10 Reasons Why I'll Never Date A Short Guy

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Someone asked me the other day if I'd ever be willing to date a short guy. I'm a tall girl, so for me "short" is anyone under 6'0. If you're a cute short guy, have no fear, a lot of girls are into it. Most tall girls aren't though... so your chances of dating a model are really slim.

Here are ten reasons why I'll never date a short guy again



My ex, who was on the shorter side, once said something like, "I'm sure you'll leave me for a tall dude." Why so insecure though? He also lost his **** on me when I spoke to a tall guy at his work. That was the only time he ever threw a fit of jealousy and it happened to be with a tall guy. Coincidence? I think not.

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While it's fun mouth-fvcking midgets, I prefer the woman has to kneel before me to svck my little red rooster.
 

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Yes another woman allowed a platform to spew self-indulgent inanities that likely will not bare children or have any long-lasting relationship with a man. In a sense, worthless.

Who cares what some classless tall woman has to say. She is allowed to have her preference, but her bad feelings about short men should be kept within.
 
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Women always say that about wearing heels but 99.9% of women you see in public are wearing somewhere between very low and zero heels. I don't get it.
 

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It would be great to know what her exact height is. She only says that 6'0"+ is her acceptable range. This makes me think she's somewhere in the 5'9"-5'11" range.

I don't think most men are upset when women on the taller side want to date men on the taller side. I think when men get pissed off is when women who are 5'6" or shorter start to demand 6'0"+ men.

I'm in a difficult spot. I'm 5'10" and I think the most attractive women are on the taller side (5'7"+) with either slender or athletic physiques. 5'7"-5'8" is about the max height where I can have some success. Even 5'7"-5'8" women need to be somewhat open minded to date me. 5'9"-5'10" women need to be even more open minded. 5'11"+ for me is likely a losing proposition from an effort standpoint.

Women always say that about wearing heels but 99.9% of women you see in public are wearing somewhere between very low and zero heels. I don't get it.
Women want that option of heels. They are considering some of the fancy nights out. They are thinking about going to events such as this one.....


It's not just high heels either. There are plenty of women who wear platform shoes that can increase their height as well.

This is about a woman's public image.

I wouldn't put the number at 99.9% of women you see in public, but I would put the number above 90%.
 

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It would be great to know what her exact height is. She only says that 6'0"+ is her acceptable range. This makes me think she's somewhere in the 5'9"-5'11" range.

I don't think most men are upset when women on the taller side want to date men on the taller side. I think when men get pissed off is when women who are 5'6" or shorter start to demand 6'0"+ men.

I'm in a difficult spot. I'm 5'10" and I think the most attractive women are on the taller side (5'7"+) with either slender or athletic physiques. 5'7"-5'8" is about the max height where I can have some success. Even 5'7"-5'8" women need to be somewhat open minded to date me. 5'9"-5'10" women need to be even more open minded. 5'11"+ for me is likely a losing proposition from an effort standpoint.
The guy I know with the most lay count is like 5ft 7. My other friend with a high count is 5ft 10. Last, the biggest incel I know that sucks with women is 6ft 2. Does height matter? Yes, but is it bad enough to blame your dating pitfalls on.....NO LOL
 

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This woman can like whatever she likes, but she has some insecurities.

Everytime a woman tells me she likes talks guys, I tell her I like big t!ts. I'd never date a girl with A cups.

My ex-wife was 5'11" with amazing legs. I was 1" shorter. Never bothered her nor me, but we are both secure individuals.

If height concerns are rooted in something other than what's attractive to you then you have insecurities.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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Yes another woman allowed a platform to spew self-indulgent inanities that likely will not bare children or have any long-lasting relationship with a man. In a sense, worthless.

Who cares what some classless tall woman has to say. She is allowed to have her preference, but her bad feelings about short men should be kept within.
Non political, but this is why I love President Trump. The way he wouldn't let cute women (reporters) push him around. When he told them off everyone freaked out. If everyone had his attitude towards attractive women and their BS they spout they'd change real quick.
 

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The guy I know with the most lay count is like 5ft 7. My other friend with a high count is 5ft 10. Last, the biggest incel I know that sucks with women is 6ft 2. Does height matter? Yes, but is it bad enough to blame your dating pitfalls on.....NO LOL
Do these short friends use OLD?
 

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Non political, but this is why I love President Trump. The way he wouldn't let cute women (reporters) push him around. When he told them off everyone freaked out. If everyone had his attitude towards attractive women and their BS they spout they'd change real quick.
But I thought we were supposed to slave and grind for 15 years to be the "best" versions of ourselves instead..
 

