40 y.o. teacher marries 16 y.o. student

[MatureDJ]

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/story?id=3305652&page=1&campaign=rss&source=ESPNHeadlines

The Hagers are trying to figure out how life went off track for their teenage daughter, Windy.

I don't quite understand why American society is so unaccepting of young women marrying mature men. With all the stupid irresponsible behavior of so many young men these days, wouldn't a more mature man be the perfect choice for a young woman (so long as he is not so mature that he might not live long enough to raise the children, which is nowhere near a problem in this case)?

Or would her parents be happier if their little princess would get knocked up by some 16 y.o. - yes, that would really be a good situation for their granchildren.

I am sure that Rollo Tomassi and WyldCougar will have some comments about this. :box:

 

[Obsidian]

when I heard her mother griping out the situation on the radio, I just rolled my eyes: "She could've rocked the world with her amazingly fast track skillz! But now she's thrown her life away!"

You're right. This girl at least understands what being a woman is all about, and she's trying to do what will actually make her happy.

 

[joekerr31]

that dude is f*cked in the head.
a 40 year old being with a 16 year old is f*cked up.

i dont have teh energy to spent an hour explaining why, other than to say it's f*cked.

 

[Latinoman]

A 40 with a 16? Regardless of sexes...I find it pretty pathetic.

 

[Deep Dish]

that dude is f*cked in the head. A 40 year old being with a 16 year old is f*cked up.

I totally agree and if I may try to fill in for your loss of words:

When you’re young, age isn’t “just a number.” There are massive gaps in physical and mental development from ages 10-11, 11-12, 12-13, 14-15, 15-16, and so forth. It’s like pitting the freshman football team up against the senior football team—it’s just no competition. Of course, eventually, once we finishing our biological wirings and become a full-fledged individual, then the field opens up and all ages are fair game.

The problem is the 40-year old guy is taking advantage of the 16-year old girl’s naïvety. The driving force behind his thinking was not “true love” but because he wants to pound the püssy and meanwhile this girl naively thinks “true love”, because that’s the way these things always work. When it comes to these massive age gaps with a minor, there are two and only two types of guys: evil, predatory guys who just want the piece of ass, and guys with severe maturity problems who cannot deal with women closer—I said closer, not necessarily close—to their age. In fact, I once had a boss who was 40-years old and married to an 18-year old girl, and in retrospect it wasn’t too surprising he was fired and convicted of embezzlement. (And no, anyone, I don’t base my opinion on just that one guy.)

Anyone remember the brilliant film Election with Matthew Broderick and Reese Witherspoon? (Broderick: “The line you’ve crossed is... it’s immoral, and it’s illegal.” Harelik: “Jim, come on, I don’t need a lecture on ethics.” “I’m not talking about ethics. I’m talking about morals.” “What’s the difference?”)

This subject actually one of my disfranchisements with this website—it has many men whose sense of morality is vastly different than mine and whose sense is, in my opinion, disgusting and revolting.

 

[joekerr31]

agreed. i think the big issue is that between 16 - 20 is when someone really starts to figure their life out. by no means are they 'mature' by 20, but they have moved from being a child to being a novice adult.

moreover, in our society, its just not natural. there are no social circumstances that promote a 40 year old with a 16 year old.

so for such a thing to occur it screams that something inappropriate has already gone on.

and lets face, i sincerely doubt one day there were talking and she put her hand on his d*ck or something.

99.9% probability that he slowly gained her trust, slowly got her emotionally dependent on him, and then slowly turned things sexual. when a 40 year old does that to a 16 year old, its f*cked up.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

And the parents felt that there was nothing else that they could do about it? I swear, some people really shouldn't procreate.

 

[Luthor Rex]

Windy is a brilliant woman. She is not being taken advantage of by some "dirty old man." If their marriage ends in divorce or death she'll win either way: alimony, child support, his assets, his pension, etc. etc. When their relaitonship does end she'll still be young enough to get herself a new man and repeat the cycle. The truth is Windy is getting what most women really want: a family in an economically stable environement. Why would a woman want to "set the world on fire" with her own deeds when she can accomplish much the same thing AND have a family by having the men in her life do it for her?

Women are the real rulers of the world, men just flatter their fragile egos by believing otherwise...

 

[insidious]

Guys, how can you possibly rationalize this?

First of all, this is the United States, we live in a Western culture and it is illegal to friggin' sex up a 16-yr-old if you're 18 or 40.

I think the dude is pathetic. The maturity level of a 16-yr-old girl is wildly debateable...I don't believe it's there. Maybe some girls are more mature than others, but I don't see a 16-yr-old girl having anything that would interest me in the way of life experiences and maturity. Hell, I know some girls in their mid-20's and even then their maturity is anything but complete.

Young girls are tight, toned and they offer that hotness that vanishes quickly with age, but they are boring if you have any self-respect.

Don't forget, behind your adulation of the pedo-coach, he hooked up with the girl when she was 14. Dude, that is a little girl.

 

[( . )( . )]

Don't forget, behind your adulation of the pedo-coach.

Yeah sure he's a sad AFC that would have zero in common with the chick, but how bout finding out if it's actually children that turn him on or in fact a woman's body that *GASP* 14-16 year old chicks occasionally have before you start parroting the sentiments of a pissed off 40 something single mother.

