Its just the Coaches fault imo.So we can all acknowledge that OP posted this thread looking for Yes Men and for people to sound like Red Pill losers who talk about how bad feminism is. However, for any guy out there reading, there is a fine line between being a bold cold approacher that talks to women versus a nuisance that potentially gets into trouble. Let's dissect this all even further.
For one, yea we can blame the environment. England is a very anti-sex type of society full of women who are still clinging on to the Victorian Era. Poor guy decided to cold approach in a country hit by sexual trafficking from Pakistani gangs and one which looks down on cold approach as a whole. I have approached English women before and they are indeed a cold bunch that frowns upon anyone that acts out of the norm. So we can say that the guy was in a tough environment and a country terrible for game, yeah, that is a part of it.
We can give the guy any excuse in the world to feel like a victim and feel sorry for himself but where is the accountability?
It is no different than dudes blaming height or race for their lack of success with women. Yeah it's tough out there but what exactly are you doing about it? If it is not a market suited for you, then give up and play videogames or something.
Now let's talk about the coaching that the guy receives. We should be focusing more on how so many PUAs are scamming dudes and misleading them down a destructive path. Tusk likely told this guy to spam approach and knew that unlike him, the guy will have to live with the consequences of his local area. PUAs never bothered to make a distinction on where cold approach is simply not okay and when to be aware of the environment. Once again, a failure on the game industry to mislead yet another poor guy.
Now let's talk about the guy. He has Aspergers so he likely came off as a weirdo to women, I know it sounds rude saying it but call it for what it is. Then he does this in a smaller city or town in an country that already has a restrictive sexual climate around cold approach. Even he should have known that the odds were stacked against him based on all of that alone and that is not counting looks.
Finally, let's get to looks. As a guy, you have a lot of control over your looks. I have a big nose and other flaws but I make the most of my look. I work out (before I got sick), wore fitted clothes, did not dress like a bum, and made sure to get regular haircuts. You have to look presentable which this guy probably didn't.
Given his Aspergers, he creeped out a lot of girls but failed to notice the women he crept out. Overtime, this grew and grew until it ended poorly for the guy.
We need to stop selling cold approach as the only way to meet women because for a lot of men out there, it simply isn't viable. It is only reserved for mentally tough guys who are willing to put in the work and have basic people skills. If you do not have that, you will come off as a creep and at worst, end up like this dude did.
Cold Approach is not that common out there imo, younger guys might holla at girls here and there, but not like how these coaches and PUA community make you think its 'nomal' for men to talk to women in the streets.
Cold Approach is not part of 'normal culture' atleast in the UK afaik. It is just young guys who holla in a more opportunistic way. Going out of your way to Cold Approach in sessions is more a PUA thing. I have been out and about a lot in Central London around Oxford Street which is the main part of London and I rarely ever see anyone cold-approaching.