Trader said:
Let's talk about daily interactions with women. Why are men afraid to disagree with women, in say a bar? Why is a boyfriend afraid to disagree with his gf? Is he really thinking: 'Oh she might cry domestic violence, I am afraid of the law!'
I don't think so. He is thinking: 'I don't want her to get mad, I need to get laid tonight at ANY cost.'
Not necessarily, look at what I said in my last post.
Men fear the social humiliation that comes with stepping on women's toes. Have you ever seen a guy humiliate a girl in front of her friends? Maybe, but I cant think of too many incidents. He would be socially marred for a long, long time.
But how many times have you seen a girl totally
DIS her boyfriend in public? In front of HIS friends? In front of her friends? I see it All. The. Time.
Part of the social convention matrix that we all live in is that women, in a dispute, have carte blanche to be
right. They can:
Withhold sex
Make you look like an as$
Cry wolf and paint you as the abuser
Mar your reputation
Emasculate you or insult your manhood
All without recompense. Can men do these things to women? Not without social shame and consequences. I'm not saying I want to or we should, because I think we should be a cut above everyone else.
The bottom line is men fear the
consequences of crossing women. Our culture says women should have it all, without having to pay for it or accept equal responsibility.