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Cold Approaching in a small town is fvcking stupid lol.
I wouldn't have thought that. You're just saying hello to women. What's the big deal. This isn't some kind of common sense thing. You're not doing anything illegal. Anyone teaching pickup should tell people this if it's a thing! And quite frankly it's ridiculous, but obviously you need to deal with the reality of living in a man hating matriarchy. I've watched a lot of youtube dating coaches. I've never seen them saying never cold approach in small towns!
 

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No you can't. I completely disagree with that. I've been in-field for a while. I've done more approaches than you can imagine, and I can never tell how she'll react. Sometimes she lights up with a huge smile and thanks me for the approach even when rejecting me, while I was worried she was going to be bitchy. Other times a woman will give you the nastiest look imaginable just at hello and totally ignore you. It's totally based on how the woman immediately perceives you and whether she is a nice person or not.

Some women are really good people who are kind and empathetic. Others are trash.

If you want to test a woman's character, have an ugly guy who can't offer her anything approach her respectfully and see how she treats him. It's just like how a woman should see how the man treats the waiter to see his true character.

I wish I could tell who's going to be nice or not before I approach. It would make things easier. YOU CAN'T. Unless you are waiting for strong ioi's and that is no longer a cold approach, but a warm approach and is rare.
I get it. We're all different. I count on my subconscious a lot. At some point you "just get it", I pick up on cues instantly now. Took years to learn how to get in the "zone". Not to be cliche, but it all comes from within. Now I'm almost always in that "vibe".

Once you're in a state of zero inhibition, you can tell who's receptive or not. It's called vibing for a reason, matched frequency. And even if you miss, odds are that you can still entice them by way of projecting your zen, playful mood. Fun and open is contagious, as you know.

Obviously this guy wasn't there yet, and given his prior condition, he may never get there. Hate to see it, but I'm ruthlessly pragmatic. This game isn't for everyone.
 

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No you can't. Statements like this make me question if a lot of you are really doing a lot of cold approaching.

I completely disagree with that. I've been in-field for a while. I've done more approaches than you can imagine, and I can never tell how she'll react. Sometimes she lights up with a huge smile and thanks me for the approach even when rejecting me, while I was worried she was going to be bitchy. Other times a woman will give you the nastiest look imaginable just at hello and totally ignore you. It's totally based on how the woman immediately perceives you and whether she is a nice person or not.

Sometimes they seem nice, but uninterested/shy, but then give you their number! Great convos go nowhere with a nice rejection, while 10 second convos get a number! Sometimes without you asking! Women are deceptive and hard to read. Let's be real. And You absolutely can not mind read a woman just walking by on the street and determine if she will be nice or not.

Some women are really good people who are kind and empathetic. Others are trash.

If you want to test a woman's character, have an ugly guy who can't offer her anything approach her respectfully and see how she treats him. It's just like how a woman should see how the man treats the waiter to see his true character.

I wish I could tell who's going to be nice or not before I approach. It would make things easier. YOU CAN'T. Unless you are waiting for strong ioi's and that is no longer a cold approach, but a warm approach and is rare.
Your problem is your view on cold approach. I can tell that you haven't done it earlier in your life , and that you also never witnessed a "natural " for a longer time. Now you look like you are a grown man that frantically tries to make up for the lost opportunities he had during college ,high school ect.

My opinion about your description of cold approach so far is it's very mechanic and forced. Not organic. Iirc ,its a known fact not everyone has the skill to " close the gap". I dont wanna name it lack of charme I believe it's more subtle than that. The ability to close the gap can be the reason why a fat MF gets hot women.

The "natural " went through all this loooong time ago. The young lion tries to attack a healthy adult buffalo and get his shyte pushed in. Thats how he'll learn to hunt and become a great strategist while doing so.

I agree with Jesse that men like you should stay away from the street . Better for everyone. Your defeatist mindset hangs over your head like a dark cloud. You might be better of taking your day game to the night. At parties women are more open to approaches.
 

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And I think this is a sensible response on that reddit page:
I disagree with some of it.

" . For them to report you, it means you might be giving of a desperate vibe or saying the wrong thing. "

1)He didn't say the wrong thing. He got blown out immediately.
2)They reported him because they are awful people

Having a desperate vibe is reason for REJECTING someone, not calling the cops. I didn't get a desperate vibe from him. The interactions were way too short for that. Have a hot guy do what he did and see what happens

My advice to him is to not cold approach in small towns. He doesn't have the sex appeal and will run into major trouble in this female first matriarchy we are living under. The entitlted queens that run this society want to supress sub 5 men harshly and they will use men to enact their violence.

