legolas
Master Don Juan
yeah anchoring is NLP lingo, but it doesn't have to be. It's mainly a label attached to a huge box of behaviors and actions, and peopla keep throwing stuff there. My whole post is summarized at the bottom. There's no need to argue whether this stuff works or not in genral BECAUSE if it works in one setting it cannot be generalized to all settings. It needs to be tweaked to suit the type of woman you're dealing with. I think everyone should adopt as their standard disclaimer that "This stuff is currently working for me, on this particular woman in this particular context. If it doesn't work for you, I'm not the one to blame."
And for those who attach the label AFC to everything and everyone, do you know what AFC actually means? Remember a DJ is flexible and he does whatever is neccessary to get the girl.
That means the DJ has to decide on three things:
1. What type of girl he's dealing with?
2. Is this girl worth the challenge?
3. Is he willing to do whatever it takes to get the girl. In other words does he WANT to spend the time seducing the girl?
Remember that if at any point the DJ finds the girl too much of a challenge or not really worth the effort he can back out and find himself another one.
A DJ becomes an AFC when he finds himself so much drawn into the game, drawn into the challenge, that it takes up all of his time thinking of strategies and techniques to sedce her, while his life slowly but surely passes by and he is still living the same way he lived 5 years ago. So yes a DJ can do whatever he wants as long as he statys in control of his life. As my friend J.. always says "Everybody's time is important so choose wisely how to use it."
And for those who attach the label AFC to everything and everyone, do you know what AFC actually means? Remember a DJ is flexible and he does whatever is neccessary to get the girl.
That means the DJ has to decide on three things:
1. What type of girl he's dealing with?
2. Is this girl worth the challenge?
3. Is he willing to do whatever it takes to get the girl. In other words does he WANT to spend the time seducing the girl?
Remember that if at any point the DJ finds the girl too much of a challenge or not really worth the effort he can back out and find himself another one.
A DJ becomes an AFC when he finds himself so much drawn into the game, drawn into the challenge, that it takes up all of his time thinking of strategies and techniques to sedce her, while his life slowly but surely passes by and he is still living the same way he lived 5 years ago. So yes a DJ can do whatever he wants as long as he statys in control of his life. As my friend J.. always says "Everybody's time is important so choose wisely how to use it."