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How often are you calling and texting her? She may just feel smothered and recognize your insecurities. Are you questioning her on every phone call? Try and keep the convos light and more to how is it going and waht have you been up to: not on the lines of quesitoning her about her whereabouts...

Have any of you dated a black woman before? If so, how was your experience.

In respomse to the people that asked why I haven't answered questions: Alot of the questions are geared towards something that is not the issue. Alot of people are misreading the original post. I in noway, shape or form want to get back with him. I am not questioning why the...

I don't trust her or any of them. She will not be aloud to see the baby unsupervised or outside of my home. She said at this point that she will try and "sneak away" to see the baby some time soon..... lol.

Update- His mom called yesterday and ran down a list of excuse. I told her I didn't want to hear any of it. apparently, this is what happened. I told you all he was at the hospital with me from Friday until Wednesday morning. (She was born on monday morning) Prior to her being born, we...

Update- His mom called yesterday and ran down a list of excuse. I told her I didn't want to hear any of it. apparently, this is what happened. I told you all he was at the hospital with me from Friday until Wednesday morning. (She was born on monday morning) Prior to her being born...

Thanks to all of you for your sound advice. As for those of you who think this story is fake: All I can say is that I wish it was. A few questions I noticed: About him running to mom and dad: He just starting working in July. When he lived with me, he wasn't working. He was in school...

I have learned that from now on, I am going to continue to focus on what matters most to me. I am on track. I have my own home and a good career. With that, I intend on making my baby's life as happy and fulfilled as possible. I am not looking for a relationship. I have much I want to...

I both love&hate female posters like Wyldfire, Wilmor, and to some extent, Iqqi, since they are all shining prototypes of what has gone horribly wrong with modern women. After this guy cheated on you and treated you like crap, you "broke up" (he left you for a better-looking woman.) In the...

Well, I feel the same way. I hate to see women manipulate the system and take down good guys. I have some close friends who this happened to. But, in this case, I hope they take the shirt off of his back. Lol, but, yes he runs to mommy and daddy. They still pay some of his bills!!!! lol.

Oh, I know it can get ugly, and that is what I have been trying to avoid. If she wasn't in need of special care, ($2800 per month) I wouldn't even go for child support, but, I have been busting the bank to care for her in the time being. I had to take out a second mortgage on the house and...

Oh, I really want to kick myself in the @ss!!! I am just thinking about the day when I have to explain to my daughter where her father is and why. I feel extremely guilty, like it is my fault and I can't get over that. Maybe with time, I will. But now, every time i think about her getting...

Of course I am a MILF!!! lol.... It is nice to hear a man's perspective. I have talked to females about this and of course, being mother's, they all think he is a jack @ss. I just wanted to see if there was some "guy" explanation for any of this.

OK, number one, he clearly has no confidence or security in himself. He doesn't even respect you. And opbvioulsy has no self respect or self esteem to behave in that manner. he is immature. Inable to handle change and challenges. He sees you as something physical. And now with the baby you are...

[B]Go see a lawyer and make sure he gets involved in Lauren's life. You are going to forget abou thim as a husband, boyfriend, lover, father whatever...he is out for the time being. You are going to get you rhead straight and concentrate on your health and well being and that of Lauren...

A male with no goal. No future. No prospects. Immature. Terrified. Lack of Confidence. Insecure. Anti Social. No Personal Boundary. No relationship skills. No concept of what a reall relationship is like.Shall I go on? The only goal he has is to make money. That is what he said before...

I agree that it was all about his needs. He did want a relationship and he asked a few times before I said yes. At times, most times, he took the relationship more seriously than I did. That was another thing that we argued about. He said I seemed to casual about the whole thing. Every...

I agree that it was all about his needs. He did want a relationship and he asked a few times before I said yes. At times, most times, he took the relationship more seriously than I did. That was another thing that we argued about. He said I seemed to casual about the whole thing. Every...

I agree that it was all about his needs. He did want a relationship and he asked a few times before I said yes. At times, most times, he took the relationship more seriously than I did. That was another thing that we argued about. He said I seemed to casual about the whole thing. Every...

The funny thing is, he has NO FRIENDS!!! Not one!!! lol He never wanted to go out and party or go to the bar for happy hour, nothing... lol.. We argued about that quite a bit. I would try and get him to go out but, he is a home body. He is a computer nerd, mommas boy, who sits in the house and...