Getting your arms broken by a mob is still a 1 in a million. But this unlucky guy got it bad and some of you have no empathy for him, which is sad.
There might be more going on here than what this guy is admitting. We are only getting one side of the story, plus speculation.
I would say sure except the police were involved and he would have been charged and we can see his approaches. Everyone on FB knew who he was. It would have blown up if he did anything.

I'm 99 percent POSITIVE that those men who attacked him were told that guy did something awful like SA by an attention seeking female who didn't go to the cops because she was lying. The cops look at facts and he would be charged in 2 seconds flat if he actually did something. His own videos saved his skin imo.

Because there is no way a group of men in a small town is going to form a hit squad and violently attack a man for saying hello and giving a pickup line. They are risking major jail time. That's way beyond simple assault what they did and doesn't really make any sense. They could get decades in prison in the US for doing that. Over what? A hello, you look nice? No way. Even the mafia wouldn't do that. You've actually have to touch their daughters without consent for that to happen. Were those men arrested that attacked him? I'd like to know that.

The other possibility is those men are so stupid and inbred they can't understand that a man can approach an underage girl accidentally and can't tell the difference between that and someone luring at an elementary school. But my money is on false allegation
 
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I agree with Jesse that men like you should stay away from the street . Better for everyone. Your defeatist mindset hangs over your head like a dark cloud. You might be better of taking your day game to the night. At parties women are more open to approaches.
You can think whatever you like, but I don't need anyone's permission to approach a woman and say hello. I'm a grown man who lives in a still free country.
 

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My advice to him is to not cold approach in small towns. He doesn't have the sex appeal and will run into major trouble in this female first matriarchy we are living under. The entitlted queens that run this society want to supress sub 5 men harshly and they will use men to enact their violence.
I've seen this before. You really have to be on your "A" game and also be very discreet. Being overt is probably what got him in trouble.

I would say sure except the police were involved and he would have been charged and we can see his approaches. Everyone on FB knew who he was. It would have blown up if he did anything.
That's assuming the police had enough evidence to charge him. It's possible to commit a crime and not get charged for it.

I'm 99 percent POSITIVE that those men who attacked him were told that guy did something awful like SA by an attention seeking female who didn't go to the cops because she was lying. The cops look at facts and he would be charged in 2 seconds flat if he actually did something. His own videos saved his skin imo.
That certainly is a possibility
 

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I've seen this before. You really have to be on your "A" game and also be very discreet. Being overt is probably what got him in trouble.



That's assuming the police had enough evidence to charge him. It's possible to commit a crime and not get charged for it.
Yeah uploading onto youtube was a big mistake as he admitted.
With a sa allegation all they'd need in a situation like that would be her statement saying what he did. That's it. Innocent guys get jammed up with this. Don't kid yourself. Charging doesn't even mean a conviction. He likely had video evidence proving he did nothing and she KNEW it so she didn't go to the cops. But this all speculation. It just doesn't make sense to me for a mob to form over a pickup line, but who knows fo sure in this crazy world.
 

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What kind of self-hating retard wants to continue CHASING, COLD-APPROACHING, PURSUING women when

1. They have set-up a facebook group to ID and track this guy down
2. 'Young' girls have called police on him
3. He got beat up by the local security team

This is a weirdo who after being called a pedo in his town still goes after mostly young girls ie 20 and under, being over 30 himself, regularly hitting on girls underage, meaning under 16.

Idk if @Don of the north has actually read the thread but this guy is not psychologically sound.

Important point: We live in a society where it is generally socially taboo to speak to women out in public in the streets ie Cold-Approach. It can be considered rude, disrespectful, harassment etc to SPEAK TO ANY WOMAN IN THE STREET for purposes of romantic interaction. This is how it is, accept it and deal with it.

It it every womans RIGHT to walk the streets without being approached. It is NOT any guys rights to speak to any woman in the streets. THIS IS JUST HOW IT IS. We dont live in a society where people socialise out and about with strangers, it is not that kind of world. We live in a world of weirdos, rapists, creeps and criminals. This is what people see in the news everyday.

If you wanna cold-approach, go for it, but you may end up in jail, or beat up, it is what it is. Cold Approach is not necessary, so its on you.

This has nothing to do with muh matriarchy men hating SJWs. Its just some guys are so desperate and poorly calibrated they dont understand that cold-approach goes against our own social norms.

