Wow, it has been a long time. Well, I'm back after stuggling with approach anxiety. Now I know how most guys don't like to approach girls. It's just seem really hard and the expectationa are sometimes unpredictable. I try to be as outgoing as I can be today. I joke around in class and not cares about what the other students think, I yelled out funny stuff in the hall, at the patio and I tried to talk to as many girls as possible in a genuine way, of course. I'll just type down the approaches I remember.
Basically I was struggling this morning. I talked to the girls I knew and no cold approaches. I found that hanging out with friends make me more outgoing and that probably what pushes me. There was this asian chick i talked to today and i'm telling u, she HOT!! I even got boner while talking to her. I just found out she's 34, i'm pretty shock because she don't look that old. But still, she got really nice body. firm breasts, cute butt and a erotic face. I would totally bang her.So I talked to this chick for nearly half an hour and my afc side really want to walk to her to the student service building. But she told me she know where it is, i'm glad. I don't think i will go sexual with her because she knows my brother and vietnamese people are pretty gossip people. I didn't talk to a girl until 11 am, which is with my friend. geehz, i just wish i can do it with no help. so i told him i just need him to follow me and i'll do the whole work and this is how it went.
approach #38This first one is just warm up set since she is not hot but bangable and i'm wanting to talk to her for first warm up a few hours before that. So here i am, walkingin front of my friend. I take a deep breath and keep walking toward her.
me: hi, i'm just trying to find back my confidence. so please don't hurt me.
hb6: hahah ok
me: so what is ur name.
hb6: lexy, u?
me: greenlake, that looks like a bible u're reading there.
hb6: yea, it's the mormon bible.
my friend is a religious guy so he got all excited we switch to this topic which i should have never go into. there are three things that the pua warn to not talk about. 1) religion, 2) politics, and 3)abortion. he spend more time talking to the girl than me which i don't mind, all i need in thiss conversation was for some confident boost. but the conversation last around 30 min. so it not bad..........for my friend.
approach #39I didn't talk to any girl until nearly 1 pm which was very dissapointing. this time i went with 2 friends of mine. the good things is i walked up to alot of girls and say hi to them but the bad thing is most of them just walk away. i don't blame them, my vibe wasn't good enough and i was being in my head. Because i know i dressed nice today and got some compliment. so it must not be the look. But I did get two nice approaches which made me feels really good for the whole day. let me share them with u.
approach #40So my friend point out this one girl who is an hb7 and she wearing short shorts and a top, nothing else. She was 10 feets away from me but i got to tell u the truth, chasing down a girl is really hard especially with AA. My voice was really low when i approach her, but she was nice.
me: hey, u 're walking too fast, slow down.
hb7: hahah, sorry. i didn't see u.
me: that's ok, what your name?
hb7: liz, u?
me: greenlake, hahah it look like u were walking 150 mph.
hb7: really?
me: i was sweating like crazy too.
hb7: hahah, i'm from new york. we walk fast like that.
me: really? how do u think the weather here?
hb7: it really hot hahahah.
I forgot whati say after this must it didn't last long cause i ran out of things to say. being in my head too much. so i just say nice to meet u and bye.
approach #41the next one was basically the same thing, my friend point out and i chasd her down. but his time the convo last longer, which is good.
me: hey, u're walkingtoo fast.
hb6: hahah i'm sorry.
me: hi, i just saw u and u look so interesting i want go up and talk to u.
hb6:*blush* oh thank you, what's your name?
me: greenlake, i never see u around here.
hb6: really? well, i usually goes here at this time.
me: ohh, so u just come andl eave, right?
hb6: yea
me: you should stay here longer, it's fun here.
hb6: really? why is that?
me: see, i get to meet nice people like u.
hb6: *blush* oh thank you.
me: r u in a rush?
hb6: hahah no, i'm was just planning to go grocery shopping.
me: kool, i like grocery shopping too.
hb6: really?? but i usually buys a lot of junkfoods tho.
me: oh yea, it's really hard to stay away from it. it so tempting.....oreo this side and kool aid on the other.
hb6: hahah yea. i don't live that far from it too. so it kinda hard.
so bacially we talked about foods, her hobby, beach, and the weather. I was late for late so i told her i hope to see her again and ask for her number but she she decided to offer me facebook. i gues i didn't have enough rapport.
approach #42this one was at 7 pm and i was about to leave campus. so i decided to go up and talk to these two girls(hb4 and hb7) before i leave. by this time my confident was pretty high so i didn't struggle with AA much. They were sitting inthe patio and i just walk up to them.
me: hi
hb4: hI! how r u?
me: i'm good, i'm about to leave and i told myself i have to talk to someone before i leave. since u guys look so nice, i pick u guys.
hb4: aww, that's so sweet of u.
well, we just talk about weed, me looking likke the virginia tech gun man they disagree, how i went up them and talk and they think it a good thing, we talk about our name, free cookies in the library and a few more.
hahah, sorry guys, it's getting late and i'm too lazy to type down. but my last approach was the most encouraging, they was nice. i did a few more but they were not worth mentioning. hopefully i can bring u guys more report tomorrow.
