Any of you young guys thinking of entering a relationship better read all of Player Supreme's advice if you want that relationship to last.
My AFCness cost me my LTR, frankly, becuase this woman that was supposed to love me had zero respect for me.
Her bytchiness and her understanding that I would put up with it destroyed us. She was so manipulative with this sh*t. Always playing the sweet, nice young girl.
It got to the point that when I did actually call her on her sh*t, that it was too late. She was very good at calling the 'abuse' card. So good, in fact, that I was rendered neutered.
Her mentality got to this point:
"Don't like what I'm saying?" Too bad, if you protest, and even ever so slightly raise your voice, I will call the "Abuse" card.
I have never laid a finger on a woman in my life.
In fact, she would try to tell me what to do, would disrespect me in front of friends and family, and if I got mad, she would bring out the 'abuse' card.
She constantly would accuse me of being 'abusive', when in fact, it was she who was the abuser - she got b*tchier and b*tchier all the time - dripping with sarcasm, pushing my buttons, trying to goad me into anger, so that she could pull out - you guessed it - the 'abuse' card.
The extent that I was an abuser was to call her a f*cking b*tch when she was, indeed, being one. This was out of frustration because of my own wimpiness.
I wouldn't have had to deal with this crap had I been on this site, and it cost me a relationship that I invested YEARS in.
And if you don't listen to Playa's advice - it will only get worse as the relationship progresses. She will try to get away with more and more sh*t until she OWNS you.
She will constantly MAGNIFY your transgressions, however slight they may be, and MINIMISE her own - even if hers are ten times worse. This is how they will get the power - even the nice sweet innocent ones. Guaranteed. This is how they employ this system that feminism has created for them.
It got to the point of being so unbearable, that I had no choice but to launch her (meaning, end the relationship, not physically 'launch' her, although the thought crossed my mind).
I mean, who wants a relationship like that? I have no doubt she loved me, but there was never any real respect on her part, and that is so paramount, and if she is abusive by nature, well, all I can say is - look out.
You will become nothing but an angry, frustrated man and it will take a toll on your entire life if you don't start out having a spine. - and if she plays the abuse card alot, who knows, it could even become a self-fulfilling prophecy, as you will get more and more fed up with her.
The little game got so twisted on her part, that the argument that ended it all was her buying big ticket items without consulting me, and when I got mad and gave her sh*t for it I got a left hook to the face so hard I thought Mike Tyson himself popped me one.
Nope, Playa Supreme ain't wrong on this sh*t, he is so spot on the money, it's scary.
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