A woman's perspective [Mod: Moved from MM]

[zekko]

LOL at a forum of mature men trying to engage in an intelligent debate with an age 21 feminist atheist.

We have people thinking the OP is not worth talking to just because she is a woman. Or just because she is 21. Or just because she is a feminist. Or just because she is an atheist.
Some people wanted to deem her not worth talking to because she was a "religious nut", but that was squashed.

It's always interesting to me to see the amount of vitriol spewed every time a woman posts here. Clearly, there are a lot of guys here who are very bitter toward women, and who obviously do not like women at all, no matter how much they like getting into their pants.

For myself, I thought she said a couple of interesting things that I responded to. Whether or not she is "saving herself for marriage" is completely irrelevant to me. She may change her mind at some point as she gets older. In any case, it's her choice.

 

[FrogWife]

I'm a woman, I read this forum every day and find it very helpful and insightful (especially the "Mature Man" forum)... I'm going through a divorce and re-entering the dating scene and it's interesting for me to see that men and women of all ages seem to go through some of the same problems and challenges in dealing with relationships.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Hey guys look! An albino unicorn! And all the white knights said,

"Ooooohh,..see? The ideal Quality Woman really DOES exist! And she really 'gets it' at such a young age too! Wow! You see? Not all women are like that."

and all of the fears they had about their self-righteous ego investments and hopes for the future were finally vindicated and put to rest.

The End.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear All,
I think the style of writing is familiar,as being similar to other dissimulating suspicious posts we have had here.

 

[Maximummax]

LadyMD..You forgot to mention/Add one thing that i would like to listen
Why women spend time and put effort in playing games with men?

 

[backbreaker]

We have people thinking the OP is not worth talking to just because she is a woman. Or just because she is 21. Or just because she is a feminist. Or just because she is an atheist.
Some people wanted to deem her not worth talking to because she was a "religious nut", but that was squashed.

It's always interesting to me to see the amount of vitriol spewed every time a woman posts here. Clearly, there are a lot of guys here who are very bitter toward women, and who obviously do not like women at all, no matter how much they like getting into their pants.

For myself, I thought she said a couple of interesting things that I responded to. Whether or not she is "saving herself for marriage" is completely irrelevant to me. She may change her mind at some point as she gets older. In any case, it's her choice.

it's not the fact that she is a woman. Penkitten post on her for years and no one has a problem with her, in fact she needs to post more often.

But she comes here, spewing her own warped view of what she thinks a man should and should not do, while at the same time putting every man here in the same category, yeah that's going to rub some the wrong way. You can't come here, don't take time to learn the idiosyncrasies of a forum as deep as this one and expect to get away with it. This isn't a video game forum.

To the contrary, some people are showing their true white knight colors by entertaining this woman's thoughts as being half ass serious. If a guy posted this same **** he would be laughed off the forum.

 

[lgbs2004]

OP,

Do you at least give good head?

Yes, but only after the marriage! :crackup:

 

[spider_007]

......I'd love to hear how "right" it is for a woman to be a virgin until married, especially if its not because of religuous mumbo jumbo

There is nothing wrong with her being a virgin till marriage - if she feels that that's right for her. All power to her. Relationship will be built things other then sex. Sex might be crappy when they do it since nether will know what they are doing, but who cares.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

So, show of hands, how many guys here live in a house they bought that they couldn't afford, sight unseen before they signed the title?

The brochure really makes it look so good doesn't it?

 

[sodbuster]

One hint of a woman's inflated value of self comes from her name. Have you been ACCEPTED into med school? GRADUATED? I know several pre- Dental students who weren't accepted and 6 out of 65 in my class {Dental college} who didn't make it out with us{a few came back later and made it the second time}

 

[LadyMD]

The irony is that I actually admired this forum before posting here. I'm not sure what I was thinking. This place is actually full of idiots, many of whom can't spell, and I'm disappointed to see the insecurity and *******ry rather than gleeful. And yes, ad hominem attacks for the win.

Sorry if my username intimidated you or something, but don't concern yourself with my MD prospects. A 38 on the MCAT plus a 3.9 GPA from a top southern UG says I'm in good shape for med school. Maybe you should spend your energy worrying about your own future instead, just a suggestion.

But thanks for playing - feel free to lock this thread or use it to feed your misogyny, I'm done with this place.

 

[synergy1]

what i find interesting was the divergence between the 'expected response' and the 'real response', and how you are unable to cope with reality not fitting the form you had imagined. Here is a fun fact for you: the real world is a lot more than regurgitating rote memory from books and spewing **** on a test. Get used to people acting like this becasue any community will react the same if you decide to barge in with a ' this is how it is' attitude. You are 21. you don't know how it is. I am 10 years older than you are and am barely getting the hang of it.

You might have a 4.0 ( I round up because I am feeling generous today), but you got one thing wrong. Not all of us are misogynists. I love women! they love me! if this was a one question essay test, you might have just failed... so sorry...

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I've been reading this forum for the past day and a half,..

