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Hey guys, got a bit of a conundrum resulting from a stupid oversight on my part while spinning plates. Amateur mistake, because I thought with the wrong head. Been dating Plate A for 8 months. I find her cute, really like her personality, but not super attracted to her body. 125 pounds at 5ft...

Trust me guys I brushed right before and had gum... Definitely not bad breath. Yeah I think you guys hit on the head with her thinking kissing is more intimate than sex. I don't know on what planet this is the case, but not gonna argue with chick logic lol.

Thanks for the replies guys. I had not kissed her before. We had flirted before but this was new territory. Yeah I think I'm gonna go strongly sexual in my texts to try to meetup with her again rather than go the relationship/comfort route in my texts. I tried sending her some cute pictures of...

Hey all, could use some perspective on this situation. Known a girl for four years, she's a game player for sure. Last night she came home with me from her birthday celebration and started acting cold, wouldn't kiss or make out with me. So I turned away from her, then later in the night she...

This turns me off too. They spend so much time on their legs, I don't understand why they can do arms while they're at it... Lately, this one I'm seeing has a good amount of hair down under, and it's wigging me out. This stuff kinda adds up, and then you just don't feel happy even right after...

Bible_Belt, could you please explain why you think this is bullsh!t? What the OP said about that dual personality is so true. I remember my BPD ex would act really sweet to me when we first started dating, then I read her gmail transcripts that was open in front of me on my computer and found...

I've also encountered this in the form of "Shut up. You don't know what you're talking about." I understand that people get stressed out, but I don't snap at anyone this way, and certainly don't want my girlfriends saying things like this. In that particular case, the disrespect was just too...

hey applegoo, I just sent you a PM. This sounds shockingly similar to what I'm experiencing, and I'd like to get your take on it.

C-quenced, thanks for the well thought out reply. Much appreciated. You're right that I've let her anchor herself to me. I see what everyone is saying here, and I will try to start looking for other plates again. However, I do believe that she would not cheat on me and that her slutty days are...

Thanks for the responses guys. Nice to know I'm not alone in this. I will try to get my girlfriend to go very gentle on it and slowly and see if that makes a difference. Perhaps if we make this an experiment and learning opportunity it could work...

Hey guys, as far as I can tell from talking with my friends and what I read on here, I'm the only guy on earth who doesn't really care for BJs. I have not gotten off even once with a BJ, but every girl that has given me one has gotten pretty frustrated because I go from hard to soft pretty...

She claims there is no comparison, I blow them all out of the water. The thing is I'm not purposely doing anything to make her insecure, so I don't believe she has to engage in jealousy making. It kinda comes up out of the blue when she feels guilty it seems. One thing I forgot to mention is...

I honestly don't believe she'll cheat. She's told me that she would never do that to me. It was only because those guys cheated first. She has this annoying habit of being friends with her -exes, and she knew it bothered me. She went into her facebook and removed every -ex, all of their friends...

To be perfectly honest, she's the best I've been able to do. I realize that this is my fault because I don't have better game enough to secure an equal or hotter chick with less baggage. I've managed to have a one night stand with a hotter girl (educated, good family, fun, interesting) once, but...

Agreed, I am dumbfounded that she told me this stuff. Then every time she says certain things, it again makes me angry: "Why can't you get off when I give you *******s? I give good *******s!" The implication is that she's given a lot of *******s- bothers me "Don't worry, my vagina is not...

Thanks for the replies everyone. Zarky, agreed, I haven't told her about the stuff I've done and I never will. She's basically asking me to marry her every time we hangout, so it's not that she doesn't see me as a long term prospect. I think she partly wants me to absolve her of her sins...

Hi all, I know there have been threads in the past on what's acceptable in a woman's past and what's not, but wanted to throw this one out there. Been dating a girl for about 5 months now, and she's great (HB 8, 29 years old). The one thing that bugs me is that she has had more experience then...

I have to second that, Colossus great post. It's the truth. Not easy to take these steps but it must be done. I'm struggling with exactly the same things.

Awesome Back to the Future reference vatoloco haha. You never know when that flyer will come in handy...

Those are good points Iceberg. Yeah I mean at some point I'm going to need some better feedback from her, or I will get bored and discouraged and stop talking to her. I figure I'd concentrate on one thing at a time, atleast a good first makeout to begin with. Once she's fully attracted I'm...