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[Aristippus]

"The type of mindset is so so different than most of the other stuff out there where a guy is on the girls timetable and trying to pass her tests, it's just the opposite with SCREENING "

I think this problem can happen on both ends of the spectrum. The ladies man can be just as much of a wimp as the doormat who is getting no action. Tolerating disrespectful and rude behavior, not being willing to walk away, and not screening are all symptoms of a weak attitude.

Screening, or weeding out women who don't match the criteria or standards you choose while accepting only the ones that are what you're looking for, is definitely what more men should be doing. I've seen men who could get a lot of women take way too much garbage and disrespect from their women and just stay there and take it without standing up for themselves. To the guy that isn't getting a lot of action, he might appear successful but to me he isn't. He's just as approval-seeking and weak-minded as the guy who gets no action.

In the end it's up to each of us to decide what we're screening for. And to do so using the criteria that we choose......... I'm definitely a big believer in screening women, based on your own criteria. NOT the criteria that other people think you should be screening for. This means if you have certain behavioral standards for women, you stick by those standards. If you have a particular preference for a particular body type, you stick by it regardless of what other people think. If you're only looking for women who will have sex right away, the moment you meet her, and choose to pass up ones who might want sex but choose to wait after a few dates, you screen for those. It reminds me a little bit of the choose your own adventure books they used to make when I was a kid.

 

[cordoncordon]

I have avoided the two threads on here about this subject, but because they don't seem to be going away anytime soon, I'll throw in my 2 cents.

First, GLL I have read some of the criticisms and many have gone way overboard. Do you what you gotta do man. You seem to have the confidence and the game to put yourself out there, so best of luck scoring with the chickies.

Personally, going up to a girl and grabbing her hand while talking to her in the middle of the day in front of a store is not something I would ever do. It gives off a very creepy/stalker/pedo vibe and the ambiance is just all wrong for that sort of thing. Do that at night, in the middle of a club after a few adult beverages? Ok. Bar? Ok. But I would think 95 times out of a 100 if you do that in the middle of the day? You are going to get not only rejected, but rejected hard.

Which leads me to another point. Now, I am not saying these videos are staged or not staged. I would lead towards staged if you pinned me down though. Reason being, you are obviously, in some way or another-either through private teachings or advertising on your site or requiring membership for your website in the future, trying to promote yourself and your website via these videos. You are trying to make a buck in other words. Nothing wrong with that. But being a long time stock daytrader, and seeing all of the tricks in the book as far as companies running promo's to 'sell' their stock or product to potential customers, I am fairly certain you are not going to all this effort just out of the goodness of your heart. And there is nothing wrong with that. Man has to make a buck. The video where you meet the 18 year old? To me, looked fake. I find it very hard to believe a girl is just going to stand there with you and never look back and wonder why this guy is standing a few feet away from you the entire time, whether he was directly looking at you both or not. I haven't looked at the other videos enough to pass a judgement on them, but I would think the same holds true for those as well.

Either way though, you do offer some really good tips and advice, so people can learn from them. And I applaud your laid back attitude in dealing with the haters. Keep it up.

And being from S Cal myself (lived in Santa Monica on 3rd, Marina Del Rey, and currently Pasadena), I can 100% affirm what you have said about the quality of girls in the area. Top notch. And Vegas weekends, when all the top chickies head there from LA, are even better.

 

[Fatal Jay]

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That's why I called it out being fake, just grabbing a chick like that is suspect, most women don't play that, I don't care if you looked like brad Pitt, only way it would work everytime is if you was brad Pitt.

 

[good looking loser]

I have avoided the two threads on here about this subject, but because they don't seem to be going away anytime soon, I'll throw in my 2 cents.

First, GLL I have read some of the criticisms and many have gone way overboard. Do you what you gotta do man. You seem to have the confidence and the game to put yourself out there, so best of luck scoring with the chickies.

Personally, going up to a girl and grabbing her hand while talking to her in the middle of the day in front of a store is not something I would ever do. It gives off a very creepy/stalker/pedo vibe and the ambiance is just all wrong for that sort of thing. Do that at night, in the middle of a club after a few adult beverages? Ok. Bar? Ok. But I would think 95 times out of a 100 if you do that in the middle of the day? You are going to get not only rejected, but rejected hard.

Which leads me to another point. Now, I am not saying these videos are staged or not staged. I would lead towards staged if you pinned me down though. Reason being, you are obviously, in some way or another-either through private teachings or advertising on your site or requiring membership for your website in the future, trying to promote yourself and your website via these videos. You are trying to make a buck in other words. Nothing wrong with that. But being a long time stock daytrader, and seeing all of the tricks in the book as far as companies running promo's to 'sell' their stock or product to potential customers, I am fairly certain you are not going to all this effort just out of the goodness of your heart. And there is nothing wrong with that. Man has to make a buck. The video where you meet the 18 year old? To me, looked fake. I find it very hard to believe a girl is just going to stand there with you and never look back and wonder why this guy is standing a few feet away from you the entire time, whether he was directly looking at you both or not. I haven't looked at the other videos enough to pass a judgement on them, but I would think the same holds true for those as well.

