Krassus bro, amazing ****ing post. Really man.
I believe you are 100% right, I've never COLD approached that way, but after meeting women, being sincerely genuine, makes a world of difference, and I'm gonna start to try cold approaching that way, though I'm confident that it WILL work.
I think that when you are interested in getting to know a person, behind the persona, behind the social barriers they are FORCED to put up because of AFCs in power (you know, those who term the coins slut, etc), that you can open up an ENTIRELY new world of communication. I enjoy it the most seeing a smile light up the face of a omwan, not because I used some line, but because we are both genuinely interested in EACH OTHER. Sometimes the anticipation of looking into a woman's eyes feels like death, then I realize that life is so short and precious, that to enjoy every second and make connections with all types of people is the best way to succeed. That's why I don't believe in sexism, racism, etc, because only fools would possibly limit themselves from meeting people.
I think you guys should realize (I'm sure people like skip and krassus already have) that every single woman you meet is unique. She has her own positives and her own flaws. Isn't that ****ing great guys? That means no matter how many times youc old approach, no matter how many women you meet, there's always another secret, another quirk about someone else to laugh about and ENJOY. I think the message that DJs need to shut down their emotions and be cool and calm all the time is bull****. Happiness, sadness, pain, are all just metaphors of a sort. They are used to let you know that you are alive, and emotion is the conveyor of this message. When you are 100% honest with a woman and you can say, "Hey, I'm not sure what exactly to say, but you are fantastically beautiful and I couldn't miss a chance to meet you", and you are speaking honestly (and let's face it guys, half of us think this way but shut it down because its "afc", which is bull****), the woman will appreciate and reciprocate this feeling.
See what AFCs don't realize is that they have been going about it the wrong way. The nervousness, fear, etc, are all tehre because they KNOW they aren't being honest, they aren't looking to have a connection, they are looking for a girlfriend, or to get laid, or a **** buddy, and that's not what being social is about. Meeting women should be a love, it should be a passion. And the woman should FEEL your passion when you are speaking and communicating, because she should know that you are interested in HER as a person, not to get laid. And why AREN'T you guys interested in her as a person? You are worse than the "AFCs" you try not to be, conning women and tricking them into bed so you can validate yourselves and be more manly. Its a privelege to get to know a woman, to know her inner secrets, her embarassing moments, what makes her laugh, cry, smile and angry. That means she TRUSTS you enough to let you into her world, something that not every guy gets to see, and then you guys want to go and **** it up with your pick up artist techniques and tricks to exploit her weakness.
The OP is right, it's about passion, its about being GENUINE, and its about honesty.
Krassus man, I also wanna join your site as well and if you don't mind either in a PM or even here, what's some of your philosphies you enjoy?
I get distracted alot but some of my favorites are people like Confucius, Thomas paine, a bit of lao tzu (I didn't get a chance to really get into him), and a few others.
Again krassus triple A post, read this people.