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I suppose I like sports, films and home theater equipment, the latter which doesn't help, the first one which I guess could work out of attrition but is very hard, and the last... I haven't found any place when you could go and discuss films with the same people on a regular basis. If I had...

So that means smiling and starting tons of small conversations with random strangers in public places and escalating progressively until I get lucky? Because I've nowhere to go to. Society doesn't really offer any options worth a damn for young men who wish to interact with more people. I...

My model serves me badly? I'm eager and I can't put this eagerness to use. It's not like I believe that it's never going to work, that everyone who talks to me implicitly means to belittle me, or that I think lowly of myself. You're saying that my only avenue is basically to develop a keen...

Not psychological in the least. Until very recently in life I had some other pressing issues to deal with, which kept me from worrying about relationships and forming friendships. It happens to some and it's out of their control. Now that I'm ready and willing my only outlet is strangers and...

In my mid-twenties, never went further with a female than talking. In that state because I had a messed up life that I only gained control of very recently. Recently I actually consulted a psychologist, but I was amazed to see that telling her my darkest secrets didn't move me one bit, and...

I only weight 160 pounds, so I guess it's not bad all in all. I do feel really awful at times, but thankfully it's only when I'm isolated for long, when with others I feel fantastic. But then after I've left I begin to feel that these encounters do nothing to me, that there's always some kind...

Fortunately I am not a self-loathing person and I hate pity. I know that the original post, as well as the two posts I've made in the "anyone else can relate" topic sounded extreme, but quite simply I go through a lot of very nasty things that I need to describe. This is the kind of thing I...

Way too expensive for my means

Now in my mid-twenties, after having had a very tormented life due to various factors out of my control and most of all, NOTHING out of girls for all that period, I want everything to change. If there's one thing that makes me fearful it's the body I have. I am undergoing measures to change...

Don't feel bad because some people say that such posts are made to get attention in a cheap way, please. It's always the same jerks hunting the weak, berating them to boost their egos. There's nothing wrong with telling it like it is even if reality is dreadful. Don't feel ashamed for who you...

Hi Eric, Oh yes, hell yes I relate to every single world that you said. I don't even think of myself as ugly or worthless, I have relatively good confidence, and yet I'm now close to 30 and still haven't ever gotten ANYTHING. No girl ever shows any interest in me no matter how hard I smile...