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thx kailex. always kicking my ass...its what i needed lol =)

good points...i just got lazy and not replying could only fuel the fire. ignoring the first text was ok but after it became customized i was just being a ****. she ended up contacting me on gchat and instead of chatting there i hit her up by phone (20 min ago) Phone summary: i basically...

so ive been dating this chick for a couple weeks, ive got some other plates but me n her started with a long history of friends so shes more then just a thing... anyways, ive had to re-evaluate my attachment to her so i decided on wed that i would be more busy.... she went on a flight to...

clearly you don't listen to advice....so keep it up exactly as your doing bro! These texts make me cringe!

thx guys. i definitely feel the need to pull (as opposed to pushing) back for awhile as we have been together frequently. there are some other girls I put on hold that I can do things with as well... i think the issue I'm having is I was always the prize in my previous thing, and this girl...

Hey guys, This girl i've known for a long time in college has had a bf. They broke up recently but still our "in a relationship" on facebook...idk...Anyways...I am recently single as well and we both "found out" at the bars that we both had crushes on each other like this whole year...

we are both 22. I appreciate the viewpoints guys, I ended up having a good night with some old friends of mine I hadn't seen in awhile. I do agree building your life and adding her on top is the right approach. =)

i think this situation is a little unique too because she asked me what i was doing on a tuesday of all days so i had no time to make plans except the sat concert and a wakeboard outing saturday morning. (me making more excuses =P)

thx for the replies guys. I basically took it as look I love being around you, you make all my events fun, etc, but as a reminder for myself not to get too comfortable.. Not to justify our hanging out for 3 days straight but we dont see each other at all during the week, and as our summer...

I'm having my monthly AFC moment...I'm just going to apply more C&F as I always do with a hint of seriousness and see if she reveals any more of her own feelings.

Context: my girlfriend on tuesday asked me to attend a saturday event which i had already planned to take her to a concert, so she moved the event to friday, then she asked if i was doing anything on sunday to see if i wanted to go to a movie. (this is unusual for her and I was wondering why...

A good attitude like that will do you wonders. Keep it up!

LOL. I guess I should have defined my relationship - we are "dating" and have been for a couple months. This was in the beginning when she wasn't sure what we were. Its still pretty ambiguous now but we are more public about our interests in each other. If she was to get her mouth full and...

You invested time in this post, and you already addressed most of the typical spin more plates replies. One thing you should remember is that if you fill your time with other activities you won't have time to dwell on this chick. Step 1: Don't let yourself see her with this guy. I don't...

From what I'm getting, there is no point of nexting 'till you've measured her interest in you. So...just wait until you see her around again, chat it up and see if it will go further. You remind me of me in the fact that I over analyze everything and need advice when the solution is usually...

thats awesome...i didnt think of adding a point goal haha...

As an attempt at C&F or w/e you want to call it, I usually do a point system with girls. Basically, if they something I don't like I say minus points, or if they say something I do like thats 5 points or w/e. It might be interpreted by you guys as dorky but it really freaks the girls out...

Kailex: That was the kick in the pants I needed. (To defend myself, I do have some plates spinning up here at college, but they have def taking a lesser priority to this chick...and in retrospect she isn't worth it anyways haha...shes just a little infatuated with me so I was going to take...

haha...well...is the real question then if the hotel + dinner + drinks + gas is worth it???

So a little background: girl came 250 miles with her girl friend to visit me at college (she came from my hometown, havent hung out with her in years). I hooked up with her, and her friend is really into my roomate. Anyways, shes been texting me non stop and keeps asking me if I visit...