Either way though, you do offer some really good tips and advice, so people can learn from them. And I applaud your laid back attitude in dealing with the haters. Keep it up.

And being from S Cal myself (lived in Santa Monica on 3rd, Marina Del Rey, and currently Pasadena), I can 100% affirm what you have said about the quality of girls in the area. Top notch. And Vegas weekends, when all the top chickies head there from LA, are even better.

I never plan to charge ANYONE for ANYTHING on my website-
http://goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=9.0

I made the official announcement several months ago. I do get commissions on products I recommend, that the only the blog makes money. Nothing I recommend is anything I don't personally use and have at least 8months of experience with. If that is unethical, than I'm unethical. Yeah I want people to visit my website, now that means I that I can't do this stuff??

Lets put it this way- I don't blame people for being skeptical of anything in this "industry" the majority of the industry "community" is internet marketer that can't get pus$y. I've seen it up close and personally-
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/04/09/pua-scam/

I'm part of several otherwise 'bullsh1t' industries, including male enhancement, the worst of them all. Everything I say about that is from my personal experience and I'm willing to put my face on it.

If people can't see the difference, literally SEE the difference, between me and than "them," there's not a whole lot I can do. I don't quite look like a "community PUA" if you know what I'm saying, not to be rude.

Years ago, I wasn't running running this aggressive stuff, everything required a whole of super smooth verbal, routines, carefully timed body language, etc. Turns out, it's bull****, when girls dig you, they dig you. If you lead, they'll follow. It doesn't matter if you backturn at the right time. All this stuff is possible, you just have to do it.

My friend Scotty does way more dynamic and faster sh1t than I and there's an entire level beyond what you see in these approaches. Pulling girls into bathroom in 2minutes at clubs. Getting head in his car in under 10minutes DURING THE DAY. I swear on my life and my Brother's grave. Perhaps that's unnecessary, but I'm totally wiling to stand behind ANYTHING that I do.

He'll grab girls right in the street in board daylight in Manhattan after just making eye contact with them... just ****in grab them after locking eyes and smiling. if you saw this sh1t you'd think my videos are soft. Hand holding (screening) aka physical flirting... I do that on basically every interaction to screen the girl (ive talked about this for 10months now) is hardly OMG OMG OMG. and guess what??? its creepy to some girls, its money on other girls... just like ANY aggressive technique.

the girl stays - shes probably mine
the girls leaves- next up

lets consider this though, just food for thought-
If you went to the grocery store and tried 100 times to put a girl on your lap, would it work???? YES.

who would it work on?? probably the 1st chick that liked you.

If you went the grocery store and and didn't try to put a chicks on your lap, would it work??? NO. never.

If you grabbed 100girls hands 5-10seconds after initiating contact with them,, would it work even 1 time????? YES YES YES YES. would you look like a creep sometimes??? YES YES YES YES

since May ive been telling people to be creeps
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/05/11/be-a-creep/
the reason guys dont get laid is because they care what people who dont get laid think.

im not offended by your post, and im not trying to change your mind, just consider what I said on the "would this work thing"... I will never claim that this "works" every time.. I'm one of very few that actually acknowledges the numbers game, that was my problem for the first 2 years of doing this... every girl, ever time.. if you dont get her... you did something wrong.

you probably know what im saying on that issue

 

[zekko]

Since when did you get so serious? Did you see the smiley?

I've actually said the very same thing about him in another thread. I'm just having a little fun.

I knew you were kidding, Smasher.
I included a smiley, too

Although I was serious when I said tall, ripped men are obviously physically attractive to women.

 

[yyyy1313]

I like the videos. One thing I noticed is you don't seem super smooth. You just have this confidence and aggression that seems to work on these beautiful chicks. It's really good to know that once I get in better shape and just be a little more sociable then I am now, I'm going to be quite successful as long as I push for it. Thanks a lot for the video, I for one think it's legit!

 

[good looking loser]

I like the videos. One thing I noticed is you don't seem super smooth. You just have this confidence and aggression that seems to work on these beautiful chicks. It's really good to know that once I get in better shape and just be a little more sociable then I am now, I'm going to be quite successful as long as I push for it. Thanks a lot for the video, I for one think it's legit!

thanks y13^3
yeah thats the thing-- you dont have to be smooth, just aggressive. there's no entirely smooth way to try and take a girl to your car in 5min. the guys that get laid the most are naturals that just get drunk and hit on girls, they aren't smooth most of the time... and it doesn't matter. these would be a lot smoother if we staged them, I probably wouldnt ask be asking the same questions several times.. the thing that keeps me from just standing there talking is-- not that my gameplan. i used to rely on verbal and get absolutely nowhere

I appreciate your feedback.