Point system with women??

[konig87]

As an attempt at C&F or w/e you want to call it, I usually do a point system with girls.

Basically, if they something I don't like I say minus points, or if they say something I do like thats 5 points or w/e. It might be interpreted by you guys as dorky but it really freaks the girls out when I tell them they have not met my standards and its a little more clear when I'm telling them that they lost points c&f.

Example:

You don't like spicy food?? *I shake my head* minus points...

They usually get defensive and say they like it kind of spicy or blah blah blah.

And sometimes when I feel I need to give them a little, if they tell me they like a classic rock band or something I'll be like you just gained 5 points.

They usually get excited or jokingly try to reciprocate the game on me, to which I play it off pretty well, cuz I invented this game with them remember?

I feel like this is a decent little game to play with them because it shows that I am the interviewer, and that only I am allowed to award or subtract points from them. It makes them wan't to find out what they can do to gain those points back haha..

Anyone have similar c&f type games??

 

[catman]

This isnt something new there are many many books written about this but yes it does work provided she didnt read one of those books

 

[pipe007]

I tried this with my current gf of 8 months.
our interactions the first couple months were based on a point system since she would always joke around wanting to be my manager. (I sing and play guitar on my own) so she says someday she would be my manager. This happened around the time when we were just getting to know each other.

anyways I told her that being my manager was close to imposible, unless she earned enough points in a point system scale of 100. she had to earn 100 points if she wanted me to consider her my manager (implying, my girlfriend)

so I would proceed to add some points whenever she did something nice for me, I would give her 5 to 10 maybe 1 or 2 points...

If she did something wrong, bad, something I didn't like, I would take away points as I pleased.

this frustrated her, and she was always talking about doing something to earn more points, and she wanted them badly, she would say that she always gets what she wants and one day she would get all 100 points. and it was a fun game.... this lil game really built her interest level and helped me to form a connection with her. she got close to 95 points.... then I took away 30 points for something I didn't like, and the game kept going... its good stuff

so I would deff use it with a new girl.
recommended.

 

[konig87]

thats awesome...i didnt think of adding a point goal haha...