40 y.o. teacher marries 16 y.o. student

[ryannath]

This guy may be pathetic, but he's no pedophile. Ok, he may be one, but just because of this, it does not make him one.

Pedophile means sex with prepubesent children usually under the age of 13. I don't know too many 16 year olds that are prepubesent.

There is technically nothing wrong with being aroused by female that has the shape of a grown woman and that is postpubesent. If you are not aroused by that, then you may just be a homosexual or lying. It is illegal though, so it's not a good idea to act on your desire.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

Moral of the story:
Nothing wrong with getting a hard on when you see a curvy teen ass in skimpy clothes, as long as you aren't actually tapping it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Is this even legal? How is that man not behind bars?

Her parents allowed him to legaly marry her.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

Her parents allowed him to legaly marry her.

What is their motivation in it? Is he rich?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Guys who hit the underaged girls do it for the same reason other guys hit the MILFs - easy pickings. They're preferences both born from a fear of rejection with women from their own peer group.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

This is so funny because less than a year ago there was a multi-page thread with guys advocating for 30 year old guys hooking up with girls as young as 15; marriage wasn't even considered in the equation.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

What is their motivation in it? Is he rich?

Nope, he worked for the school system (he has resigned). The signed the "permission papers" because they felt there was nothing else that they could do.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Guys who hit the underaged girls do it for the same reason other guys hit the MILFs - easy pickings...

I would think that under aged girls would be easier to get than MILFs but you're right, definitely easy pickings.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

Nope, he worked for the school system (he has resigned). The signed the "permission papers" because they felt there was nothing else that they could do.

WTF kind of father lets a 40yo bang his 14yo daughter?

A guy who names her after flatulence.

Some men are not meant to be fathers.

 

[wayword]

The problem is the 40-year old guy is taking advantage of the 16-year old girl’s naïvety. The driving force behind his thinking was not “true love” but because he wants to pound the püssy and meanwhile this girl naively thinks “true love”, because that’s the way these things always work. When it comes to these massive age gaps with a minor, there are two and only two types of guys: evil, predatory guys who just want the piece of ass, and guys with severe maturity problems who cannot deal with women closer—I said closer, not necessarily close—to their age. In fact, I once had a boss who was 40-years old and married to an 18-year old girl, and in retrospect it wasn’t too surprising he was fired and convicted of embezzlement. (And no, anyone, I don’t base my opinion on just that one guy.)

Well, age is mostly cultural.

In other countries they find us LOSERS for marrying washed-up hors in their 30s and 40s! They prefer them young & fresh with NO baggage. And honestly, they're probably right. The more dix a woman has had in her...the worse wife she usually is.

But this guy is taking a HUGE RISK in choosing to MARRY this young Americanized girl.

Ok, so you're going to risk half your net worth on some naive 16-yo? What happens when she turns 20 and suddenly wants to hit da clubs and sample variety-pack kawk? You think that's not going to happen? This is the US, my friend! How can it not???

Ultimately, this guy is screwing himself and is going to end up divorced and half-broke in 5 years...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

WTF kind of father lets a 40yo bang his 14yo daughter?

A guy who names her after flatulence.

Some men are not meant to be fathers.

That's why I said earlier that some people should not become parents. These people did everything from talking to their daughter to talking to their minister to talking to the school board to talking to the man's minister. Why they didn't just move away is beyond me.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

I think they might be some overly religious people who shun responsibility and overly feminine people who are all talk and no action.

Anyone can get a girl pregnant, but it takes a real man, with firm actions and a sense of responsibility to raise a boy into a gent and a girl into a lady.

The problem with the world today is that the masculine part of upbringing is deemed unnecessary and that is why kids are getting in trouble left and right.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Here's another thing to consider, why not make them wait until the girl could legally marry him without needing her parents consent? Why was there such a rush? No, don't tell me; I don't want to know...

 

[Desdinova]

WTF kind of father lets a 40yo bang his 14yo daughter?

A guy who names her after flatulence.

LMAO! I was kinda thinking the same thing.

For a guy who's 40 years old and has a job as a school teacher, he's pretty damn brainless. You'd think he'd know what teenagers are like from being exposed to them for long periods of time. I'll bet any money that he thinks Windy is "different".

And she's just enjoying the attention she's getting from it all. Even teenage girls love drama. Once the relationship becomes stale and she gets older, she'll be looking for a way out. It's the American way.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

Here's another thing to consider, why not make them wait until the girl could legally marry him without needing her parents consent? Why was there such a rush? No, don't tell me; I don't want to know...

I suspect he has not gotten laid in ages, is insecure about his sexual prowess and is turned on by the idea of putting his tool into a girl that could be his daughter. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ephebophilia

I'll bet any money that he thinks Windy is "different".

4 years from now, when he comes home from work early and she is getting busy,
he'll come whining about how women are all the same.

 

[Rata Blanca]

Windy is a brilliant woman. She is not being taken advantage of by some "dirty old man." If their marriage ends in divorce or death she'll win either way: alimony, child support, his assets, his pension, etc. etc. When their relaitonship does end she'll still be young enough to get herself a new man and repeat the cycle. The truth is Windy is getting what most women really want: a family in an economically stable environement. Why would a woman want to "set the world on fire" with her own deeds when she can accomplish much the same thing AND have a family by having the men in her life do it for her?

Women are the real rulers of the world, men just flatter their fragile egos by believing otherwise...

:yes: I'm surprised nobody has quoted this post already.

 

[Skel]

That girls parents should be shot.

 

[FoolsCause]

Regarding the age gap, two of my financial clients were married filing jointly. The wife was about 25 years OLDER, in her 60s, and not even the least bit attractive (and not rich either). Now THAT is truly sick for a 40-yr-old to be getting sexual satisfaction from, but you won't hear about that in the news.

Since it's legal at 16 with parental consent in that state, the main legal question is whether he was having sex with her at age 14-15, which may be the case. Though that is illegal, it's not pedophilia. Also, high school teachers shouldn't be hitting on their students, so he should have been fired.

Ever heard the phrase "sweet sixteen"? It's accepted in most parts of the world. But being gay or a hooker, or sodomy, can get your head chopped off in some muslim nations. Different strokes for different folks. It's a cultural value.

 

[WesCottII]

How could you take a girl seriously, with a name like Windy?

 

[sparky0000]

Well, age is mostly cultural.

In other countries they find us LOSERS for marrying washed-up hors in their 30s and 40s! They prefer them young & fresh with NO baggage. And honestly, they're probably right. The more dix a woman has had in her...the worse wife she usually is.

It isn't a cultural thing. Trust me. TGIFriday's on a Saturday afternoon in Kiev/Kyiv, Ukraine. That place is freaking a joke. The same type of dudes that come on here claiming to want 30 year olds are hanging at that place with their 17 year old dates. Ask ANY expat in Kyiv/Kiev about that. They will all verify what I just typed. Visit that place and you will see just how full of s*** the guys on here are.

American dudes are in major denial. All of them. Sorry, but the girls in the USA are fat, sloppy, immature, spoiled pigs. Avoid all of them. I don't care if they are 16 or 60. Run!! Yeah, go ahead and say that I couldn't get any of them. Go ahead. I don't want them! You can play Super DJ and try to lure some HPV infected 30 year old back to your place. Go ahead and call her a "9". Do what you gotta do. God knows somebody has to take care of those beasts.

Funniest thing is that so many American military and embassy workers I have met agree with me 100%. That is why you see so many of them with non-American wives or girlfriends.