when she leaves me I'll be all lonely without her and that I'm nothing. So that made me call up chics I have been talking to on the side and I used speakerphone. She started calling up dudes, and I called up one girl I fvcked.

Grow up, just dump her and get on with your life. In a few years when she's on the street whoring herself she could be ****ing jealous that you found a wife and your living in a house with a good car, etc etc etc. There is no reason to prove anything to her...at the end the winner knows he's the winner and the looser knows he's the looser. Dump her and move on with your life. In due time you will KNOW you are the winner.

Andrea seemed unaffected then she told me that she fvcked someone else too. That REALLY pissed me off, but I played it cool and started making fun of Andrea. She tried to fight me, she tried to stab me with the mirror she broke, she said that she was gonna kill me. She spit in my face, bit me, kicked me in the balls, punched me in the face, cut me, etc. She was raising hell! I put her in a wrestling hold and her friend into it with me. Then Andrea called the police saying that she was gonna have me put in jail and that she could move on that way.

Wow...I dont even know what to think of you. Do you have a penis in your pants? Do you put up with this ****!?? Kick her the hell out and never talk to her again. If anything you call the cops on her!! And by the way if you were cut you could have told the cops she assaulted you and had her arrested.

The police came, but I didn't get into trouble and Andrea told the police that if I call her, she'd press charges, so i deleted her number out of my phone, and I decided not to deal with her no more. The next morning, she called me and apologized, and I forgave her and we hooked back up, then she asked if I would help her save $1000 so that she could buy a car.

Wow, I'm getting pissed off by reading this peice of ****. She calls the cops on you and you decide to move on. Then the NEXT day she apologizes and of course your whipped so you allow it! THEN YOU AGREE WITH HERE THAT YOU WILL START TO HELP TO SAVE UP MONEY FOR HER. ARE YOU STUPID??!?!?!??! She's using you. Damn you're a tool.

She said by doing that, she would be more serious about our relationship, so i agreed to.

Hahahahhahaa, you fell for it...

The fact that she had sex with someone else dimished her value in my eyes, but I still wanted to work things out. But she couldn't deal with the fact that I had sex with some other girl and that I did it first.

Both of you need to realize this relationship will never work.

She started doubting me and said that she don't think all of her feelings would come back, and that troubled me. She started cussing me out and she hung up on me. I told her to learn from our mistakes, and I called her back and she claims "God made her calm down and talk to me.." and then she told me that her puzzy was wet. i asked if I could come over and fvck and she said yeah.

Damn she has you trained. Do you bark when she's tells you too? Be a ****ing man.

When I got to her, we fvcked and she came in like 45 secs. Then I finished and left, she called me up and said that she'd pay my cell phone bill and my car insurance, and that made me fall even more in love with her.

Haha maybe the guy who f***ed her before you got there didn't finish her off. .......

The next day, I remembered how she doubting me and I sent her an e-mail talking about how we made mistakes by fvcking other people and that I'm sorry for doing it and that I wanted to share my EVERYTHING with her. She then sent me an e-mail.

Aww...you're so sorry. I bet you $100 she isn't. And she is using you. Dude how do you feel!?? Can't you fell you're being used!??!? WISE UP!

That broke me up and then I called up her ex-boyfriend, Larry to help me get over her. Larry helped me out by telling me how she really was and what things they did and how she talks to A LOT of dudes. Larry even called up Andrea and she wanted to meet up with him at Buffalo Wild Wings. I called her and she would just hang up on me. Andrea figured out that me and Larry was around each other and she cancelled on him.

Haha and you don't think she's going to cheat on you again?......

My friend told me that he saw Andrea in Wal-Mart with another dude, and he was touching all over her and they were kissing, etc.

I would not doubt this. She is using you!!!!!!

 

[DJLegion]

That hurt even more, and I called Andrea to try to talk things over but she didn't want to hear what I had to say, she told me to leave her the fvck alone. Larry couldn't stand anymore and he asked Andrea "So, is this the end of you and Mike or Are you gonna work things out with him?" Andrea said "Right now, I feel like it's definitely over, but if my mood changes tomorrow, we can work things out. But if I still feel the same then I guess it's REALLY over. Tell Mike to call me tomorrow.."

You're being played like the bit*ch you are.

After that, I went home and went to sleep at 1:30am. My mom said that Andrea called me at 2:30am when i woke up this morning, so I called Andrea and left her a message saying "I was sleep when i missed your call but I'll call you back when i get home from school. Happy Birthday. Bye."

Don't buy her a gift. Actually tell her to f*** off.

Now, I really don't think I should call her, that I should leave her alone from right here.

NEVER talk to her again. IGNORE HER!

I'm trying to get over her, and it's so hard because we've been thru a lot and I have so much time invested in her. I don't know what to do.. help me. [/B]

Dude, let me tell you the time you put into her is wasted. There is no way you will ever marry her and be happy. STOP inversting time with her and find a real woman.

 

[MacDiddy]

OK great_gaia

theres been some pretty harsh commentary and responses here today, but don;t get discouraged. It's just tough love and u need to be provoked into some extreme makeover.

The sosuave brotherhood is behind your sorry ass!!

 

[Dead End Kid]

She is 16 what do you expect, and also you have your whole life ahead of you, dont waste it worrying about some girl, she is 16, they do things like that and especially in this time and age. Girls of that age have no respect for themselves so you know shes not gonna respect you.

 

[00Kevin]

YOU ARE BOTH PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER!

 

[jprjrjr]

Um, I don't know if anyone else noticed this, but gaia, is 20, and this chick's profile says she's 16. I do believe you should have nothing to do with her ever again.

 

[MetalFortress]

This guy is almost as bad as Bjerte.

 

[cave dweller]

move on

gaia,

She has 'snakes in her head'.

Dump her tired @ss and move on.

cave dweller

 

[FM 3321]

I hate seeing a girl take guys and wrap them around her finger. It's so pathetic how this happens. One of my sisters friends is one of these "players", not like this girl but she always has guys doing stuff for her just because she's hot and pretty. Sad, sad, sad. You'll learn.

Edit: I'm gonna have to listen to a few minutes of David DeAngelo now. It's like I forgot that some women control guys like this and this story made me remember how some guys let women control them. This is so pathetic.