Hi, all.
Let me start by saying I am a woman in need of advice or maybe suggestions.
Okay, I was dating this guy 5 years ago, and the relationship went horrible. He cheated, treated me horrible and we ended with severe arguments and hate for each other. We didn't talk in that time period. We both went on with our lives. He got engaged and ended the relationship, and I had relationships as well.
Fast forward to last August. We ended up talking again. Everything was perfect. We spent all of our time together and everything was so much different than last time. We both felt that we were done with dating. His parents were discussing our wedding and we were discussing our future as well.
February 2007, he moves in and the first day, things went horribly wrong. He became completely different than how he was when we were dating. He was insecure, always felt I was sneaking and talking to other people. All in all, we argued all the time. He called me names, threw fits about stupid things. I am not completely innocent, because I argued back.
March 2007 I found out I was pregnant. We both had plans on ending the relationship previously, but, when we found out we discussed working on things.
Anywho, that didn't work. He moved out in April. Out of state. When he left, we hugged and termed it a "break" from things. He got to his parent's house and refused to talk to me at all.. in the beginning. Then we started talking and he found a job closer, but still 3 hours away.
We discussed me moving up there and he came down to visit on Weekends. We went shopping for the baby had a good time with each other.
I unexpectedly had the baby early. He was there when I was in the hospital for 3 days, and 2 days after she was born. When he left to go back to work, he said bye, I will call you later, I love you.
Anywho, that was 2 months ago. I haven't heard from him since the baby was 2 days old. He refuses to answer my calls, won't respond to emails and he even had the receptionist at his job tell me he didn't work there when I called... (that was a lie). Of course I got pissed off and called him an a-hole on a few messages etc. But, how could someone leave their baby in Intensive Care and not call to see how she is doing....
What the heck is going on????
Let me start by saying I am a woman in need of advice or maybe suggestions.
Okay, I was dating this guy 5 years ago, and the relationship went horrible. He cheated, treated me horrible and we ended with severe arguments and hate for each other. We didn't talk in that time period. We both went on with our lives. He got engaged and ended the relationship, and I had relationships as well.
Fast forward to last August. We ended up talking again. Everything was perfect. We spent all of our time together and everything was so much different than last time. We both felt that we were done with dating. His parents were discussing our wedding and we were discussing our future as well.
February 2007, he moves in and the first day, things went horribly wrong. He became completely different than how he was when we were dating. He was insecure, always felt I was sneaking and talking to other people. All in all, we argued all the time. He called me names, threw fits about stupid things. I am not completely innocent, because I argued back.
March 2007 I found out I was pregnant. We both had plans on ending the relationship previously, but, when we found out we discussed working on things.
Anywho, that didn't work. He moved out in April. Out of state. When he left, we hugged and termed it a "break" from things. He got to his parent's house and refused to talk to me at all.. in the beginning. Then we started talking and he found a job closer, but still 3 hours away.
We discussed me moving up there and he came down to visit on Weekends. We went shopping for the baby had a good time with each other.
I unexpectedly had the baby early. He was there when I was in the hospital for 3 days, and 2 days after she was born. When he left to go back to work, he said bye, I will call you later, I love you.
Anywho, that was 2 months ago. I haven't heard from him since the baby was 2 days old. He refuses to answer my calls, won't respond to emails and he even had the receptionist at his job tell me he didn't work there when I called... (that was a lie). Of course I got pissed off and called him an a-hole on a few messages etc. But, how could someone leave their baby in Intensive Care and not call to see how she is doing....
What the heck is going on????
