Broken-hearted or not, after giving love 100% it does not make you a DJ. It gives you an important perspective on relationships, such as caution and discernment. Which is good in that it makes you more of a challenge. I don't remember who said this, but being a DJ is not about the girl, it's about improving yourself. It's about creating a better person in every aspect within yourself. Not vaingloriously, but better and striving for excellence all the time.
Look guys, you have a small amount of time on this planet, you might as well make the best of it and live. Don't throw it all away on a chick, you're too valuable. That's why I love this site in that it helps us AFC's to build ourselves better, stronger and more confident.