What a fvckin ridiculous, braindead, force fed statement that was, especially from a man your age.

Turn off the T.V bozo.

 

[insidious]

Yeah sure he's a sad AFC that would have zero in common with the chick, but how bout finding out if it's actually children that turn him on or in fact a woman's body that *GASP* 14-16 year old chicks occasionally have before you start parroting the sentiments of a pissed off 40 something single mother.

What a fvckin ridiculous, braindead, force fed statement that was, especially from a man your age.

Turn off the T.V bozo.

Mmmm, I don't watch TV and I don't recite scripts.

I use public transportation almost daily here in L.A. and I see tons of nubile freshman every day. Some of them have better bodies than women 10 years older. Some of them are even bold flirters...so what? I value my freedom, and take it from someone who has seen life from the other side of those bars, it is precious.

If my semantics offend you, oh well, sorry dude. A pedo is a pedo.

 

[( . )( . )]

If my semantics offend you, oh well, sorry dude. A pedo is a pedo.

BINGO!!

So maybe use your bloody brains next time and find out if he really does have a thing for kids with undeveloped bodies or if he's just another sad loser who clings onto whatever type of reproductively matured female he can get before you start yapping whatever the last episode of the Gilmore girls/Oprah/Dr Phil etc etc TOLD you was a kiddy fiddler hey?

 

[insidious]

BINGO!!

So maybe use your bloody brains next time and find out if he really does have a thing for kids with undeveloped bodies or if he's just another sad loser who clings onto whatever type of reproductively matured female he can get before you start yapping whatever the last episode of the Gilmore girls/Oprah/Dr Phil etc etc TOLD you was a kiddy fiddler hey?

OK, you've stated your case. I think you and I are pretty much on the same page, but I frankly don't care if he is a true pedo or not, the dude is undeniably a dweeb.

I too am offended by the careless manner in which women toss around that "P" word when lashing out without any true awareness of what it really means.

Gilmore Girls???? C'mon, you gotta give me a little more credit than that lol

 

[jesusrules]

thats so f*ckin sick. I seriously just dont understand this dude at all.

 

[( . )( . )]

but I frankly don't care if he is a true pedo or not, the dude is undeniably a dweeb.

Peodiphile(sp)... dweeb, whats the difference right?

I only say with such disgust simply because I myself have often looked at teenage girls and wanted to fvck them. Now I ask you is it right for our current Western society to shame label me as something evil and monstrous if I happened to have more balls than brains and ever fvck one? Or if I was an unknowledgable loser (AFC) and actually go a step further and marry one?

Now I'm not 40 but I cant see myself not getting turned on by the female form at that age.

You should by now have an exceptional understanding of society's false teachings and this type of mentality should have been stripped from you like the cancer it is long ago.

Understand I probably wouldnt have given much of a sh!t if your post came from any number of the teenage drones here who dont know there ass from elbow yet, but unfortunately I glimpsed your age .

 

[Skytzo_Marc]

I teach English in Japan... and there are a hell of a lot of cute high school girls. But I'd never bang any of them. Too immature and too sexually inexperienced. Not my idea of a fun time.

I prefer mid 20s-late 20s and I'm only 24. But there's something attractive about women that are more mature, sexually knowledgeable, and have a better idea of what they want in life.

Besides... up until the mid 20s, people change far too much too quickly. I mean I look at how I've changed since I was 21 and it's like damn.

 

[Themanthatcan]

The Girl: Ignorant.
The 40 year old man: Pathetic.

The whole situation is disturbing.

 

[sparky0000]

Who gives a s***? I think there is more important things going on. I gotta hope that I have a decent bowel movement in the next day or two. Now that is important!

Famous bit from "The Kiev/Kyiv Beet"! One of those jokes that is only funny because of how real it sounds. This is pretty much the sentiments of the expat crowd in Ukraine these days. One day I will write a book about the characters in the expat community in Ukraine. If you boys think you are strange, you should see what I have to deal with when I am there :trouble: ...

Beet Flashback – One Year Ago - Street Poll: 99.6% of Western Guys Think Ukrainian Chicks are “Hot!”
KYIV – In a random poll of 200 American, European and Canadian men between the ages of 23 and 55 living in Ukraine, almost all of them described Ukrainian women as “hot”. “Dude, they are smokin’ and I love ’em’”, said 24-year-old Jason Radcliffe, a Peace Corps volunteer in Kherson, “especially the ones named Natasha!” They really seem to like me for who I am, not because I’m an American or anything.” Likewise, 51-year-old Magnus Swedenson from Goteburg, said, ”Ukraine is the kind of country where a grown man can find an attractive 17-year-old girl to love him unequivocally and not have society give him **** about it.” Of all the participants surveyed only one man (who shall remain nameless) did not recite the virtues of Ukrainian girls. His sexual orientation was not addressed
http://www.geocities.com/thekyivbeet/

 

[DJStrawberry]

Is this even legal? How is that man not behind bars? It is a fvcked up society when a 40 year old guy can bag a 16 year old, but a kid like Genarlo Williams is sitting behind bars for receiving consensual oral sex from a 15 year old chick when he was 17. Unfvcking believable. I want to throw up. Free Genarlo Williams!

 

[ConantheLibertarian]

Dude, shes not even cute.

That just makes it even more pathetic.

Agreed, they actually look a little alike.