35 and a virgin, is it best to give up?

[Gamisch]

No to your terrible ass idea. Isn't the point of this forum to be a man and do the work, and NOT take the easy way out?

You have the wrong arrogance , attitude and sense of humbleness, but others already pointed that out I see.

Terrible idea? What's your " better " plan?

The goal is to become a happy man . You don't look too happy in that picture tho..

Why didn't you had this fire when you was 17/21/25/28/30/32 /34? Why NOW?

Again ,what's your plan?

 

[Anom]

You have the wrong arrogance, attitude and sense of humbleness, but others already pointed that out I see.

Yes, they sure did.

Terrible idea? What's your " better " plan?

It was already laid out for me. Get a better job, cut my hair and facial hair, work out, move so that I live on my own. That's why I'm still here and asking questions about it. Just because someone expresses confusion to something doesn't automatically mean that it's some sort of excuse or them fighting the advice.

The goal is to become a happy man . You don't look too happy in that picture tho..

There's a bit more to a person than one picture.

Why didn't you had this fire when you was 17/21/25/28/30/32 /34? Why NOW?

Didn't I go over most of this? My earlier years weren't easy. I went to very nasty schools. Mind you, I got close, but ended up attracting the wrong girls. I also had some intense manic depression back then.

Again ,what's your plan?

(points to the response of the second quote)

 

[Foe]

no

Get over yourself, you are literally the person standing in the way of your ability to achieve what you want. Gamish had good advise. It takes a deep issue to get to 35 and not be laid once, time you understood the gravity of that situation and stop f'ing around.

The fact you started this thread shows you are willing to put yourself out there for public critique, good first step. Next step get laid, if that sounds daunting (which it should, given your situation) get a hooker to minimise the walls you have built for yourself.

Your moral standing (read arrogance and whitenightery) is not going to assist your outcome. Woman dont give a stuff about your moral quandry or complete lack of life experience. You only get one life, you have wasted the majority of your best f'ing years so get on craigs list now start living. Or go to a swingers party, do something ffs.

Also given your lack of experience be prepared for a complete fail on your first time, sexual disfunction (no erection, premature ejaculation, clumsy action) these are all yours to overcome and to be honest it takes years of good f'ing to get any good at it.

Buy viagra just in case and have it ready for your first crack, it may just be the thing that sets you up for a second round.

 

[Anom]

You only get one, get on craigs list now and start living. Or go to a swingers party, do something ffs.

Ah yes, a hooker. Won't I risk getting a disease? Surprised that wasn't mentioned.

I'm also getting PMs from people mocking the standard posters here and giving me very different advice. What the **** is happening?

 

[Foe]

Ah yes, a hooker. Won't I risk getting a disease?

I'm also getting PMs from people mocking the standard posters here and giving me very different advice. What the **** is happening?

No, the average woman is sleeping with multiple men who are sleeping with multiple woman, do the math. Hookers from what I have been told practice safe sex which is not my experience with western woman. Id roughly guess 7 out of 10 girls I have been with have not given a sh!t about protection and what do you know, Im still disease free.

So this is probably the least of your worries not to mention this is a easy way to experience well above your SMV which frankly I think would be better for your self esteem then hitting your equivalent (if your lucky) or lower (which is likely).

 

[Anom]

This forum is just... amazing. I don't even know why Rule #4 exists. I was hoping to get some tips on meeting a nice girl, which I did, granted. Is this forum just for guys who want to turn on the infinite vag cheat? The forum says go right, the PMs say go left.

My old man talked about flying me and my friends to Vegas, so we could go to the Bunny Ranch. What the **** ever, I'll do it.

 

[Foe]

This forum is just... amazing. I don't even know why Rule #4 exists. I was hoping to get some tips on meeting a nice girl, which I did, granted. Is this forum just for guys who want to turn on the infinite vag cheat? The forum says go right, the PMs say go left.

My old man talked about flying me and my friends to Vegas, so we could go to the Bunny Ranch. What the **** ever, I'll do it.

There we go, good for you. Also let me translate your previous statement for you "I want a girl who will completely overlook my failure to attract and bed the opposite sex". News for you bro, that's not a nice girl, that's a desperate girl and I'm willing to bet that's not what your looking for.

 

[RSDCharlie]

Dude get a hooker. Virginity is a illogical concept. Its not like getting a woman would change anything. Youll still be the same guy. Just get it over with amd focus on other stuff in life.

 

[DonJuanjr]

This is like tge fourth 30+ virging this month lol.

Seeing lots of new accounts that have the same type of vibes to them.... Maybe a coordinated effort?

 

[Anom]

Dude get a hooker. Virginity is a illogical concept. Its not like getting a woman would change anything. Youll still be the same guy. Just get it over with amd focus on other stuff in life.

Theeeeeeeen doesn't that work both ways? How many hookers has everyone else here been with? Also, how much do the craigslist ones charge? Because the Bunny Ranch thing will definitely set me back.

 

[RSDCharlie]

Theeeeeeeen doesn't that work both ways? How many hookers has everyone else here been with? Also, how much do the craigslist ones charge? Because the Bunny Ranch thing will definitely set me back.

I dont understand. Why are you comparing yourself with everyone else here? Its your life. If you think being a virgin makes you a loser, lose your virginity. Bunny ranch thing will set you back? Set you back from what exactly?

 

[Anom]

I dont understand. Why are you comparing yourself with everyone else here? Its your life. If you think being a virgin makes you a loser, lose your virginity.

I'm just asking for the sake of asking.