If women dont want you to cold approach, then dont.
 

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Yeah uploading onto youtube was a big mistake as he admitted.
With a sa allegation all they'd need in a situation like that would be her statement saying what he did. That's it. Innocent guys get jammed up with this. Don't kid yourself. Charging doesn't even mean a conviction. He likely had video evidence proving he did nothing and she KNEW it so she didn't go to the cops. But this all speculation. It just doesn't make sense to me for a mob to form over a pickup line, but who knows fo sure in this crazy world.
Precisely, tis indeed a crazy world. Act accordingly
 

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predators preying on helpless women.
Laying it on a little thick, wouldn't you say? Few if any women in the West today are "helpless" except in very rare and circumstantial contexts. Moreover, I'd point out that what the members of this board do and what PUAs do is indistinguishable to probably 98% of society.
 

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You can think whatever you like, but I don't need anyone's permission to approach a woman and say hello. I'm a grown man who lives in a still free country.
Where I live they call this " disturbing the peace" and men like you will be dealt with appropriately by the police . If your lucky.

You definitely don't wanna be out there again while a girl you previously approached is with her big dog brother, bf, or father.

Over here police always has the law on their side. Just standing somewhere might be reason to ID you, and unlike USA you cant refuse. Kavi said it perfectly; the real thrill of cold approach can be the fact you are "taking risks ". Fortune favors the brave?


"Disturbing the peace, also known as breach of the peace, is a criminal offense that occurs when a person engages in some form of unruly public behavior, such as fighting or causing excessively loud noise. When a person's words or conduct jeopardizes another person's right to peace and tranquility, he or she may be charged with disturbing the peace."

not as free as you think bruh.
 

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This is a weirdo who after being called a pedo in his town still goes after mostly young girls ie 20 and under, being over 30 himself, regularly hitting on girls underage, meaning under 16

It it every womans RIGHT to walk the streets without being approached. It is NOT any guys rights to speak to any woman in the streets. THIS IS JUST HOW IT IS.

If you wanna cold-approach, go for it, but you may end up in jail, or beat up, it is what it is. Cold Approach is not necessary, so its on you.

This has nothing to do with muh matriarchy men hating SJWs. Its just some guys are so desperate and poorly calibrated they dont understand that cold-approach goes against our own social norms.

If women dont want you to cold approach, then dont.
A woman doesn't have a right to not be approached one time. Look up the law. You have a first amendment constitutionally protected right to free speech. You can approach and she has no obligation to talk to you. It's a free country.

Look at his infields. Many women who looked near 30. A tiny percent were minors. Nothing wrong with a man over 30 approach women of legal age who are consenting adults so who cares if he approaches 18 or 19. Raise the legal age to 21,25 or 30 for consent if you believe that. That's next. Real sick stuff. Society has gone mad. Our laws don't actually represent our current sjw thinking. If it did, we would have to tear up the constitution, which of course they want to.

Some women want you to approach, some don't. You don't know till you ask.
 
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I wouldn't have thought that. You're just saying hello to women. What's the big deal. This isn't some kind of common sense thing. You're not doing anything illegal. Anyone teaching pickup should tell people this if it's a thing! And quite frankly it's ridiculous, but obviously you need to deal with the reality of living in a man hating matriarchy. I've watched a lot of youtube dating coaches. I've never seen them saying never cold approach in small towns!
It’s not illegal to be annoying but don’t get upset when people in a close knit protective community react violently to a predator.
 

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You do realize that there is a pretty horrific epidemic of young girls getting groomed into sex trade in the UK right? We're talking tens of thousands of young women. If there is some guy walking around talking to underage women, you can bet your ass that the locals in a small town are going to have something to say about it.

Ironically, wokeness is to blame for this because the cops in the UK are too afraid of being called racist to do anything about the problem, because the people running the gangs are mostly arabs. The locals are being forced into this kind of vigilante style justice.

The UK is already a dystopian hellscape, and it's only getting worse.
 

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Where I live they call this " disturbing the peace" and men like you will be dealt with appropriately by the police . If your lucky.

You definitely don't wanna be out there again while a girl you previously approached is with her big dog brother, bf, or father.

Over here police always has the law on their side. Just standing somewhere might be reason to ID you, and unlike USA you cant refuse. Kavi said it perfectly; the real thrill of cold approach can be the fact you are "taking risks ". Fortune favors the brave?


