Update-
His mom called yesterday and ran down a list of excuse. I told her I didn't want to hear any of it.
apparently, this is what happened. I told you all he was at the hospital with me from Friday until Wednesday morning. (She was born on monday morning)
Prior to her being born, we were trying to work out a way for me to move with him. I knew this wasn't going to happen, so I wasn't actively pursuing selling the house etc. So, what we discussed was that even if we didn;t get back together, we would work out an arrangement or an amount of financial support he would provide without going through the court system. At first, this was my idea and he was opposed, and then the tables turn. He agreed to it. I had in my mind that it wouldn't last long as he is hotheaded and when he gets mad he throws tantrums. I told him I preferred it going through the court system so that we wouldn't have to be in constant contact, through the good and bad after she was born. But, I agreed to this, and I had in my mind that one foul up would be the end. I knew that I didn;t want to feel like I had to beg him every month or keep asking or calling for it.
So, fast forward to the hospital:
It was imperative that I pump breast milk as she was premature and she needed it. ( I had to have it by discharge on Friday) The woman from the hospital store came around and suggested that I try to get a breast pump from insurance. They denied the claim. I turned to Baby daddy and suggested that we go half on it as it was about $400.
He said no. He said that he would pay for the whole thing. I agreed. The woman never came back around that day. He had to leave the hospital on Wednesday morning to go to work. He said, I love you, I will call you later, which he did. He called serveral times on his ride home and after work he called.
Thursday, the woman comes back and I sent him a message and asked him to call so we could discuss how we would pay. He never called back. He knew that I had to have it by discharge on Friday. All of Thursday goes by Friday, and all of Saturday.
Finally, Saturday evening, I sent him a message and let him know that I was going to file for Child Support.
My reasoning: He was showing me right then that if I needed him for something for the baby, he wouldn't be there immediately. It would require begging and constant asking.
So, apparently, this is what p1ssed him off.
His mom says that she is tied up because he is mad and his father, her husband is angry and she can't go against them. I told her I didn;t want to hear any excuses from her or him and that I never wanted to see him again. Basically, I told her any excuse tehy came up with was just that, an excuse!!!!
And now, he is even going as far as to say that he wants a paternity test... LOL... I am not opposed to it, but, I told her that is a cop out. She also, said he called the hospital to check on the baby (the one that isn't his now...lol) I told her that was bull because he name wasn't on any of her information because he wasn't there long enough to sign anything.
Our court date is on the 10th. She believes that things will smooth over after that because then we won't haev anything to argue about. WHATEVER!!!
(PS: She also said "He isn't seeing anybody. I know that for a fact. He comes down all the time because he is lonely")
LIKE I CARE!!!!!