Bunny ranch thing will set you back? Set you back from what exactly?

I'm talking about money, dude. Flying to Vegas, having spending cash, going to the Bunny Ranch brothel... yeah, all that. I'll probably need even more cash because I'll probably want multiple visits. And I mean multiple visits.

 

[RSDCharlie]

I'm talking about money, dude. Flying to Vegas, having spending cash, going to the Bunny Ranch brothel... yeah, all that. I'll probably even need more cash because I'll probably want multiple visits. And I mean multiple visits.

And you think getting a woman, spending endless nights in the clubs, taking women out on multiple dates in the hope of getting laid, that won't set you back? If money is an issue, first focus on making money. Shave your beard and go get a job.

 

[Gamisch]

This forum is just... amazing. I don't even know why Rule #4 exists. I was hoping to get some tips on meeting a nice girl, which I did, granted. Is this forum just for guys who want to turn on the infinite vag cheat? The forum says go right, the PMs say go left.

My old man talked about flying me and my friends to Vegas, so we could go to the Bunny Ranch. What the **** ever, I'll do it.

Apparently you try to tell us something. What does the dm say that's so much different from the rest of us?

There's a reason why someone is a little ***** and doesn't have the balls to openly comment...i can already geuss who it is! Our gaint p00sy whose also the biggest incel on his 5 years dryspell!! That's like a bum taking financial advice from another bum..

Your decision making skills aren't "top notch " otherwise you wouldn't be where you at today. You better sit back ,listen and do as told.

 

[Foe]

And you think getting a woman, spending endless nights in the clubs, taking women out on multiple dates in the hope of getting laid, that won't set you back? If money is an issue, first focus on making money. Shave your beard and go get a job.

Exactly I have spent WAY more dating then I would have if I spent it on hookers, not to mention multiple long term relationships which cost WAY more as well.

I went on a date recently where I blew 1G, now granted I have the money at the moment so thats not really a issue but if I spent that on a hooker I can guarantee it would have been a SMV 10.

 

[Anom]

Apparently you try to tell us something. What does the dm say that's so much different from the rest of us?

They all say different things. Two of which mention how they are already married. One says pretty much the same thing that was already said but in different words (sort of defeating the purpose). One mocks the forum for being bitter as ****.

There's a reason why someone is a little ***** and doesn't have the balls to openly comment...i can already geuss who it is! Our gaint p00sy whose also the biggest incel on his 5 years dryspell!! That's like a bum taking financial advice from another bum..

Who said I was taking their advice? None of them "seem" to be single. I'm assuming they don't want to start an argument and pollute the thread?

Your decision making skills aren't "top notch " otherwise you wouldn't be where you at today. You better sit back ,listen and do as told.

Sweet Christ, you do NOT hold back.
Seriously, we don't need to keep revisiting the tight-fisted, angry and domineering "god damn it you better listen!!" dialogue. We're already there, the point was made. I wouldn't be even asking about craigslist or speaking about the Bunny Ranch otherwise.

And I have to ask again, WHY is there a swear filter on a forum where people can just circumvent it? Do the very creators of this forum still come here? I see that this forum was made in like 2000/2001.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

As for the "puppy eyes" thing. Are we talking about how I look in general? Or the facial expression I was making.

I'm talking about the only photo I've seen, with your eyebrows tenting over your sad eyes. Maybe, like I said, post a better photo, with good lighting and a neutral expression?

 

[Gamisch]

They all say different things. Two of which mention how they are already married. One says pretty much the same thing that was already said but in different words (sort of defeating the purpose). One mocks the forum for being bitter as ****.


Who said I was taking their advice? None of them "seem" to be single. I'm assuming they don't want to start an argument and pollute the thread?


Sweet Christ, you do NOT hold back.
Seriously, we don't need to keep revisiting the tight-fisted, angry and domineering "god damn it you better listen!!" dialogue. We're already there, the point was made. I wouldn't be even asking about craigslist or speaking about the Bunny Ranch otherwise.

And I have to ask again, WHY is there a swear filter on a forum where people can just circumvent it? Do the very creators of this forum still come here? I see that this forum was made in like 2000/2001.

You are trolling us.

Haha great job! I almost felt like this was real!

 

[Anom]

No, all legit. Stop it.

Gotta love when people dart straight for the "it's a troll" dialogue option.

 

[bat soup]

School was a boiling hot nightmare for me. I never got noticed, while everyone around me did. No matter how good I took care of myself, how charming I was, how funny I was, etc. it was a battle I could never win. Also, I noticed that every time I tried to approach or impress a girl, the universe throws an extremely embarrassing moment at me, like there's a cloud over my head.

Now, the last time I was at this forum, every member here would type like they were ****ing angry teenagers. This was back in 2007/2008. The members here were horrible horrible horrible back then, and so far, it seems to have improved greatly since then. A girl I liked flew over from Canada to see my best friend, and it messed my head up baaaaaaaaaaaad. And no one here cared, no one helped me, no one gave good advice, everyone just threw around bad advice as if it was good advice. It made me angrier and want to stay single forever.

Is it best to just stop eternally and focus on everything else in life? Should I save myself the embarrassment of trying? I'm a pretty creative liar, and I have successfully convinced people that I'm not a virgin. So maybe I could lie for the rest of time? Though I'd love to have sex, I don't seem to crave it as much as everyone else.

I don't know if it will help, but I can post a picture of myself if you guys want, so you can tell me what my chances are.

Doctor Skankypoon prescribes a trip to the Philippines.