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One of my friends is notably shorter than his gf yet she just moved in with him after a year long relationship.

Somebody needs to explain this.
 

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Everytime a woman tells me she likes talks guys, I tell her I like big t!ts. I'd never date a girl with A cups.
This is different. A woman can easily get breast augmentation surgery, a man can’t easily get height increase surgery.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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If everyone had his attitude towards attractive women and their BS they spout they'd change real quick.
Well, pre-Sexual Revolution, female anti-social behavior was kept in check moderately well.
 

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This is different. A woman can easily get breast augmentation surgery, a man can’t easily get height increase surgery.
Nah, don't make it more complex than it is. Deal with what's in front of you, because that's what matters. It's what is attractive to the other. If one makes a big deal out of height, the other can make a big deal out of breast size.
If she can discredit me for lack of height, I can discredit her for lack of breasts. Real simple. Next. Try it sometime, it takes them off their high horse real quick.

Ive done it on a date before. Chic complained I wasn't as tall as she thought. I was same height I listed on my OLD profile. I looked at her breasts and said hmm yeah you must of had some amazing push up bra in your pics. She quickly came to her senses. That's why it's the same thing. ;-)
 

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One of my friends is notably shorter than his gf yet she just moved in with him after a year long relationship.

Somebody needs to explain this.

He probably provided her with a unique experience or shared memories. Thus she bonded emotionally with him.
 

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It would be great to know what her exact height is. She only says that 6'0"+ is her acceptable range. This makes me think she's somewhere in the 5'9"-5'11" range.

I don't think most men are upset when women on the taller side want to date men on the taller side. I think when men get pissed off is when women who are 5'6" or shorter start to demand 6'0"+ men.

I'm in a difficult spot. I'm 5'10" and I think the most attractive women are on the taller side (5'7"+) with either slender or athletic physiques. 5'7"-5'8" is about the max height where I can have some success. Even 5'7"-5'8" women need to be somewhat open minded to date me. 5'9"-5'10" women need to be even more open minded. 5'11"+ for me is likely a losing proposition from an effort standpoint.



Women want that option of heels. They are considering some of the fancy nights out. They are thinking about going to events such as this one.....


It's not just high heels either. There are plenty of women who wear platform shoes that can increase their height as well.

This is about a woman's public image.

I wouldn't put the number at 99.9% of women you see in public, but I would put the number above 90%.
I think that in order for a woman to be invested and pursue, the man needs to have the higher SMV. And a big component of the man's SMV is height.

So therefore, the bigger the height gap in your advantage, the more leeway you would have for your mistakes or underdevelopment of other areas.

Three years ago, I was at the beginning stages of an LTR with a woman my height (5'11"). But due to some work related stress and other issues, she broke off with me. While height wasn't the main issue, It definitely is a factor when a woman decides whether she wants to be with you or not.

I also went on a date with a woman that was 6'2'' a few months ago, out of curiosity (I am 5'11''). And even though we had a great date and we knew each other's heights beforehand, she ghosted afterwards (She did mention that she was looking for 6'5''+). So height is a pretty big deal in a woman's eyes.
 
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I think that in order for a woman to be invested and pursue, the man needs to have the higher SMV. And a big component of the man's SMV is height.

So therefore, the bigger the height gap in your advantage, the more leeway you would have for your mistakes or underdevelopment of other areas.
Studies show for every inch a man is shorter than 6’0, he has to make an extra $3,298 A MIONTH to be as desirable.

So, if a man is

5’11 -> $3,298 more per month
5’10 -> $6,596 more per month
5’9 -> $9,894 more per month
5’8 -> $13,192 more per month
5’7 -> $16,490 more per month
5’6 -> $19,789 more per month

Hope the men under 6’0 are getting paid.

Three years ago, I was at the beginning stages of an LTR with a woman my height (5'11"). But due to some work related stress and other issues, she broke off with me. While height wasn't the main issue, It definitely is a factor when a woman decides whether she wants to be with you or not.

I also went on a date with a woman that was 6'2'' a few months ago, out of curiosity (I am 5'11''). And even though we had a great date and we knew each other's heights beforehand, she ghosted afterwards (She did mention that she was looking for 6'5''+). So height is a pretty big deal in a woman's eyes.
I agree, it’s a huge huge factor,

Not sure how the men on Sosuave get women without being at least 6’0. Along with the media and the powers that be who have trained women to treat men under 6’0 as garbage, it’s in their DNA to want tall men. Can’t negotiate attraction.
 
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