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Ok, I am gonna get this girl :D I am right now, attending a community college. About a month ago, a friend of mine told me about this chick he had a fling with a while back, but things didn't work out, but he told me she was really cute and that I should go with her. I was reluctant at first...

Dude, I have a similar issue. When talking to a particular girl I was gaming, during the conversation I would blank out. She liked me, it wasn't about hooking up with her, cause we were hooked up. I just... had nothing to say... nothing at all. Not sure why either.

I know that. And I have identified this as the main reason- this what has attracted other girls to me. I lost this... somehow. Anyway, the more I think about it the more it makes sense. And I am taking the advice you guys gave me. I deleted her number from my phone. In fact- I have taken steps...

I figured out where I screwed up with my girl- When I first met her I used to be really sexual, and flirt with her sexual. I made sex jokes about us, and I wasn't afraid to feel on her. I knew she liked me. However, when attraction grew between us things changed... I stopped. Not sure why...

No MY dad said that ;)

I need to grow. I feel like... im really tight and serious, you know what I mean? How can I make myself smile and feel comfortable with it? I need to learn to relax... Part of it is stress-- I need to relieve stress. I need to relax and calm my mind down. I think too fast, and too much. Way...

Spoke to my dad earlier today. He said she was just playing games/testing me. He pretty much said don't bother with her for a while, be cool, and don't worry about it. He said he thinks she still has feelings for me, but she is just playing games. He thinks she wants me to chase to her. Makes...

Nevermind. Found out she wants nothing to do with me. Don't know why, after she asked me to call her. Oh well.

Well, she did call me a lot, last week. Things changed... not sure what. She was mad cause I didn't call her. Thats why I started calling her more this week... The weird thing is, I know your right, and I don't know why she insists on me calling... I really don't know. I guess I just got to...

Close enough with the age ;) I've read it. Each girl is different and things were working out for us before. Your not helping either. I think your right. In fact, your exactly right... I was gonna call her later, but now that you have said this I am not going to. I like posts like yours...

So, I was talking with this chick for a while and we were starting a relationship. It wasn't perfect, but thats not possible. Everything was going alright though. We work together, and there was a little drama, but mainly because people I work with were immature but I think all of that has...

It's not about trying harder, its about giving her another chance. Something actually may have come up. Things happen that we can't control. Maybe she just got nervous, who knows? Besides, giving her another chance won't hurt that much, it would just be aggravating if she flakes again. If it...

Sounds like an excuse. She can say that and not feel guilty about flaking you. Makes her sound sorta like a "victim." At least, thats my opinion.

It can't hurt to try again, but I definitely wouldn't get your hopes up. Who knows, something actually might have come up? Trying to be positive here pal :)

Thanks for the advice. Found out HE was lying. No joke. In fact, Kim was worried cause I was mad at her. So worried in fact, people at work (I wasn't around) were asking her what was wrong, till she finally said I think [my name] is really mad at me. She didn't even know what I was talking about...

I wasn't bragging, some other chick took pictures and showed people. And I told kim what happened, and I told her they were gonna ask her, cause they said they were gonna ask her if I kissed her (why? cause billy wanted her to deny it so he could say i sucked at kissing...) She even said she...

Yeah, shes a virgin. I guess I didn't have her, but.. unlike most guys, I am not going to try and pursue her now. At all.. most guys here are like "she flaked on me, how can I get her to not do this??" etc... And your right, I shouldn't care what people think of me, but its hard as hell when...

The sad thing is, your exactly right. I just can't believe this... I feel so low right now. And yeah, dumb doesn't describe her. I don't know how she expected to LIE to me, and not think I would find out, SINCE WE WORK TOGETHER! And I don't know how she expected to lie about me kissing her...

!!!EDIT: Check bottom... problem solved... sorta.!!! This is embarrassing as HELL. Wow. I really have no one I can talk to about this, so I'll post online, hope for some advice. Unlike most posts here, I am not trying to get back a girl who has flaked, or anything like that... You see, I came...

Yeah, I think its all one of those, you want what you can't have. I had her, didn't care, but lost her, and now i do. Sorta. I went to work tonight and someone asked me if I had spoken to her and I said no, they asked why not and I said if she wants to speak to me, she'll speak to me. Then...