"Disturbing the peace, also known as breach of the peace, is a criminal offense that occurs when a person engages in some form of unruly public behavior, such as fighting or causing excessively loud noise. When a person's words or conduct jeopardizes another person's right to peace and tranquility, he or she may be charged with disturbing the peace."

not as free as you think bruh.
Bruh my last comment to you. Saying hello and asking for coffee one time doesn't fall under that statute. Sue their ass off if they arrest you. If someone bf ect violently attacks you for saying hello that would be stupid. Press charges and sue and we have a 2nd amendment for a reason if it ever got that bad that you felt your life was in immediate danger from an attacker or multiple attackers with weapons. You're obviously just trying to scare people from approaching to get more for yourself. Glaring and obvious.
 

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You do realize that there is a pretty horrific epidemic of young girls getting groomed into sex trade in the UK right? We're talking tens of thousands of young women. If there is some guy walking around talking to underage women, you can bet your ass that the locals in a small town are going to have something to say about it.

Ironically, wokeness is to blame for this because the cops in the UK are too afraid of being called racist to do anything about the problem, because the people running the gangs are mostly arabs. The locals are being forced into this kind of vigilante style justice.

The UK is already a dystopian hellscape, and it's only getting worse.
That's why I mentioned his cultural background would might shed some light into this. I didn't see the videos so I don't know if he is native British or not.
 

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Bruh my last comment to you. Saying hello and asking for coffee one time doesn't fall under that statute. Sue their ass off if they arrest you. If someone bf ect violently attacks you for saying hello that would be stupid. Press charges and sue and we have a 2nd amendment for a reason if it ever got that bad that you felt your life was in immediate danger from an attacker or multiple attackers with weapons. You're obviously just trying to scare people from approaching to get more for yourself. Glaring and obvious.
No, what I am saying went completely over your head. I say you should be subtle when you cold approach. Read it back.

There's a reason why cold approach is associated with the word predator. And I dont mean Chris Hansen type of predator, I mean a drugs dealer looking for junkies type of predator. You hunt, yet there are many rules to the game ,both written and unwritten. Your " me Tarzan you Jane " style of cold approach doesn't work.

Men like you who dont understand this end up in handcuffs, that doesn't surprise me a bit. I actually encourage people to approach, but to do so with conscious .
 

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You do realize that there is a pretty horrific epidemic of young girls getting groomed into sex trade in the UK right? We're talking tens of thousands of young women. If there is some guy walking around talking to underage women, you can bet your ass that the locals in a small town are going to have something to say about it.

Ironically, wokeness is to blame for this because the cops in the UK are too afraid of being called racist to do anything about the problem, because the people running the gangs are mostly arabs. The locals are being forced into this kind of vigilante style justice.

The UK is already a dystopian hellscape, and it's only getting worse.
this is such hysterical nonsense. Unattractive men with poor social skills are not going around in large numbers in towns in the UK cold approaching huge numbers of women with a gorpo cam looking to find girls to traffic in the sex trade. This is absurd. Pimps use social circle and look for drug addicts and they do everything they can to avoid attracting attention. This guy is the complete opposite.

Anyway, Who did he traffic into the sex trade? No one. Facts. Next it will be he could be an axe murderer. Anyone CAN do anything. What is this, the minority report? You go based on facts and what he DID do.

He's sub 5 in the west daring to say hello to women. That's his crime. Nothing would have happened if he was 8 in the face. We all know this. He was getting blown out after a few seconds.

Also, if you approach hundreds of women who appear under 30 you'll end up approaching someone under 18. I've seen infields on YouTube of this happening. It's not a big deal. You didn't do anything. Just say have a nice day and move on. These are not little kids. Stop acting like he's approaching little children. Even if he NEVER approached a minor, it probably would have ended up the same. Adult entitled women were complaining about him. That's 99 percent of his approaches probably. They literally have sex offenders living in/around these communities and they are worried about some guy on disability with aspbergers who's 28 with no criminal record saying hello? GTFOH They knew who he was and they knew he never touched anyone. He was just saying hello and hoping they'd talk to him,That literally was the extent of most of these interactions.

That community in the UK should be ASHAMED of itself. Absolute disgrace. Ask yourself a question. Who was saved from anything criminal? By some miracle he'd find some girl that liked him enough to go out on a few dates and maybe be his g/f. That's the extent of this. None of these girls were in danger. They saw him as easy victim to attack and feel like big bold protectors. Nothing but cowards. If he was some dangerous armed violent felon those same guys would have hid away and called 911. Let's get real.
 
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