sapiens that is not true for 99% of AFC's!
that is horrible advice, and that is what produces... there is something that creates a natural DJ, but it is controversial. Controversy is the reason the world takes time to grow. When you realize that life is more than just being lucky, getting lucky, and making others feel lucky than you will see that hard woork, hard games, and hard times are necessary.
You can't inspire people to seek hard times, but you can teach them to know when they have overcome.
Teach the frustrated ones not to fear women, teach them not to love for the sake of loving. When you get into a mindset(ie I love you) you begin to look for the little things, than you blow them wayyyy out of proportion. Like one girl I worked with, I was AFC and I took her being an AW as a lovely trait, probably what every other guy that fell for her thought. mindsets are poisonous, they are addictive, but they are not forever, that is what brings the hard times, when the girl leaves you, and you believed the both of you would be together forever.
I am an evil man, I have tested the waters of love, I have talked to girls on MSN, friends of friends, the girls who've probably never been with a guy. The ug's the girls no man that weighs under 300 pounds would go for(well there are always genetic acceptions). Just imagine what you can do when you have free reign without a chance of mixing up your words.
Love is fickle, you may believe you have learned a lesson, but the next girl who comes along could snap her hip while holding your eye.... and your gone. Take the ride again and you resurface again gasping for air screaming what a ride, I'm not getting on there again. Kind of like drinking
I love the momentum of being drunk, it brings out so many interactions, living in the bar is addictive everybody seemingly knows everybody. Nobody really falls in love there, but every night you can sit at a table and watch the lovebirds going at it, you can also find the girls with 5 guys twirled around one finger, and the guys like I used to be who can string along most any girl.
I ask all the time, does she like ME? For who I am, not what I say, or do, or work towards? I was me when I was AFC I am still me now that I am a DJ. What is me? and can she help me...
It's not against the rules of society to hope for more, if she loves you, so be it, but make sure the love is true.
For all you NEXTer's out there, what is your goal when you next? I know and have read of many a DJ who has forsaken the boards due to fear of unknown. They see AFC after AFC regardsing the board flooding it with BS tactics that do nothing for the soul. indirect game is what a DJ was initially supposed to possess. There were no SS methods squeaking their way in. health and fitness is probably the best place to look for a real DJ, but even than they are looking in the wrong place.
I really don't know where I am going with this, asll I know is that your topic is AFC.
Sapiens your topic is no secret, and it is horrible to be touted as one.
