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My 2 cents worth... It was an attempt by her to get you to become "friends". Curiosity gets the better of you and you check out her profile. Boom... NEW man on the scene... You didn't accept the invite so she bailed out mid way through the plan... Saving face as said above. Ignore and Ignore...

Who cares what they think, They're women. The idea of original thought is beyond most of them. If you're happy great, if not improve on where/who you are..

First of all, 1 month is not a long time in any scenario. You are obviously caught up on the last relationship and having sex with this new girl brought it home that the previous relationship has run its course. Nothing wrong with shedding a tear for a lost relationship (if it meant something...

You dont need it. I agree with Buddha_Mind on this one, I deleted my face book account last week and i'm definitely not missing anything. Stupid *****es posting what they think and feel for everyone to see every 5 minutes, online tests, retarded groups and too much information available to...

The Fundamental reason is...... Because we let them.

Jees, you don't want her now, pass her over. You can have sloppy seconds

Very true, DK should read the ANTIDump posts in the Bible. They really helped me out.

She kissed you then pushed you away giving reasons why she couldn't be with you. BullSh1t, she wants you to chase her and when you do she acts up. Just back off and see the results it has, my guess is she will come back looking for more.

KiddEnvy, I was in the same position last week. I cut all contact and suddenly she was back texting. Be very careful with how you proceed. She has lost a source of attention and just wants that attention back. IM me if you need advice.

ACTIONS NOT WORDS, best filter there is! Focus on what she does not on what she says and all becomes clear. I had to learn that the hard way

Hey guys, Update I just contacted this girl to confirm the date and she has been flooded. I know that this is the truth as i read in a national paper that her town has been seriously affected in recent days and we had been talking earlier in the week about how bad it was near her. I realise...

Ps DONS THE MAN:up:

Input Guys Thanks for all your input. Not too sure about whether this date will go ahead. My gut feeling is that she will show up but it will be her trying to control the frame. This won't happen. Since we are quite a distance apart we both have to travel half way to meet. I think though...

Cautious, Either way this is going to be interesting. My first reaction when she text was she was bored and just looking for a toy to pass the night so i just tested her out with the coffee scenario and limited my responses. Have to admit i was surprised when she came back with a time and...

Cautious Jophil28, You are definitely right, i have to be very cautious with this one, and judge actions not words.

Update, Well Guys Just wanted to update this thread, as there have been some developments. She actually initiated contact again.. Last night i got a text from a number that wasn't in my phone book. I kept the replies pretty short and to the point. This phased her i think. She started joking...

Hey Guy's Just a quick update. She didn't get in contact again, another one off the list. On the other hand i got a date with an even nicer woman this saturday so its all good. Life is so much better when you got plates ha ha

Dude your out. i've read all the posts and to be honest with my limited experience i think she wants you out. You have no job, living with her and not sure about marriage, and she lays down the law about marriage and Kids. Definitely think she want you to runaway!! Just my two cents worth.

No Contact SodBuster, We never had a phone conversation, all contact was either over mail or text. She contacted me first by mail and gave me her number there. I text her and we carried on the conversation from there. Days later i contacted her again. DonS, No problems with me...

You speak the truth!! thanks for the feedback, it's appreciated.