And yet oddly you seem to have a complete mastery and understanding of all the concepts and terminologies the manosphere has developed over the last decade. May I be the first to congratulate you on your astounding perceptiveness in so brief a learning period.

It sure is a good thing that you spelled out from the start for us what a womanly exception to the rule you are, otherwise you message of "not all women are like that" might have lost some intellectual impact.

We might have thought you were a man making a lame attempt at feminine identification. That would never do, it might delegitimize your perspective amongst so many obvious misogynists here.


Obvious troll is obvious.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

But thanks for playing - feel free to lock this thread or use it to feed your misogyny, I'm done with this place.

Oh no! We've offended the sensibilities of a rare 'woman' who innocuously joined SoSuave who was telling us how wrong we are about women. Dammit! Just when we were getting to the root of our bitter misogyny.

Now the Mods will lock this thread and she'll never come back to save us from dying lonely old men.

 

[Burroughs]

Pretty women marry doctors.

Ugly women become doctors

 

[lgbs2004]

Good girl gone bad!

 

[Powerlifter]

That is completely false Burroughs, no offence but you should see some of the female doctors in my neck of woods and they are far from ugly.

I also got to thinking while those knocking LadyMD whats to say one day she is a practicing doctor and she happens to be the one that saves your life.

Powerlifter

Ugly women become doctors

 

[sodbuster]

My point was while I am a DENTIST, my name isn't DR sodbuster or sodbuster DDS. You haven't done the time,but you want to claim the title

 

[Desdinova]

I'm jumping into this debate a little late, but it's a great thread. Posts like this make us open up our brains and think, regardless if the OP is male or female.

#1: Most of us don't want guys with typical DJ traits, i.e. *******s. There's a myth that good girls seek out bad boys, but that is not true.
#3: We are not into men who have a storied sexual history. I can say that I'm turned off when I find out that a guy has a history of being a player or has had lots of sexual partners.

All of this fantastic logical thinking gets thrown out the window when attraction comes into play. When a woman is attracted to a man, it doesn't matter if he's broke, jobless, had 45 sex partners and spent time in jail. What matters is how he makes her feel. If she gets the emotional fluctuation she needs from him, then he's a stellar man who can give her the love she needs.

Sure he killed someone, but deep down he's not a bad man because bad men don't make you feel this good!

Women will validate their men no matter how tarnished their history is. As long as she feels he's right for her, she won't care about his past.

Need an example? You're reading the text of one. My childless 21 year old gf (yes, she's the same age as you) asked me how many people I've dated. I responded with "You expect me to count?" I'm also separated with a child and an atheist to boot. She comes from a very religious family who is quite disappointed that she's dating me. Does she care? No. I make her feel good, and that's all that matters.

So already you are using your pvssy as some sort of prize that only a certain man will get to pump once he has qualified himself as worthy of your pvssy via marriage.

Zunder has brought up an interesting point, and you decided that his aggressive approach to this subject makes him childish. In other words, he made you feel bad so you're not going to bother with him. (See? Logic doesn't matter when your emotions are affected.)

Do ANY other mammals in the animal kingdom save themselves for marriage? No. Marriage doesn't exist in the animal kingdom EXCEPT for humans. When mammals are attracted to each other, they mate. I guarantee that when you feel strong attraction for a man, you're going to mate with him as well regardless of the existance of a legal document binding the two of you together.

But thanks for playing - feel free to lock this thread or use it to feed your misogyny, I'm done with this place.

Whoops! There goes the emotions again, violently spilling all over the inside of your brain. You've become so offended that logical debate has become pointless because too many of the men here made you feel like 5hit.

Since you have been affected by your emotions so much, should be believe in any of your qualifications for the ideal man who penetrates your vagina?

Thread remains open.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

What were your intentions here? To further your understanding of men? It's true that some guys here are over-egotistical, critical, and judging. Everyone is to some degree, but many of us can control ourselves.

You've received many positive comments, despite the negative ones. Unfortunately the negatives seem to resonate stronger with you emotionally. That's why *******s are *******s; because they've found their attractiveness to women in their masculine natures of being aggressive, challenging, and willfully opinionated.

It is not our intention to demean who you are; we are here to discuss the realities of feminine nature, as we know and understand it, beyond social conventions. In addition, you can't expect every man to be sensitive to your feelings, ESPECIALLY online, where we can't exactly tell what might upset you.

I am sorry that you are choosing to leave on behalf of the blatant-ness of some of the guys here. I wish you the best in med school.

The irony is that I actually admired this forum before posting here. I'm not sure what I was thinking. This place is actually full of idiots, many of whom can't spell, and I'm disappointed to see the insecurity and *******ry rather than gleeful. And yes, ad hominem attacks for the win.

Sorry if my username intimidated you or something, but don't concern yourself with my MD prospects. A 38 on the MCAT plus a 3.9 GPA from a top southern UG says I'm in good shape for med school. Maybe you should spend your energy worrying about your own future instead, just a suggestion.

But thanks for playing - feel free to lock this thread or use it to feed your misogyny, I'm done with this place.