I'm pissed that for many years, I believed I was fighting the world, that I was a victim, that bad things were happening to me, when all the while I was actually the one in control. That's annoying. I'm pissed I acted like a victim when I never was one. That it became a habit. But no need to remain pissed.
A RANT: Share why you are p!ssed
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iqqi
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Sweetcakes, it has been a year, and we both lead very active social lives. Cannot help running into the ex! It happens! When it does he goes in for the contact, and I evade. EVADE! Politely and indifferently. When he insists on speaking to me I am politely rude and have to break out the brush off technique.persistent exaction said:sorry Iqqi, but that is CONTACT. Better brush up on the definition of No Contact. I am afraid you are operating under the Loveshack definition.
I am not going to run in the opposite direction when I see him, it isn't that serious.
I pretend to not see him, and I am so good at it that sometimes I don't!
He hates that.
EDIT: I think I left out the fact that the underlying reason I am p!ssed about the ex is that he thinks we can be friends and fake and chummy after what he did, that he has not apologized for, does not admit to, and is currently still doing to his current GF.
Enough about the ex. Please. Rant on, sosuavers.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
P!ssed is a temporary state of being that leads to better things many times.reset said:
That's how I look at it.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
iqqi said:
Then why channel so much negativity into creative expression? Go use that for more constructive purposes, like moving out. Makes more sense IMO.
And Boo on gas prices and "green" products.
I hate the fact that no-one has a god-damn idea what life is for, but keep on talking to you like you should follow their fuc'king advise cos they fuc'king know better cos they're smart enough to swallow society's fuc'king message whole and become a fuc'king slave to the fuc'king machine.
I hate how all the friends I've ever had who could understand where I'm coming from are in a different place and with the people I hang out with I pretty much can't share what's going through my head, having to talk about shi't I don't care about, do shi't that doesn't interest me (or rather, not do sh'it, just "hang out"), and act as if life has no more meaning than american-style basketball clothes.
I hate that society is built on the idea that you have to make an "equal exchange", as if you can put a price tag on everything, rather than simple sharing, which makes a lot more sense, because it's based on love, not fear, and works at least as easily without a bit of the bullsh'it.
I hate how you can enjoy learning but school insists on making you hate it, just for a "diploma" or whatever. WHO THE FU'CK CARES.
I hate how I've felt obliged to be joyless, and I hate the idea that there'll ever be anyone who thinks that I should be FOR ANY F.U.C.K.I.N.G. reason.
I hate how all the friends I've ever had who could understand where I'm coming from are in a different place and with the people I hang out with I pretty much can't share what's going through my head, having to talk about shi't I don't care about, do shi't that doesn't interest me (or rather, not do sh'it, just "hang out"), and act as if life has no more meaning than american-style basketball clothes.
I hate that society is built on the idea that you have to make an "equal exchange", as if you can put a price tag on everything, rather than simple sharing, which makes a lot more sense, because it's based on love, not fear, and works at least as easily without a bit of the bullsh'it.
I hate how you can enjoy learning but school insists on making you hate it, just for a "diploma" or whatever. WHO THE FU'CK CARES.
I hate how I've felt obliged to be joyless, and I hate the idea that there'll ever be anyone who thinks that I should be FOR ANY F.U.C.K.I.N.G. reason.
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
That was a pretty good analogy! Yea, I too have the problem of fcuking sh!t up with chicks I sense are interested in me...Deadly_Assassin said:
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Me too.Gubby said:
Except that stupid dream about Desdinova!!! WTF!? :cuss:
Now I am p!ssed again.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
I forgot to say that, yeah, this was a great post.Deadly_Assassin said:
Good analogy.
I might use it!
iqqi DAHHLING, you call it whatever you want sweetie. I am simply letting you know WHY you can't get the X out of your mind after a full YEAR. I would be obsessing to if I was in constant contact with mine!
I would be obsessing to if I was in constant contact with mine!iqqi
Master Don Juan
Dude, he is never on my mind.persistent exaction said:iqqi DAHHLING, you call it whatever you want sweetie. I am simply letting you know WHY you can't get the X out of your mind after a full YEAR.
Of course when I run into him... well actually even then he is not on my mind... oh nevermind.
I hate when people assume sh!t that doesn't even make sense! I hate when you say one thing and a person tries to rephrase what you said, but they say something completely the opposite, and you are like "WHAT?! I didn't say that!"
I hate when people project their own experiences onto you, when that is not what is happening in your situation at all, but they don't know any different because they can't open their minds wide enough to consider anything different than their own experiences.
I hate alka seltzer. GROSS!!! :cuss:
michaelhctam
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I am mad at how I screwed up my University Interview with my stuttering and nervous B-S, Sh!t talking.
I am mad at how I never stay in one area for more than 3 months leading me to not make any long-lasting friends or relationships.
I am mad at how I never stay in one area for more than 3 months leading me to not make any long-lasting friends or relationships.
Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
I got nothing to complain about really, except YOU!
• Where are those poems you were supposed to write?
• Why do you hang out with losers and haters?
• When will you get off your ass and out of that rut?
• When will you let me see your online project so I can give my $0.02?
GRRRRR!!
• Where are those poems you were supposed to write?
• Why do you hang out with losers and haters?
• When will you get off your ass and out of that rut?
• When will you let me see your online project so I can give my $0.02?
GRRRRR!!
HalfAddict
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I'm mad I'm seeing this thread in DJ Discussion.
-i am mad that we are bound by societys limits
-i am mad at the fact that most people stereotype you into a certain group of society
-i am mad that school teachers prejudice you which means you end up with lower grades!
-i am mad that some people cant see sense
-i am mad that AFC's mope in self pity and continue to be their AFC self living life in a vicous cycle some never to return
in the material sense im really happy at the moment, i have a steady girlfriend and most of my school work is going well apart from biology, the teacher prejudices me as i am a high social group than most people in my class, im in the popular group and am very extroverted, she presumes this means i have no interest in education although i am very clever. I get moved when people talk to me and my answers get dismissed
on the whole couldnt be happier at the minute
-i am mad at the fact that most people stereotype you into a certain group of society
-i am mad that school teachers prejudice you which means you end up with lower grades!
-i am mad that some people cant see sense
-i am mad that AFC's mope in self pity and continue to be their AFC self living life in a vicous cycle some never to return
in the material sense im really happy at the moment, i have a steady girlfriend and most of my school work is going well apart from biology, the teacher prejudices me as i am a high social group than most people in my class, im in the popular group and am very extroverted, she presumes this means i have no interest in education although i am very clever. I get moved when people talk to me and my answers get dismissed
on the whole couldnt be happier at the minute